How often do you married men have sex?

[PistolPete33]

With your wife of course not with extra-martial affairs. I'm curious how often you guys have sex with your wives per week. My wife and I used to be 2-3 times every week but this year has been a total dry spell of once per week if I'm lucky. We had a bit talk about it this weekend so it's going to change but just curious where everyone else is with their wives.

[Igifuno]

Been married almost 17 years, I'm only 38, and we still rock it out sometimes daily, every other day, whenever we get the chance and sometimes twice a day and it's only gotten better over time. Kids had a sleepover last night so we got down in the closet.

[ghettoboyd]

it will be 17 yrs for me and the wife this year as well and we still go at it 2 times a week consistently...and like igi said it just gets better believe it or not...obviously when we where younger it happened almost daily but in our 40s 2x is pretty good considering at our age we look forward to sleep as much as we do sex lol...

[tarmyg]

1-2/month at the moment as my wife is working 12h/day 6-7 a week and just went through a depression. Things are starting to look up a bit though.

Married 15 years.

[Igifuno]

Sex is good.

Sometimes if I don't want to and the wife does or vice versa, we do it anyway and are always glad we did.

I just hate when she calls out Austinite's name in the process, but whatever.

[Back In Black]

On the 31st of the month.

[tarmyg]

On the 31st of the month.

June must suck, among others.

[Igifuno]

June must suck, among others.

Haha. Nice.

[Brett N]

I'm 43 and she's 37.

Been married since August 1998.

On average I would say we have sex 5-6 times a week. Of course we slow down a tad during that time of the month but we also double up on some days too. We both really like sex and we talk about a lot of desires in the sack even if they will never happen. We make things fun. We have even stopped and had sex in conservation areas just for some fun on the way home from dinner.

Kids make it more challenging but that can be fun also trying to find a way to have a quickie.

[Hoggage_54]

I'm single and I masturbate daily, sometimes twice a day.

[Igifuno]

I'm single and I masturbate daily, sometimes twice a day.

Good man.

[btpolak]

I'm single and I masturbate daily, sometimes twice a day.

I remember those days. Unfortunately, the wife and I only have a go at least once a week. She doesn't have the libido like I do and I sure as hell wish I could find something that would increase it. For a 28 year old, you would think it would still be up there. In her early to mid 20s it was still up to a couple times a day every other day but not so much these days.

[krugerr]

Four years for me and the Mrs, but at aged 26, were at it EOD. But that's because she's pregnant currently. ?

[< <Samson> >]

Me & the wife are just freaks. It works - for us at least

If she don't get it daily she gets weird and I get all annoyed and agitated.

[BG]

2-3. Nasty sex

[Hazard]

2-3. Nasty sex

Men don't count.....

[lovbyts]

With the wife?

[GirlyGymRat]

With the wife?

no I think he means with his wife :P

[lovbyts]

no I think he means with his wife :P

OK that that sense now. I don't kiss and tell.

[davidtheman100]

That must be awkward like you are usually expecting 2-3 times a week or something and then you've only done it once and the week is winding down and your wife isn't saying anything so you're just like trying to bring it up without being direct and she doesn't catch on? These are some awkward things i think about when i think of being married lol...

[zempey]

Mine is a nympho, she would be happy daily. We have been married 20 years this year and we do it 5-6 times a week now that I am on trt. I used to be able to go weeks without it, between low test and an overweight wife there wasn't much desire. She has lost a bunch of weight and feels better about herself so now we are both much happier with the frequency.

[Euroholic]

You would think they would pump on daily. What other perk is there of marriage than quiff on tap?

[Euroholic]

Been married almost 17 years, I'm only 38, and we still rock it out sometimes daily, every other day, whenever we get the chance and sometimes twice a day and it's only gotten better over time. Kids had a sleepover last night so we got down in the closet.

What does that mean? Thats not something weird is it mate?

[saymass003]

I know you asked married men, but I'm answering anyway . My husband and I time our cycles to run at the same time. When we are on cycle it's 3 or 4 times everyday, and when we are off it falls back to once per day. We have been together for 15 years and it never gets old!

[lovbyts]

You would think they would pump on daily. What other perk is there of marriage than quiff on tap?

Because most women dont think the same as men and due to hormone changes (frequently) with women a lot are just not really interested in sex and of course the act of sex is not what works for most women but it's the emotional buildup to it, very different than guys.

A lot of women turn off the sex after marriage. I have several friends who have complained about that over the years after marriage. Its like they will pretend to be all into it when they are dating and once married it just turns off. Thus the old saying, do you know what food group kills the sex drive in women? Wedding cake.

[Igifuno]

What does that mean? Thats not something weird is it mate?

It's when kids have guest over and they stay the night. What do they call it in Australia?

[Euroholic]

It's when kids have guest over and they stay the night. What do they call it in Australia?

I don't have kids so I'm not really sure. Probably the same I've just never seen that context before.

[NACH3]

Because most women dont think the same as men and due to hormone changes (frequently) with women a lot are just not really interested in sex and of course the act of sex is not what works for most women but it's the emotional buildup to it, very different than guys.

A lot of women turn off the sex after marriage. I have several friends who have complained about that over the years after marriage. Its like they will pretend to be all into it when they are dating and once married it just turns off. Thus the old saying, do you know what food group kills the sex drive in women? Wedding cake.

When I was w-my ex(7+ yrs) we had sex at least everyday... Then when we moved in together it was great in the beginning(then she musta had some of that wedding cake) LB was discussing - then I got diagnosed w/low t... Wasn't cool lol - glad that's outta the weigh now)....

But daily + for me - then again being single has its Perks yet not the same as having your wife/fiance around at all times...

[Igifuno]

I don't have kids so I'm not really sure. Probably the same I've just never seen that context before.

Well, assuming you were a kid once, and assuming you either slept over a friends house, or a friends slept over your house at some point in your childhood, whatever you call that, that's what it was.

See, now we've turned nice conversation about sex into one about kids. Now it's weird.

[Brett N]

Because most women dont think the same as men and due to hormone changes (frequently) with women a lot are just not really interested in sex and of course the act of sex is not what works for most women but it's the emotional buildup to it, very different than guys.

A lot of women turn off the sex after marriage. I have several friends who have complained about that over the years after marriage. Its like they will pretend to be all into it when they are dating and once married it just turns off. Thus the old saying, do you know what food group kills the sex drive in women? Wedding cake.

With the first wife, she quit wanting it within a month of marriage. I could of even understood if she was banging someone else but she wasn't. It eventually led to our divorce and 90% of our fights. Marriage didn't last long, about a year.

They say sex isn't that big of a part of your marriage unless you aren't having it, then it's the biggest part.

[Joco71]

With the first wife, she quit wanting it within a month of marriage. I could of even understood if she was banging someone else but she wasn't. It eventually led to our divorce and 90% of our fights. Marriage didn't last long, about a year.

They say sex isn't that big of a part of your marriage unless you aren't having it, then it's the biggest part.

Thats unfortunate Brett! She must have really gotten into the preverbial wedding cake.

[Brett N]

Not really, best thing that ever happened to me. It was a shitty year, but what's a year? No kids involved. No assets really. No different than dating someone for a year except we had to pay a lwayer to end it.

Sometimes you never really know your compatible until it is too late. My current wife knew what happened to my first marriage. I also let her know that sex to a man is how they express their love. I also let her know that if things changed like in my first marriage, I would definitely repeat the same ending. Sex is important to me and my relationship as well as honesty.

We are 100% compatible, I would have never gotten this if I didn't go through what I went through with my ex. I wish her all the luck in her pursuit of finding someone who doesn't like sex as much as she didn't like it. Maybe she will marry a closeted homosexual who does everything behind her back. She would probably be ok with that.

[davidtheman100]

I wish her all the luck in her pursuit of finding someone who doesn't like sex as much as she didn't like it. Maybe she will marry a closeted homosexual who does everything behind her back. She would probably be ok with that.

lmfao word

[Sfla80]

Well we are still newlyweds but gonna say 5 days a week is average. But we at least do foreplay every night. Would honestly say she has gone down on me every night for 3 weeks now.

I know all will change by the time baby pops out...but I'll just enjoy while I can. Lol

[BG]

Men don't count.....

Supreme Court says they do.......

[Hazard]

Supreme Court says they do.......

Touché

[NACH3]

Supreme Court says they do.......

I literally just spit my drink all over my iPad lmfao

[Shol'va]

Several times a week......No wait you mean how many times as a married man do you have sex with your wife per week. i thought you meant how many times a week does a person have sex with a married man a week? either way there's a lot of married men having sex with their partner, best married friend and or their partner and with others as well. Just sayin...

[RaginCajun]

^^^^^^^hahahaha

[bass]

ah this is what i miss about this place, the smart-ass and brilliant answers! LOL

in my opinion the reason sex slows down as you age is because you get more things to worry about and less time to think about sex. unless of course you're on TRT