Im a premature ejaculator!!!!

[yeahbuddy289]

Now that I have your attention, I really need some help lol. I have had this problem since the very first time I had sex. It seems to get worse the more comfortable I am with the girl. I have been with my current girlfriend for the past 6 years and honestly I cant remember the last time we had sex that lasted longer than 2-3 minutes... hell im lucky if I make it past 1 minute some days lol. We do a lot of foreplay (Me and her) and I just get so worked up to have sex and its over before I know it and its really starting to suck.

I cant think of anything mentally that would have caused this... Ive tried thinking of non sexual things to last longer, and slowing it down, but id literally have to not move at all to prevent it from happening. Ive tried masturbating a ton and not masturbating at all. I refuse to try numbing cream because whats the point if neither one of use can feel anything. Hormone wise, ive had low test, high test... doesnt make a difference. My estrogen was in check when I had my last TRT blood work. The only thing I think that might cause it was my prolactin level was at the very top of the scale last time it was checked, but it wasnt out of range (believe the max was 16 and it was at 16) I am not taking any other medications that would cause this.. like I said its been going on my whole life.

Please help... this is getting old. Really hoping Austinite has a stack for this one lol.

[Euroholic]

If i could i would trade with you mate. Im 26 and the older i get the longer its been taking me. in my youth i was a few minutes and life was good now Its around the 20-30 minute mark its so frustrating i dont have the cardio ability or the concentration to pump for 30 minutes.

[73rr]

To funny,
Um maybe get a whiskey dick haha.
I no it would suck but have u tried "unloading" 30 min before activities start?

One of my college buddies used to play with the one eye snake before he got a girl in bed. Used to claim that it helped last longer.

[73rr]

If i could i would trade with you mate. Im 26 and the older i get the longer its been taking me. in my youth i was a few minutes and life was good now Its around the 20-30 minute mark its so frustrating i dont have the cardio ability or the concentration to pump for 30 minutes.

That's when u let her do the work! Haha

[yeahbuddy289]

Euro Im 26 as well and still just as quick as I was in my high school days lol.

73rr I have fun alcohol helps a little but I very rarely drink these days. I have found that once I get that first easy one out the next one takes longer. But, I cant seem to get my self to have sex more than once a day. After I get that release sex doesnt even cross my mind till the following day. I could force my self to have sex as I am able to physically, I just have no desire for it.

[73rr]

Euro Im 26 as well and still just as quick as I was in my high school days lol.

73rr I have fun alcohol helps a little but I very rarely drink these days. I have found that once I get that first easy one out the next one takes longer. But, I cant seem to get my self to have sex more than once a day. After I get that release sex doesnt even cross my mind till the following day. I could force my self to have sex as I am able to physically, I just have no desire for it.

Crazy. I'm 26 also. And I would actually say that I have about the same sex drive as u. 1 time a day is plenty enough for me. But I don't have any issue with my ability. Not saying that u have a real issue. To tell u the truth alot of the time I just give up before I can't get off.

[Hoggage_54]

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[Bonaparte]

Ask your doc about dapoxetine. It's a short-acting SSRI that treats premature ejaculation.

Even if you don't last any longer, at least you won't be depressed about it afterward

[Hoggage_54]

[jimmyinkedup]

I think you nailed it with prolactin. When I take pramipexole I cant nut if my life depended on it. Can go forever without getting off.
Have you ever taken prami?

[jimmyinkedup]

Ask your doc about dapoxetine. It's a short-acting SSRI that treats premature ejaculation.

Even if you don't last any longer, at least you won't be depressed about it afterward

Someone started a thread about this on another forum, I just read it today. They said it works almost too well. Maybe look into it. Much better idea than taking a dopamine agonist (prami) like I suggested.

[yeahbuddy289]

Jimmy I've never taken prami before although I have thought about it due to my prolactin being somewhat high.

Bonaparte- I am very interested in trying this. Are there any side effects I should know about? Do you just take it before you know you're going to have sex or is it something you take daily? Curious as to how it works. I will probably talk to my doctor about it but I doubt he will know much about it.

[calgarian]

Euro Im 26 as well and still just as quick as I was in my high school days lol.

73rr I have fun alcohol helps a little but I very rarely drink these days. I have found that once I get that first easy one out the next one takes longer. But, I cant seem to get my self to have sex more than once a day. After I get that release sex doesnt even cross my mind till the following day. I could force my self to have sex as I am able to physically, I just have no desire for it.

wait are you telling me that once you done and cannot get it hard to go for second and third round??? I normally just tell them to suck it and by the time I am done with their parts its hard again and I could go like that for 2-3 hours and it gets even longer when I am on cycle. seriously you cant get it up once when are done??

[NACH3]

Someone started a thread about this on another forum, I just read it today. They said it works almost too well. Maybe look into it. Much better idea than taking a dopamine agonist (prami) like I suggested

^^^ so true w/prami! Wonder why we don't want to stop taking it lmao(obviously we do discontinue use after cycle) but still I've thought about it lol(not only for sex but I sleep like a rock)

[kelkel]

Ask your doc about dapoxetine. It's a short-acting SSRI that treats premature ejaculation.

Even if you don't last any longer, at least you won't be depressed about it afterward

That's hysterical. At YB's expense yet still hysterical. YB you should post a pic of your girlfriend and then we'll give you our opinion on whether the premature ejaculation issue is justified or not.

[MrFreshmaker]

YB you should post a pic of your girlfriend and then we'll give you our opinion on whether the premature ejaculation issue is justified or not.

I swear i was about to say this...try with other gf and then u can see if you really have a problem!
You are 25,you said you are with her for 6 years,that means since 19...just try smth different lol...

[Bonaparte]

Bonaparte- I am very interested in trying this. Are there any side effects I should know about? Do you just take it before you know you're going to have sex or is it something you take daily? Curious as to how it works. I will probably talk to my doctor about it but I doubt he will know much about it.

I barely know anything about it. But it is to be taken like Viagra, so you just take one 30-60 minutes before sex and it lasts a few hours.

[yeahbuddy289]

I can get hard and go at it again after the first round but I have no desire to. Kel she's very attractive but not enough to justify going that quick lol. Do you think prami would be worth a shot or should I really try to go see my doctor for the other stuff? I have a feeling he will tell me it's normal or all in my head and seeing him will just be a waste of my time.

[Juced_porkchop]

i would rec low dose prami possibly and i would rec beatng it 1 or 2 times a hr BEFORE sex. if you dont have desire maybe try peptide ipt 141. i can only imagine the GF is not too happy with 5min or less..
shit man i wish i could go quicker. 30min+ and sometimes i feel like my body will give out its taking soo long. but i want to nut 3 or 4 times a day (atleast 2 would be nice) but everyone differs, ipt 141 and beating it alot might help

[Bonaparte]

High prolactin causes anorgasmia (inability to orgasm), so I fail to see why a dopamine agonist would help.

[MrFreshmaker]

High prolactin causes anorgasmia (inability to orgasm), so I fail to see why a dopamine agonist would help.

This^^
In fact low prolactin causes premature ejaculation

[yeahbuddy289]

So it looks like my options are see a doctor or try some itp 141 to help me want to go multiple times.

[RaginCajun]

So it looks like my options are see a doctor or try some itp 141 to help me want to go multiple times.

you don't like giving it to her multiple times?

no desire?

i have to opposite problem, takes a while to nut but i can be back at attention really quick and on it like a Thumper!

[Bonaparte]

So it looks like my options are see a doctor or try some itp 141 to help me want to go multiple times.

You can get black market dapoxetine too, but I figured why not get it from a doc so that you know it's legit? Doctors are usually psyched to hand out antidepressants and boner pills.

[Igifuno]

You can get black market dapoxetine too, but I figured why not get it from a doc so that you know it's legit? Doctors are usually psyched to hand out antidepressants and boner pills.

They really are. Can't tell you how many times docs have tried to prescribe me anti-depressants.

[yeahbuddy289]

I dont know if I like the idea of taking anti depressants.. I mean couldnt I become dependent on it or have some bad adverse sides from it?

[Bonaparte]

I dont know if I like the idea of taking anti depressants.. I mean couldnt I become dependent on it or have some bad adverse sides from it?

You could do a little research on it...

And no, they aren't habit forming at all.

[yeahbuddy289]

yeah I did some research, hard to tell what info is legit and what is crap. I will talk with my doctor about this. Seems people get the best results form 30mg.

[novastepp]

from a non-pharm standpoint, look into tantric sex. Some guys are able to reach the point of climax, back off, and then take a quick pause (literally a pause, or do other things) and then perform for an extended time afterwards. To be honest, with practice this is easily achieved and can become commonplace. It isn't withholding an ejaculation, as it is beginning to understand how to move beyond the premature feelings of ejaculation.

[rdmercer]

do you take any supplements? try some horney goat weed. and some cials. it works up to 36 hours, another thing you could try is to wack off with a wash cloth before you have sex with your girl

[hawk14dl]

I'd try cialis. I've had the same problem in the past

I had a girl flying in about a month ago. I knew she was going to want tons of sex all weekend. So about a week before, i started low dose cia twice daily. I'd take 30 minutes every time. It was actually almost annoying, 10 minutes would be great.

Anyways, after she left I discontinued the cialis. Just Friday, a gal invited me to her place (we'd hooked up before multiple times, so there wasn't any "new excitement") we got started and in a manner of about 2 minutes i was done.

Just my experience. Your mileage may vary.

[yeahbuddy289]

I take cialis at a low does daily... Hasnt made a difference. The more we do it the longer I can go. The problem is we have different work schedules so we dont really see each other that much.

[Hoggage_54]

[yeahbuddy289]

Lol where do you find this stuff???

[Score]

Get her off first, either orally or with your hand, and after that I promise she won't want you to last more than a minute.

[Igifuno]

Get her off first, either orally or with your hand, and after that I promise she won't want you to last more than a minute.

Not always. For some, that's just when they get started. Trust me.

[Bio-Active]

Not always. For some, that's just when they get started. Trust me.

^^^^ this is true for sure

[Hazard]

Get her off first, either orally or with your hand, and after that I promise she won't want you to last more than a minute.

Ain't nobody got time fo dat.....