My beautiful wife had to have a lumbar fusion of L5-L4. And of course sex has been a no go for 1 month 3 days and counting! You would think that a 49 year old man even with sky high testosterone levels could control his sexual urges to a live able degree. But it is soooooooooo hard! To control my urges that is! I'm I going to be ok? I certainly don't want to "screw the pooch" so to speak!