Would you get the autopsy report?
My ex and I broke up 3.5 years ago. We had known each other for about 7 years. We lived together in Europe and later we lived together stateside with her 2-year-old daughter from her previous marriage.
She took her own life at the age of 33 in April of this year. Quite literally the only information I have about her death is that her death certificate says Suicide. Her family and friends won't reply to messages, and her sister hung up when I called her.
So for me, there's all sorts of questions like:
How did she do it?
Who found her?
Was she in intensive care for a few days?
Did an ambulance take her, or did family throw her in the backseat of the car?
Did she leave a note, or a video?
For 750 US$ I can get the police report and autopsy report complete with photographs.
What would you do in my position?