
Originally Posted by
HoldMyBeer
So I can't think clearly. Need input
GF and I decided to get dessert
She what I wanted. I said coffee roll and a donut, if they don't have that, let's go to the store and get cinnamon rolls
They didn't have it, so she got other donuts. I threw them out and went to the store to get what I wanted (so I didn't eat both). Now she's mad at me for throwing away the donuts (that she would not have eaten anyways)
In itself, not too bad. But earlier she showed me this racist ass jpg that basically said if a minority kills someone, we do something about it (increase police presence, travel ban, etc). If a white person kills someone, we do nothing. I explained to her how there's a correlation of black on black crime and gang activity and increased patrols can help, the percentage of extremists and travel bans, etc. There's a correlation and a direct action that can be taken. With white murderers, it's all across the board and there is no one thing that will help it.
So I was already unhappy w her. I want some time apart but every room except the bedroom is hot as hell. And idk if just leaving altogether will be overkill and just hurt her feelings.
Am I being crazy?