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Thread: Type A's and acceptance of your plight

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    Type A's and acceptance of your plight

    This is not for the wandering type B personality or type C or D.

    What you read here will lead you to failure.

    I am extreme type "A." I have battled with it badly and only recently discovered why. This is not a good personality trait for the purposes of family or relationships. We are all a mix of the types. Some hold more true to the bounds of one of the types defining traits though.

    A type "A" looks for what they excel at. If they find flaw in something they pursue, they quickly abandon it. Why be sufficient at one thing when you can excel in another, with proportional application of yourself?

    I thought type A's were superior. A dominating type; leaders, bosses, advancers, and driven at that.

    This is true but we lack many traits of success that can lead to total burnout and failure.

    You are a pusher as a type A.
    You shove forward demanding success.
    The things you put foremost on your priorities will most likely happen. We are dream seekers and give 100% to a task. You will not be beaten at work. You will not give dedication unless it is a top priority that requires it. Its a flaw in your personality.

    I wish I could say I was half the family man a type B is. They accept what is and make the best of it.

    After my divorce I let everything go.
    I became this freak that would not accept failure. I quit my job and went to work for myself. That became #1 priority, #2 was bodybuilding. #3, 4, 5, and 10 were success at those two.

    Somewhere way down the list were relationships with family. A type A is a self serving dick if they let it get that far.

    When I have a bad day I take it out on those closest to me. I want them to feel what I do. Fact is no other personality type but a type A that is dedicated to family can deal with that shit.

    They will pour their fucking heart out trying to keep you satiated and the family together. You are a poisonous self centered asshole in the meantime.

    My lady is the best there is. She is a family #1 type A. The things she does to make things work are not measureable in any other way than to say, SHE APPLIES 100%.

    Then the dick dedicated to his interests and success at them starts seeing failure creeping up...

    That innocent lady catches the brunt of it. Every time she did something less than perfect will be called out. The fact that she just wants a strong family will be cut down. "You dont understand how hard it is!"

    You want to learn hard?
    Try being in a relationship with you!
    Fucking dick!

    I am not of the "women are superior" mindset of today.
    Quite frankly, it would take a dozen women to do what I do. Now raise a kid.... It would take a crack hoe to do as good a job as I could alone.

    Priorities...
    What are yours?

    A type A, is the most unbalanced personality type you will find. Don't fight it.
    Set your priorities and accept it. Accept what you cant change and be there for those that need you.

    Giving your all is natural. You dont need help there. You just need to set your priorities. Priorities will not be what you want and this shit hurts like a bitch to learn. I am trying and failing but I know this is the way.

    Success is to be determined.
    As a type A, you will never be satisfied though.
    Seeking success can ruin a good, driven, strong type A.
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    This is how I know I will get my pro card.

    Who stands behind you?

    You will become who you surround yourself with.
    Listen to ronnie coleman talk about his lady.

    I had a real bad day today, but guess who will make it all better!?

    Your priorities will make or undo you.
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    And all the shit lifts away.

    I am all better now with a few words from someone I was a dick to.

    Get real.
    Get it straight.
    Dont be fake.

    If you dont know Lindsy, I am sorry. You will always come in second to me.
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    No woman like that besides her.
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    Sibscribe and share so I can quit this bullshit and go back to lifting.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Obs View Post
    You scare me. Lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by Capebuffalo View Post
    You scare me. Lol
    Only real men drink busch light.
    It scares most people.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Obs View Post
    Sibscribe and share so I can quit this bullshit and go back to lifting.
    Will there be more vids?

    Busch was my beer of choice when I lived in the mid-west, good shit.

    Happy you have the support of a great woman Obs! I know that without mine, I’d have died years ago.

    Got to tell you & maybe it wasn’t the intended effect, but that video had me lmao. But a little reminiscent of Joe Peschi in Good Fellas, when Ray Liota said he was funny.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Proximal View Post
    Will there be more vids?

    Busch was my beer of choice when I lived in the mid-west, good shit.

    Happy you have the support of a great woman Obs! I know that without mine, I’d have died years ago.

    Got to tell you & maybe it wasn’t the intended effect, but that video had me lmao. But a little reminiscent of Joe Peschi in Good Fellas, when Ray Liota said he was funny.
    I intended it funny. Just finslly got a reason to sit and drink beer. Always be more videos
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    Quote Originally Posted by cylon357 View Post
    Isn't Busch and Busch Light made from the Mulberry tree? Sounds like it might be the only good thing to come from it...

    I hope not. I will change brands
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    Have one of the kiddos record a workout at the gym
    Find some free video editing software and voice over some of that motivation material you post. That would be good stuff
    YouTube algorithm prefers videos that are 8+ minutes btw (according to all the big YouTubers who were complaining about them changing the algorithm) if you're interested in expanding on that
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    Quote Originally Posted by HoldMyBeer View Post
    Have one of the kiddos record a workout at the gym
    Find some free video editing software and voice over some of that motivation material you post. That would be good stuff
    YouTube algorithm prefers videos that are 8+ minutes btw (according to all the big YouTubers who were complaining about them changing the algorithm) if you're interested in expanding on that
    I know there is a million tricks to it.
    Takes time.
    I gotta get a little better situated before I do any workout vids. Not trying to be like the rest though. I was just giving my thoughts on people in general after someone told me to "Be safe".

    More fun than anything.
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    Do your eyes always bug out??


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    Quote Originally Posted by charger69 View Post
    Do your eyes always bug out??


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    Let me see yours for comparison
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    I cant figure out how to follow? Do I have to be on my account?
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    Everything was impossible until somebody did it!

    I've got 99 problems......but my squat/dead ain't one !!

    It doesnt matter how good looking she is, some where, some one is tired of her shit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BG View Post
    I cant figure out how to follow? Do I have to be on my account?
    Yes


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    Quote Originally Posted by charger69 View Post
    yes


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    Quote Originally Posted by BG View Post
    I cant figure out how to follow? Do I have to be on my account?
    Yes.
    You cant do it from here.
    Clicking my channel button here though should take you to your youtube acct

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    Quote Originally Posted by charger69 View Post
    Do your eyes always bug out??


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    Folks look for my new sunglasses in my upcoming videos.

    Fuck you kindly sir.
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    Quote Originally Posted by charger69 View Post
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    You're famous now...
    You have to watch it all

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    Quote Originally Posted by Obs View Post


    You're famous now...
    You have to watch it all
    Speaking of trees. Can you tell me how much to cut this tree down and haul off? As you can see you have unopposed access 360 degrees around it. I can send more photos if needed.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Capebuffalo View Post
    Speaking of trees. Can you tell me how much to cut this tree down and haul off? As you can see you have unopposed access 360 degrees around it. I can send more photos if needed.
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    Oh shit I got you for 350
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    Quote Originally Posted by Obs View Post
    Oh shit I got you for 350
    What you need right there is a large auger bit about 50 pounds of tannerite, or if you make the hole big enough a 20 pound propane tank should do the job.

    If my calculations are correct there won’t be much of anything left to haul away, and Cape will get some free mulch out of the deal
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    Quote Originally Posted by i_SLAM_cougars View Post
    What you need right there is a large auger bit about 50 pounds of tannerite, or if you make the hole big enough a 20 pound propane tank should do the job.

    If my calculations are correct there won’t be much of anything left to haul away, and Cape will get some free mulch out of the deal
    I would hire you

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    Quote Originally Posted by i_SLAM_cougars View Post
    What you need right there is a large auger bit about 50 pounds of tannerite, or if you make the hole big enough a 20 pound propane tank should do the job.

    If my calculations are correct there won’t be much of anything left to haul away, and Cape will get some free mulch out of the deal
    That tree he posted is one of those 30' diameter trunk world trees.
    Noah floated by the sumbitch and said "GD I bet that thing is old!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Obs View Post
    That tree he posted is one of those 30' diameter trunk world trees.
    Noah floated by the sumbitch and said "GD I bet that thing is old!"
    Baobab Trees in Africa. 2000 yrs old in some cases.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Capebuffalo View Post
    Baobab Trees in Africa. 2000 yrs old in some cases.
    I feel like the lumber from that would be incredible
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    Quote Originally Posted by Capebuffalo View Post
    Baobab Trees in Africa. 2000 yrs old in some cases.
    Only surpassed by the lowly joshua tree I believe

    And cloning trees like the old ines in norway dont count.
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    Obs. Though it doesn’t really matter, my wife who is a 62 y.o. liberal feminist, agrees with me - you are amazingly funny & natural in front of a camera.

    JC, we had tears running down our face laughing so hard! And the f’n squirrel man, insane.

    Ever see the movie(s) Sharknado?

    One of the producers was my neighbor & I still keep in contact with him. Want me to send him your vids?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Proximal View Post
    Obs. Though it doesn’t really matter, my wife who is a 62 y.o. liberal feminist, agrees with me - you are amazingly funny & natural in front of a camera.

    JC, we had tears running down our face laughing so hard! And the f’n squirrel man, insane.

    Ever see the movie(s) Sharknado?

    One of the producers was my neighbor & I still keep in contact with him. Want me to send him your vids?
    Yeah I saw that movie. My kids loved it and watched it a million times.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Proximal View Post
    Obs. Though it doesn’t really matter, my wife who is a 62 y.o. liberal feminist, agrees with me - you are amazingly funny & natural in front of a camera.

    JC, we had tears running down our face laughing so hard! And the f’n squirrel man, insane.

    Ever see the movie(s) Sharknado?

    One of the producers was my neighbor & I still keep in contact with him. Want me to send him your vids?
    Thx btw.
    When I get a go pro it will get a lot more inteeresting
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    Quote Originally Posted by Proximal View Post
    Obs. Though it doesn’t really matter, my wife who is a 62 y.o. liberal feminist, agrees with me - you are amazingly funny & natural in front of a camera.

    JC, we had tears running down our face laughing so hard! And the f’n squirrel man, insane.

    Ever see the movie(s) Sharknado?

    One of the producers was my neighbor & I still keep in contact with him. Want me to send him your vids?
    I recently got too tired to care what people think of me beyond patrons. By thatI mean I feel relaxed in front of a crowd....
    Going to try to build a channel the next few years. Its hard to get subscribers.
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    Well keep posting bro, you’re great!

    Sorry, we do kind of have hedges on our property though. But to balance that, we are very squirrel friendly.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Proximal View Post
    Well keep posting bro, you’re great!

    Sorry, we do kind of have hedges on our property though. But to balance that, we are very squirrel friendly.
    Lol,
    Thanks you two.
    We let the gray squirrels go today (gf did).
    This little fox girl is choosing me over gf.

    Gf did an excellent job on the greys.
    They would have died within hours if she hadnt got them.

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    I appreciate the compliments from you a lot prox.
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    My wife say’s you’re welcome & have a great nite!

    We’ve butted heads, but I always know that you are a rock solid dude. My pleasure Obs. When you’re a star out here in Hollywood, come visit for dinner.

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    I googled, "I want to see something retarded", and ended up here. Not saying there is a correlation in anyway!
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    Quote Originally Posted by tarmyg View Post
    I googled, "I want to see something retarded", and ended up here. Not saying there is a correlation in anyway!
    ^^^ every youtube comment ever!^^^
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