Buying the wife a boob job? Anyone?

[C27H40O3]

why would i give a shit what others think? are they paying my mortgage?

[C27H40O3]

Lmao oh you dont want to make your wife smoking hot... She will leave you!

Sounds like highschooler mentality.

If the insecure boys out there would apply their insecurity energy to making themselves better they would realize their wife is not a posession. She is an extension of your miserable self.

Really think about how stupid that is.
You want someone to stick around that is only with you because she is insecure?
I guess I'm not that shallow.
I want the real deal in a wife or gf. She has unlimited options but chooses to be with me.
I guess some guys don't mind being a last resort.

I used to help out a friend doing marital investigation jobs sometimes. One time the chick started going to the gym, worrying about her appearance more. Buys new clothes. The guy is not a gym guy. the guy gets suspicious, and calls my buddy to follow her. we photograph her going to the gym, leaving and going to a short stay motel in brooklyn. meeting the same guy every wednesday.

another had a chick who got a boob job, changing up the rest of her appearance also, new hair style, tighter clothes, etc..., the whole nine yards. she says she wants to take yoga classes. the guy knows she is not into exercise. The "yoga instructor" was no instructor at all, just a co worker the guy later remembers meeting at her yearly office party. They left her car behind applebee's right after work at the office building nextdoor, and would go together to the no tell motel. She even bought a mat that stayed in her trunk.

i could go on and on. a guy who doesnt get his spidey sense raised up when his lady or wife switches up the routine in her appearance is a chump. he is usually the last to know.

The terms "mamao", "cabrón", "venao" all exist for a reason. Such as "That chump paid for new titties for his wife, now she never comes home after work. F'ing cabrón."

[C27H40O3]

Women are creatures of habit. easy to see whats happening if you are properly in tune to them. most dudes are oblivious.

in my younger days, i used to hit the after-work spots in brooklyn. Plenty of women crowded in after getting out of work in lower manhattan. I cant remember how many times i would take a chick back to the crib for about six hours, or even the night. Many lived with a dude, even married. I asked how they could stay out all night. they would all say that they just tell him they went out with their friends after work and had a little too much to drink so they went to their girlfriends place to stay then go back to work with them in the morning. They were school teachers, office workers, lawyers, etc.. All had good jobs, but they lived with naive chumps. I would just put them on the subway in the morning, or drop them by their subway stop around 1 AM.

If my wife ever started with that shit, i would make sure i could find the pre-nup, because it's all gonna go downhill from there.

[Obs]

Women are creatures of habit. easy to see whats happening if you are properly in tune to them. most dudes are oblivious.

in my younger days, i used to hit the after-work spots in brooklyn. Plenty of women crowded in after getting out of work in lower manhattan. I cant remember how many times i would take a chick back to the crib for about six hours, or even the night. Many lived with a dude, even married. I asked how they could stay out all night. they would all say that they just tell him they went out with their friends after work and had a little too much to drink so they went to their girlfriends place to stay then go back to work with them in the morning. They were school teachers, office workers, lawyers, etc.. All had good jobs, but they lived with naive chumps. I would just put them on the subway in the morning, or drop them by their subway stop around 1 AM.

If my wife ever started with that shit, i would make sure i could find the pre-nup, because it's all gonna go downhill from there.

All downhill...
The one I know best was not well off enough to be getting the surgery.
Her and her husband are wealthier than all the posters in this thread combined now probably x10 or more.

If the option for her to have the confidence to leave me at any time isn't there, then she is with me for lack of options and useless to me.

There is not much of a difference between keeping her back from what she wants and beating her into submission like a middle easterner.

[GearHeaded]

most guys that are confident and have their shit together and are generally "alpha" are not necessarily oblivious to what their wife is doing, they simply don't care cause they have their own shit that they are doing and an entire world to conquer.. and for most guys that are this way, their wives have no desire to cheat anyhow.
if a guy is worried about his wife cheating , then he probably has self confidence issues and a host of other mental short comings (those are the type of guys that usually get cheat on anyhow)

[Nephets]

I agree with some of that but I don't think most men are as oblivious as you think. I know damn well when my wife is happy with me and when shes not. If you bought your wife new boobs and she leaves you, you more then likely missed a ton of other signals before that. Almost no-one leaves a happy marriage. The woman you describe we probably lonely or ignored for years before they got to that point.

[Obs]

I used to help out a friend doing marital investigation jobs sometimes. One time the chick started going to the gym, worrying about her appearance more. Buys new clothes. The guy is not a gym guy. the guy gets suspicious, and calls my buddy to follow her. we photograph her going to the gym, leaving and going to a short stay motel in brooklyn. meeting the same guy every wednesday.

another had a chick who got a boob job, changing up the rest of her appearance also, new hair style, tighter clothes, etc..., the whole nine yards. she says she wants to take yoga classes. the guy knows she is not into exercise. The "yoga instructor" was no instructor at all, just a co worker the guy later remembers meeting at her yearly office party. They left her car behind applebee's right after work at the office building nextdoor, and would go together to the no tell motel. She even bought a mat that stayed in her trunk.

i could go on and on. a guy who doesnt get his spidey sense raised up when his lady or wife switches up the routine in her appearance is a chump. he is usually the last to know.

The terms "mamao", "cabrón", "venao" all exist for a reason. Such as "That chump paid for new titties for his wife, now she never comes home after work. F'ing cabrón."

Once again... These guys... Do they deserve the women?
There is a lot that goes on behind closed doors. You have heard the guys side from a third person perspective.

I know good and bad on both sides of the spectrum in both sexes. You are basing your judgement off a very very silly demographic.

For instance about 70% of couples cheat at some point.
One might say oxygen is more likely to cause cheating than a breast augmentation.

[Obs]

most guys that are confident and have their shit together and are generally "alpha" are not necessarily oblivious to what their wife is doing, they simply don't care cause they have their own shit that they are doing and an entire world to conquer.. and for most guys that are this way, their wives have no desire to cheat anyhow.
if a guy is worried about his wife cheating , then he probably has self confidence issues and a host of other mental short comings (those are the type of guys that usually get cheat on anyhow)

Yep!
My failings are being too wound and ignoring her. Mine was a bartender. When I met her she gave me her number and I didnt care if she stuck around or not. Pretty quickly, I saw one of my failings in my previous marriage.

Not saying my ex wasnt a pos, but I wouldn't allow her to be what she wanted. I knew she was a cheater.

Women are used to insecure males.
Secure strong independent males get their choice of women. The reasons are obvious.

I agree with some of that but I don't think most men are as oblivious as you think. I know damn well when my wife is happy with me and when shes not. If you bought your wife new boobs and she leaves you, you more then likely missed a ton of other signals before that. Almost no-one leaves a happy marriage. The woman you describe we probably lonely or ignored for years before they got to that point.

100%.

I want the confident girl that knows she can go elsewhere but chooses me because I allow her what 99% won't... To be herself while I build her up.

[Proximal]

I want the confident girl that knows she can go elsewhere but chooses me because I allow her what 99% won't... To be herself while I build her up.

Absofuckenlutely! Very well said Obs!

[GearHeaded]

I used to help out a friend doing marital investigation jobs sometimes. One time the chick started going to the gym, worrying about her appearance more. Buys new clothes. The guy is not a gym guy. the guy gets suspicious, and calls my buddy to follow her. we photograph her going to the gym, leaving and going to a short stay motel in brooklyn. meeting the same guy every wednesday.

another had a chick who got a boob job, changing up the rest of her appearance also, new hair style, tighter clothes, etc..., the whole nine yards. she says she wants to take yoga classes. the guy knows she is not into exercise. The "yoga instructor" was no instructor at all, just a co worker the guy later remembers meeting at her yearly office party. They left her car behind applebee's right after work at the office building nextdoor, and would go together to the no tell motel. She even bought a mat that stayed in her trunk.

i could go on and on. a guy who doesnt get his spidey sense raised up when his lady or wife switches up the routine in her appearance is a chump. he is usually the last to know.

The terms "mamao", "cabrón", "venao" all exist for a reason. Such as "That chump paid for new titties for his wife, now she never comes home after work. F'ing cabrón."

to add a little different perspective here .
my wife is not home right now. she left to go to a couple appointments to show my gym to perspective members. after that she needs to run some errands and pick me up some steak (I'm tired of f'ing turkey).. she could probably easily bang more then one guy as she's out and about. so what. I already pulled her little workout tights off before she left and stuck my C in her ass. now I'm done and she can go run errands . I got my own shit to do without worrying about if she would cheat or not .
and by golly that mind set wouldn't change just cause she got a boob job or not . wtf

[kelkel]

[QUOTE=Obs;7483580]If someone has a giant gd wart on there face its gonna get cut off unless they have such little self esteem that they leave it. Thats disgusting./QUOTE]

[Obs]

to add a little different perspective here .
my wife is not home right now. she left to go to a couple appointments to show my gym to perspective members. after that she needs to run some errands and pick me up some steak (I'm tired of f'ing turkey).. she could probably easily bang more then one guy as she's out and about. so what. I already pulled her little workout tights off before she left and stuck my C in her ass. now I'm done and she can go run errands . I got my own shit to do without worrying about if she would cheat or not .
and by golly that mind set wouldn't change just cause she got a boob job or not . wtf

My thoughts exactly while she was bartending or out with friends.
If she so much as was alone with some guy about ten of her female friends/coworkers would have ratted at the prospect of me being single.

Regardless, I dont want to drag her down to my level in regards to my perspective on people. She was so used to being denied so much as being able to have a drink with a gf alone by her estranged bf's, I had to practically shove her out the fkin door.
She actually thought it meant I didn't love her.

No sweetie. I just dont like loud drunk people and fake friends.

Sadly she lost many of her friends because she saw that they were fake as could be when she left her job. I actually feel bad for showing her that most people just want to see you fail. Especially most "Friends."

I made certain predictions about her coworkers that came true and I should have kept my mouth shut and just let it be.

She is devoted 100% to our family.
Failings are almost always mine because I get caught up in the conquering.

If she cheated I would find out and as sad as it sounds, I would move on pretty quick. If I bought her boobs and she left, oh well. I hope she is happy. At least she had the confidence to move on and chase her dreams. I sure as hell am not everyones dream.

I dont want a woman that settled for me. I used to be just the opposite. I was controlling and insecure and bitter. After you lose it all having attached yourself to someone 100%, you lose that childish mentality. A partner is not a posession.

I am just the bus driver. People will get on and get off where they choose. My course stays the same.

[kelkel]

Failings are almost always mine because I get caught up in the conquering.

Very introspective comment.

[alphaman]

I like naturals. Even a tad floppy.

[MEH669]

Scanned the whole thread for the boobie pics to no avail =(

I say do it if you both want it and can afford it. That boost in confidence could lead to lots of fun in the bedroom.

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[MEH669]

My thoughts exactly while she was bartending or out with friends.
If she so much as was alone with some guy about ten of her female friends/coworkers would have ratted at the prospect of me being single.

Regardless, I dont want to drag her down to my level in regards to my perspective on people. She was so used to being denied so much as being able to have a drink with a gf alone by her estranged bf's, I had to practically shove her out the fkin door.
She actually thought it meant I didn't love her.

No sweetie. I just dont like loud drunk people and fake friends.

Sadly she lost many of her friends because she saw that they were fake as could be when she left her job. I actually feel bad for showing her that most people just want to see you fail. Especially most "Friends."

I made certain predictions about her coworkers that came true and I should have kept my mouth shut and just let it be.

She is devoted 100% to our family.
Failings are almost always mine because I get caught up in the conquering.

If she cheated I would find out and as sad as it sounds, I would move on pretty quick. If I bought her boobs and she left, oh well. I hope she is happy. At least she had the confidence to move on and chase her dreams. I sure as hell am not everyones dream.

I dont want a woman that settled for me. I used to be just the opposite. I was controlling and insecure and bitter. After you lose it all having attached yourself to someone 100%, you lose that childish mentality. A partner is not a posession.

I am just the bus driver. People will get on and get off where they choose. My course stays the same.

Nailed it man! Same here. I had to shove my woman out the door to go see her friends. Told her she can't stop being who she is. I'll be here when you get back.

Got my own things going and definitely not going to dwell on whether she may or may not cheat. Shitty way to live. I've done it.

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[Cuz]

I think weve decided on doing it, probably with our tax return. Unless she changes her mind, I believe she’s actually kinda excited about it i see nothing wrong with we have a great dr right down the road as well. We gonna set up and consult with him soon.
Im a go big or go home guy, but i cant make that decision for her. It will be a few months anyways, so plenty of time. Thanks for the advice and suggestions as always

[DuckTheViking]

I know several.
Its a great confidence booster for them.

I will be doing the same for gf later on.
Just her getti g her nipples pierced helped her confidence.

Only a jealous stupid fuck would be against a cosmetic surgery to help someone feel good and look better which is a lot of guys I know.

If you get nice "fake" perky tits rubbing you and dont get hard you are either queer or have extreme libido issues.

The guys that say they dont like "fake" tits have either never been capable of getting a girl with them, or got fucked around on by one that did.

Its the same kind of idiot insecurity that makes people say "Yeah... I could get that big too with steroids !"

We are talking about people who jerk off to women with lots of cosmetic surgery. They deny it being attractive because they are insecure with themselves and are goddamn liars.

If someone has a giant gd wart on there face its gonna get cut off unless they have such little self esteem that they leave it. Thats disgusting.

We get one shot at life.
Those dragged down in their own dogma and those that let it interfere with positive progress can suck a dick.

Trust me when the woman with "fake" tits walks in the room they get more attention than an active shooter. Especially from the idiots that talk shit about them.

Women who get this surgery notice they are suddenly treated different and know why.
They get a huge boost in confidence that is priceless.

100% spot on every sentence. Including the nipple (and pussy) piercing.
I paid for my wife's boobs before kids and a redo after kids, among the two best investments I've made.
Keep building your wife up, it's the best you can do for her, yourself and your relationship.

What's the opposite strategy? Keep your wife pushed down because you're so insecure that you're scared she'll "upgrade" and run off with somebody else?

I want my wife to stop all conversations when she enters the room. And I want her to keep improving herself, not just her looks but her whole package.

Yes, it'll cause some jealousy and gossip from other women, including her friends and acquantainces. Try to not stress about it, it's an unavoidable side effect.

Anyway, that's what works for me...

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[< <Samson> >]

I did - twice

Well, the 1st wife paid herself


Unfortunately this is the concept: you ever hear of putting new headlights on a old car?


Yeah

[Beetlegeuse]

I don't see the big deal over fake tits. Women color and style their hair, landscape their eyebrows, wear warpaint on their face, have their teeth straightened, get liposuction and eyelifts and a ton of other shit and there's no stigma attached to any of them. Hell, they even wear padded and "push-up" bras to make whatever they've got "appear" larger. And by "Ladies' Rules," that's all kosher. But you get a boob job and other women all shoot daggers at you with their eyes.

But I generally don't like fake boobs. Don't like the way they look, don't like the way they feel, don't like they way they move. I think the factory equipment has to be pretty fucked up before the cosmetic surgeon stands a chance of making a genuine improvement. But I don't get all the histrionics.

That said, this is not a decision I would touch with a 10-foot Pole. Or an 11-foot Slav. There's too damn many ways for this to come back and bite the man on the ass, not because he did anything wrong but merely because he took part in the process.

The best course of action is to tell her "Honey, you tell me what to think and I'll think it." And don't EVER tell her what you're really thinking.

[NFW]

Have you done this for your wife and was it worth it? Thinking about it, wanted some feedback

Yes. Go for it. The world needs more boobs!

[Kyle1337]

I did this for my spouse, gf at the time actually. She had such a hard time accepting she had the chest of a 12 year old boy. I didn't care, I loved her for who she was, not some tits.

Our relationship was suffering though, constant insecurity caused me to always be supportive every single damn time we went ANYWHERE. I am not saying I am not supportive, but to tell your wife it's ok 50x a day is annoying. I cannot support that for the rest of my life. Our only focus in the relationship was "no you look fine, i love you for who you are" It gets old after 2 years of saying this every fucking second.

I scheduled her a consultation, and we went with it. scheduled the surgery almost 2 years ago and SHE'S NEVER BEEN MORE CONFIDENT in her life. It saved our relationship, it made us focus on other important things rather than boobs. I didn't give a fuck if she left me, I did it for her, so she could be happy.

All in all we went from 32AA to roughly a 36D - really depends on the bra. I miss them time to time, but they weren't for me. Cost me around $6300. We went with the higher quality silicone which has more rigidity. We also left her nipple dead center of her breast rather than the typical barbie which has nipples an inch above their breasts so they can have 5 inches of cleavage.

FWIW, we went under the muscle. We both agree after 2 years now it was a mistake. We should of gone on top of the muscle. Recovery is much easier, and she still has a difficult time with working her chest every now and then. She's a bikini competitor and doesn't hit chest much, but it's in her plan.

I highly recommend going over the muscle, unless you pump 36FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFf in there, they do not act fake, and they move plenty. I often times forget they are fake, and not a SINGLE person ever knew she received fake tits.

Proof for you all

Attachment 177828

[Cuz]

I did this for my spouse, gf at the time actually. She had such a hard time accepting she had the chest of a 12 year old boy. I didn't care, I loved her for who she was, not some tits.

Our relationship was suffering though, constant insecurity caused me to always be supportive every single damn time we went ANYWHERE. I am not saying I am not supportive, but to tell your wife it's ok 50x a day is annoying. I cannot support that for the rest of my life. Our only focus in the relationship was "no you look fine, i love you for who you are" It gets old after 2 years of saying this every fucking second.

I scheduled her a consultation, and we went with it. scheduled the surgery almost 2 years ago and SHE'S NEVER BEEN MORE CONFIDENT in her life. It saved our relationship, it made us focus on other important things rather than boobs. I didn't give a fuck if she left me, I did it for her, so she could be happy.

All in all we went from 32AA to roughly a 36D - really depends on the bra. I miss them time to time, but they weren't for me. Cost me around $6300. We went with the higher quality silicone which has more rigidity. We also left her nipple dead center of her breast rather than the typical barbie which has nipples an inch above their breasts so they can have 5 inches of cleavage.

FWIW, we went under the muscle. We both agree after 2 years now it was a mistake. We should of gone on top of the muscle. Recovery is much easier, and she still has a difficult time with working her chest every now and then. She's a bikini competitor and doesn't hit chest much, but it's in her plan.

I highly recommend going over the muscle, unless you pump 36FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFf in there, they do not act fake, and they move plenty. I often times forget they are fake, and not a SINGLE person ever knew she received fake tits.

Proof for you all

Attachment 177828

Thats one hell ova transformation! Nobody on this board myself included can compete with those before and after shots

[spywizard]

yes we have gone through the process.. more of a lift and full c... she's 5'8" 135 those look great on her.. at 46 after having a baby it was a good idea.. now if she would just allow me to get that penis reduction all would be good..

[xxblazenlowxx]

My wife just got her second set, she had them when we met.

What ive learned

Go with a highly reviewed doctor not a cheap one.

Definitely go under the muscle

Go with “gummie bear” implants

Spend the extra cash to have the nipples centered

Make sure she knows what type of cleavage she wants.

[Polkadotempress]

My wife just got her second set, she had them when we met.

What ive learned

Go with a highly reviewed doctor not a cheap one.

Definitely go under the muscle

Go with “gummie bear” implants

Spend the extra cash to have the nipples centered

Make sure she knows what type of cleavage she wants.

My augmentation was the best thing that happened to me. Mine wasn’t a tune up or a simple increase in size. Full anchor lift with nipple repositioning, 800cc under muscle. I had lost 85lbs and was left with tragic pancake
Tits. I agree about finding a great surgeon (once she starts aSking around all of the girls will start lifting their shirts to show their work). You want a dr who stands behind their work. I love my gummy bear silicone (cohesive gel). While in plunging necklines and without clothing they are obviously fake - most people just assume they are natural. Undermuscle is way more natural looking but does hamper chest strength/workouts. If your girl is interested in competition, consider this. Also, chest cavity and current cleavage spacing affects sizing and look - that is something a lot of people don’t take into consideration. Lots of forums for her to peruse while awaiting her -appt!!

[Fluidic Kimbo]

Are they all going in through the armpit now? Or do some surgeons still cut into the chest?

[Obs]

I think I may get a boob job after reading all this thread and seeing the results in kyles post.
My back and chest could take some big ol triple h mfers!

[DuckTheViking]

Are they all going in through the armpit now? Or do some surgeons still cut into the chest?

There's a limit to how big you can insert through the armpit. It's also more challenging for the doctor since they have reduced visibility of the cut pocket. The scar is also visible in normal sleeveless tops.
Under breast or around areola are by far the most common insertion options.

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