Sex drive like clockwork

[yeahbuddy289]

Doesn’t matter if I’m on a baseline trt dose or on a cycle with tren, my sex drive “reset time” is like clockwork. My wife and I usually have sex on the weekend, and its usually just one time. After we have sex on Saturday or Sunday, I am 100% good until around Thursday. At that point I’m somewhat horny again and have the desire to have sex.

Anyone else like this? I’m wondering if it is caused by the weekday stress of life/work, or the fact we’ve been together for 11 years, although I’m still extremely attracted to her. It’s almost a little sad to me because there’s nothing that makes me feel more alive than to have that burning desire for sex... like an itch you just have to scratch, and when you finally do get down to business your just dripping pre cum and shooting across the room when you finish lol. Sorry if that was too graphic but just trying to get the point across lol I wish I could feel that way more than once a week.

Also, caber has no effect on this for me.

[Cuz]

Thats crazy man, thats all I think about on cycle. Its a little strange yours doesnt increase with elevated levels tho . I guess if i gave it a rest a week like that id be doing what you described.

But thats just too fuckin long haha funny topic tho. I dont have any scientific input tho.

[yeahbuddy289]

Yeah very crazy that it just doesn’t change... obviously if I’m not on testosterone at all I have zero sex drive ever. I do feel like I notice it increase for maybe a week or two as my levels fluctuate if I’m increasing my dosage for a cycle, or even when I decrease my dosage coming off and dropping back down to a trt level. But as soon at I’m at that level and things stabilize it goes back to “normal”

[clarky.]

Yeah that's pretty mad, It very well could be the stress it does have a big impact on your heath. Does your wife feel the same ?

[yeahbuddy289]

She has very little sex drive lol she is always down to have sex whenever I want and has never turned me down but it’s not like she is ever “horny”.

I think it is just the physical and metal stress from working. I am basically a zombie on weeknights.... just on cruise control trying to make it to the weekend.

[wango]

She has very little sex drive lol she is always down to have sex whenever I want and has never turned me down but it’s not like she is ever “horny”.

I think it is just the physical and metal stress from working. I am basically a zombie on weeknights.... just on cruise control trying to make it to the weekend.

I think this might say it right here. Psychology/emotions weighs so heavily into this stuff & if you’re mind is not calm & still drained from work . . .

[< <Samson> >]

Stress is a huge culprit for half assed sex lives - specially if you’re together forever

I call my sex life now half assed - but, we either fuck or I get sucked up daily(usually both) - if not, both me & the wife stay agitated all day

But, to me this is half assed - coming back from wild 3ways & staying up all night being nasty af

This whole life scare of mine changed that a lot

But, once maybe twice a week - we’d kill each other. She’d just freak out & I’d probably need something extra on the side to keep me from going insane

[Fluidic Kimbo]

She has very little sex drive lol she is always down to have sex whenever I want and has never turned me down but it’s not like she is ever “horny”.

I had a girl like that before, I call them champagne girls. Here's what I mean by 'champagne':
Whenever I'm out somewhere in a bar or in a club or whatever, I never order champagne. Not once in my life have I ever ordered a bottle or a glass of champagne. However if I'm ever offered a glass of champagne, I enthusiastically accept it and I enjoy drinking it.

Some girls will never try it on, they will never ask for sex, but they're very happy to go along with their man's advances. It's not that they don't enjoy sex, and it's not that they're half-hearted or lazy -- they're just waiting patiently to accept the offer. In fairness I'd probably do the same thing if I were a pristine piece of ass.

AMMENDMENT: Although I haven't had sex since the Summer of 2015 so maybe don't listen to me.

[DuckTheViking]

Work stress, or other life stress, has huge impact on sex life. You feel like sex on Saturday or Sunday, but not workday? Probably because you're stressed on work days and only relax on weekend.
My libido started reducing in my early 40s but my wife is always massively horny. Once I started TRT I got my libido back and have sex at least once a day and I make sure I eat her out every day.
During this fucking covid period, my workload and stress has gone up and down in periods. During relaxing weeks, and we're both home all day, we can fuck 5 times a day every day for a week. When stress piles up, it goes down to that once a day.
Oh, and we make a tradition of going to bed reasonably early, don't stay in the living room mindlessly playing on the phones until late.

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[yeahbuddy289]

Yeah during the week I am a zombie, just trying to survive. I have been prescribed tramadol for premature ejaculation and I only use it on the weekends when I know the chances of sex are higher. Not only does it work great for premature ejaculation but it actually wakes me up so I am not exhausted, and it just melts any stress or worries I have away.

[DuckTheViking]

I'm no doctor but I can't imagine that using opioids on a weekly basis to cope with a routine part of life is optimal.
On the premature side... tip that may work for you... make sure that she cum before you. Give her a good eating and make sure she cum good before you fuck her, most women would then not worry weather the fucking last 30 seconds or 30 minutes. If she's already cum, it takes the pressure off you, you know she's having a good time.

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[< <Samson> >]

Over all, it sounds like life BS is getting u down


Kinda funny, sorta - I been horny as hell ever since I crawled out of the ICU. I don’t know what it is - but, the feeling of use it or lose is def there

[Cuz]

Yeah during the week I am a zombie, just trying to survive. I have been prescribed tramadol for premature ejaculation and I only use it on the weekends when I know the chances of sex are higher. Not only does it work great for premature ejaculation but it actually wakes me up so I am not exhausted, and it just melts any stress or worries I have away.

I thought that was a prescribed pain killer? I didn’t know this was for ED

[DuckTheViking]

I thought that was a prescribed pain killer? I didn’t know this was for ED

It's among the strongest normal painkillers in tablet form. I guess it numbs your dick down too.
I read in the news about overprescription of opioids in USA... this seems to be a textbook example of that.
His problems seems to be because too much stress in life, not because of insufficient fucking opioids.

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[yeahbuddy289]

I have had extremely bad pre ejaculation problems my entire life... even when I was younger and didn’t have a care in the world, no stress at all. Tramadol isn’t an opiate but acts on opiate receptors... it is also a fast acting SSRI. Before you say I should just use an SSRI medication, I have been on multiple anti depressants in the past and none of them had any effect on my issue.

I understand using a mild painkiller isn’t ideal but, it’s been three years now and I use it as needed and the dose I started on is the same dose I am using right now and it is still just as effective as day one. And it does not numb my penis or leave me feeling loopy. I have full feeling and am fully present in the moment and I can’t tell you how much it has improved my life to be able to have sex and actually enjoy it, not trying to thinking about cold showers or dead people and still blowing it in 10-20 seconds.

Opiate addiction is a huge problem in this country and I’m not trying to downplay it, but they can be used responsibly. I have nothing against weed usage but that has become so widely accepted as a “safe” drug but I know plenty of people who can’t even make it through a work day without using it. They need it when they wake up, during the day, and at night. And they would go absolutely insane if they couldn’t have it.

[DuckTheViking]

Well, if you've tried everything and nothing really worked before Tramadol, then I guess whatever works for you works...
As for not being horny during the week days if you're zombied out, that just shows you're a regular guy. It's not normal to be horny when you're knackered. If I'm dead tired when going to bed, I'll just sleep naked next to my wife without any sex, next day she'll laugh and say I must have been super tired.
Maybe look into how you can reduce your stress. There's a difference between being stressed and being just tired. Maybe you can adjust your life a bit, look for activities that aren't necessary but eats up time. Simplify life a bit. Or reduce stress by having higher tolerance for problems, stop worrying about inconsequential stuff. Sit down and think about what stresses you, can you change something or simply just care less about something.
As for the fucking, I stand by my view, most women would much rather be eaten to a good orgasm than to be fucked 10-15 minutes longer. Takes stress and pressure off you because you know she's having a good time. And if your pressure to cum builds up when fucking, you can always pull out and eat her a bit more before sticking your dick back in. Kind of taking a break while still satisfying her.
Whatever your problems are, there's lots of people with the same problem... just that guys don't talk about it so much.

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[yeahbuddy289]

Appreciate all the advice brother... yes I think all the stress is placed on me, by me. As far as getting her off first, we always do that. Making it last longer is more for me than her. Waiting all week to finally have the desire/ability to have sex only to blow it within seconds is depressing lol

[wango]

Try not to overthink this situation, because guaranteed that will only make it worse. Best of luck with this, and try not to pressure yourself.

[Fluidic Kimbo]

Codeine and Tramadol were what I was given to take home with me after surgery.

If I ever have a bad headache or sunburn or whatever, I'll take the likes of ibuprofen, aspirin, paracetemol, cetirizine, but I will let myself suffer quite a bit before resorting to tramadol or codeine.

I would have thought a topical gel would have been best for PE, just to slightly numb the area.

By the way, for what it's worth, I'd choose PE over anorgasmia. When my last gf moved in with me, I didn't cum for like 3 days, and I actually think it did a lot of damage to our relationship.

[yeahbuddy289]

I just refuse to use numbing creams.. it just ruins it for not only me, but her.

[Cuz]

Its all in your head bro

[< <Samson> >]

Its all in your head bro

Def agreed here

I use a little caber to postpone my nutting. Works for me at least - I found this out when I was running way too much tren & needed it

But, yeah bro - sex & sex related shit is almost always mental. . . Shit, ever since I got home from my ICU stay, I take every chance I get - I’m hornier than ever - how? shit if I know - I’m not even questioning it

[DuckTheViking]

Its all in your head bro

Defo the truth. Doesn't mean that it's easy to fix it though, especially if it's been that way for a long time.

In my younger days I'd sometimes manage to hook up with chicks way above my league, I'd overstress when we had first fuck, cum much too early. After we'd fucked 5-10 times I'd be totally relaxed and cum whenever I wanted. Why? It's just in my head. Stressed vs relaxed. Nothing to prove, as if I don't care anymore.

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[Testie]

Doesn’t matter if I’m on a baseline trt dose or on a cycle with tren, my sex drive “reset time” is like clockwork. My wife and I usually have sex on the weekend, and its usually just one time. After we have sex on Saturday or Sunday, I am 100% good until around Thursday. At that point I’m somewhat horny again and have the desire to have sex.

Anyone else like this? I’m wondering if it is caused by the weekday stress of life/work, or the fact we’ve been together for 11 years, although I’m still extremely attracted to her. It’s almost a little sad to me because there’s nothing that makes me feel more alive than to have that burning desire for sex... like an itch you just have to scratch, and when you finally do get down to business your just dripping pre cum and shooting across the room when you finish lol. Sorry if that was too graphic but just trying to get the point across lol I wish I could feel that way more than once a week.

Also, caber has no effect on this for me.

That was very descriptive my Brother lol, if I do a cycle my drive definitely goes up but sometimes my Estrogen levels can get off or my prolactin levels can get elevated and my drive will drop, when this happens I supplement with 5mg of Cialis daily and that does it for me.

[< <Samson> >]

^ wtf?!

That fake ass post sounds like this year is

[yeahbuddy289]

I love cialis and it does seem to help with my sex drive. It gives me terrible sinus congestion though.

[< <Samson> >]

I love cialis and it does seem to help with my sex drive. It gives me terrible sinus congestion though.

As soon as I felt good enough to do so - I went back to my usual regimen


5mg Cialis as soon as I get up + about 20-25mg of Viagra - I dropped the arginine < then bone away at the wife


Cialis alone never gave me much of anything - that I notice at least

[yeahbuddy289]

I’ve never tried viagra.. I like cialis because of all the other additional benefits... plus you get hard on demand and from what I gather, viagra just makes you hard without much real control over it. I don’t ever have an issue getting hard but I feel like I’m much bigger when I use cialis lol. It seems like it takes a couple days of being on it for me to notice anything though- I can’t just take one and see or feel a difference in a few hours, or even the next day... need to be on it multiple days for whatever reason lol

[BG]

Yeah very crazy that it just doesn’t change... obviously if I’m not on testosterone at all I have zero sex drive ever. I do feel like I notice it increase for maybe a week or two as my levels fluctuate if I’m increasing my dosage for a cycle, or even when I decrease my dosage coming off and dropping back down to a trt level. But as soon at I’m at that level and things stabilize it goes back to “normal”

Im the same now, been trying to figure things out for a while now. I can have sex twice a weekend but then it takes the rest of the week to get back to being somewhat horny. Ive been indulging in some porn in the morning early in the week, getting some "me time" and it has helped.

Sex drive after cycling is tough, especially if you cant run higher trt dosages, my limit when it comes to bp is just 100mgs ew, man I havent ran that low of a dosage in 15 years. I was hoping my body would adapt and it did for the most part but my libido isnt that great. It doesnt help that Ive been having sex with the same women for 20 FUCKING years..........thats why I think the porn helps, gets the motor running....blood flowing again. With me its all mental.

It isnt easy being horny like a 15 year old until your 35 - 40, then it falls off.


This is why I think young guys that blast and cruise should go down to true trt dosages for 3-4 months a year so that dosage isnt a shock for your body to deal with down the road.


EDIT: Im going to start running a little hcg and deca after the new year, hopefully with that my body will be a little more anabolic/androgenetic maybe that will help.

[DuckTheViking]

Im the same now, been trying to figure things out for a while now. I can have sex twice a weekend but then it takes the rest of the week to get back to being somewhat horny. Ive been indulging in some porn in the morning early in the week, getting some "me time" and it has helped.

Sex drive after cycling is tough, especially if you cant run higher trt dosages, my limit when it comes to bp is just 100mgs ew, man I havent ran that low of a dosage in 15 years. I was hoping my body would adapt and it did for the most part but my libido isnt that great. It doesnt help that Ive been having sex with the same women for 20 FUCKING years..........thats why I think the porn helps, gets the motor running....blood flowing again. With me its all mental.

It isnt easy being horny like a 15 year old until your 35 - 40, then it falls off.

I feel you bro, I haven't even been with my wife half the years that you have. She's a fair bit younger than me, and in my eyes is absolutely gorgeous with a banging body, and I absolutely adore her. As I hit early 40s, my libido just fizzed out, I pretty much had no interest in sex anymore. I knew I was letting my wife down as she has a massive libido, but I just didn't feel like it. Maybe once every two weeks. I got on the home-made TRT train, at 150mg Test E I started feeling like a teenager again. Have sex at least once a day, usually twice (thanks to working from home). The TRT definitely turned my life around.

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[Cuz]

Im the same now, been trying to figure things out for a while now. I can have sex twice a weekend but then it takes the rest of the week to get back to being somewhat horny. Ive been indulging in some porn in the morning early in the week, getting some "me time" and it has helped.

Sex drive after cycling is tough, especially if you cant run higher trt dosages, my limit when it comes to bp is just 100mgs ew, man I havent ran that low of a dosage in 15 years. I was hoping my body would adapt and it did for the most part but my libido isnt that great. It doesnt help that Ive been having sex with the same women for 20 FUCKING years..........thats why I think the porn helps, gets the motor running....blood flowing again. With me its all mental.

It isnt easy being horny like a 15 year old until your 35 - 40, then it falls off.


This is why I think young guys that blast and cruise should go down to true trt dosages for 3-4 months a year so that dosage isnt a shock for your body to deal with down the road.


EDIT: Im going to start running a little hcg and deca after the new year, hopefully with that my body will be a little more anabolic/androgenetic maybe that will help.

Sorry, i had to laugh out loud at that comment. Im getting there, 16 years for me lol

[< <Samson> >]

Im the same now, been trying to figure things out for a while now. I can have sex twice a weekend but then it takes the rest of the week to get back to being somewhat horny. Ive been indulging in some porn in the morning early in the week, getting some "me time" and it has helped.

Sex drive after cycling is tough, especially if you cant run higher trt dosages, my limit when it comes to bp is just 100mgs ew, man I havent ran that low of a dosage in 15 years. I was hoping my body would adapt and it did for the most part but my libido isnt that great. It doesnt help that Ive been having sex with the same women for 20 FUCKING years..........thats why I think the porn helps, gets the motor running....blood flowing again. With me its all mental.

It isnt easy being horny like a 15 year old until your 35 - 40, then it falls off.


This is why I think young guys that blast and cruise should go down to true trt dosages for 3-4 months a year so that dosage isnt a shock for your body to deal with down the road.


EDIT: Im going to start running a little hcg and deca after the new year, hopefully with that my body will be a little more anabolic/androgenetic maybe that will help.

Dude - how old r u?

I do t think I missed it anywhere on here

[BG]

I feel you bro, I haven't even been with my wife half the years that you have. She's a fair bit younger than me, and in my eyes is absolutely gorgeous with a banging body, and I absolutely adore her. As I hit early 40s, my libido just fizzed out, I pretty much had no interest in sex anymore. I knew I was letting my wife down as she has a massive libido, but I just didn't feel like it. Maybe once every two weeks. I got on the home-made TRT train, at 150mg Test E I started feeling like a teenager again. Have sex at least once a day, usually twice (thanks to working from home). The TRT definitely turned my life around.

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Thats great to hear, trt can be a life saver..............I went through that at 30 years old, started trt 16 years ago, so now the "greatness" of trt is long gone.

[BG]

Dude - how old r u?

I do t think I missed it anywhere on here

46....been on trt 16 years. Now my body only allows me 100mgs ew of test, otherwise my bloods get crazy.