One day you're here, the next you're gone

[< <Samson> >]

My neighbor/wife's friend just passed in her sleep last nite. Out of nowhere, had very rough pneumonia like symptoms for about a week - didn't want to go to ER, had a PCP appointment set for tomorrow. Her mother is disabled & she has a daughter - I am so so shocked. She was just here, in normal just fine condition - wtf?!!!!!!!!!!! - I just talked to her a few days ago


Her & her mom were the 1st people to show up to my door during covid with face masks on to bring me flowers when I was released from ICU < that meant so much to me.


I'm a mess - and, so shocked I can't really catch my thought process


She was my age - I am willing to offer her mom & her daughter any help. But, they seem really messed up & lost - the mom found her not breathing at about 3am when she got up to go to the bathroom(about 99% certain drugs were not involved)





Just thought I'd put up a post

[Test Monsterone]

Damn brother, sorry to hear that. You don’t expect to see that from someone so young and especially a female. Could have been a pulmonary embolism as it shows up like pneumonia/coughing. Matt Porter died from that and he thought it was pneumonia, too. Hang in there, life’s a bitch sometimes. Got to enjoy it while we can.

[< <Samson> >]

They're doing a full autopsy


But, just - DAMN IT! She was just here, picking up her daughter from school yo! We watch her from time to time, awesome kid too

[SampsonandDelilah]

Condolences brother

[s1nc1ty]

Sorry to hear that. But thats life. Ive heard stories how someone finds out that they have cancer in july and is dead in october. Or these heart attacks and other seizures and stuff can happen like completely out of the blue. + the chance of being run over, something dropped on you etc..Anyone of us can live to a 100 or literally be dead in 2 months... you'l never know. Just gotta live life and try to make the best of it while we can. And if theres something you want to say to your loved ones dont hold back say it while you can.

[JaneDoe]

I have no words to describe how your text conveys a tremendous sadness that touches the bottom of the soul! A loss is always difficult, especially those who were close to us! What I wish to all the people close to this lady who is gone, my condolences. And may this lady find God and a world of peace in eternity!

[charger69]

That is terrible.
I am sorry to hear that.
I learned about 2 years ago how fragile life is. I was given a second chance and I try to live everyday like it’s my last.
I officiate baseball, football and wrestling. I started a masters degree in advanced exercise science, and I work at least 50 hours a week .
Up at 3 am to get in my gym time and competing in August.


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[< <Samson> >]

Sorry to hear that. But thats life. Ive heard stories how someone finds out that they have cancer in july and is dead in october. Or these heart attacks and other seizures and stuff can happen like completely out of the blue. + the chance of being run over, something dropped on you etc..Anyone of us can live to a 100 or literally be dead in 2 months... you'l never know. Just gotta live life and try to make the best of it while we can. And if theres something you want to say to your loved ones dont hold back say it while you can.

My exact thoughts brother



I always kept close to her, your standard issue "normal lady" - worked at the local grocery store


Her & her mom just meant that much extra to me - straight showed up to my door unannounced with flowers - when, I had something that felt like a gun shot to my head fresh out of ICU for maybe 24 hours, I couldn't even walk yet < her & the wife had a falling out over some nonsense, etc. - but, with me she always had that merit


That one hurt today - I been working in this 100 degree heat all day, then I still went to the gym - I couldn't stop to think

[wango]

So very sorry to hear Samson.

Condolences.

[Mooseman33]

sorry to hear it brother.

[< <Samson> >]

Just how it happened just completely mind fucked me so bad - she was just here. Nothing severe even happened - the mom is waiting on final coroner results

[yeahbuddy289]

Damn this is awful, sorry to hear this. It’s true most of use don’t realize how fragile life is, and when things like this happen it’s a very sobering reminder.

[< <Samson> >]

Seen her daughter getting out of school yesterday - the sorrow on her face can’t be taken away with a billion dollars - no dad either, he’s some drug addict loser that hasn’t ever seen her

Just fuck, man


And, to see people real close to me show how they’re about it, just makes me feel so differently about them & it’s not for the positive

[wango]

Seen her daughter getting out of school yesterday - the sorrow on her face can’t be taken away with a billion dollars - no dad either, he’s some drug addict loser that hasn’t ever seen her

Just fuck, man


And, to see people real close to me show how they’re about it, just makes me feel so differently about them & it’s not for the positive

That’s just horrible.

Does the daughter have relatives that will take care of her or help her at least?

[< <Samson> >]

That’s just horrible.

Does the daughter have relatives that will take care of her or help her at least?

Her disabled grandma - disabled or not, that lady is pretty bad ass. She works at the grocery store on our block.

It is horrible, and just so out of the blue - like, her mom? What?! And, to see people’s reaction of how much they care or don’t - really sets the mood.

Me personally - I told em, I’m here for you. No questions asked - if you need anything, just ask

[yeahbuddy289]

Man the fact she has a daughter makes this a million times more sad. So many terrible things happen in this world and I will never understand why.

[Wies77]

Sorry for your loss

[wango]

Man the fact she has a daughter makes this a million times more sad. So many terrible things happen in this world and I will never understand why.

It’s just so much more brutal and tragic when it happens to genuinely nice people.

[< <Samson> >]

Man the fact she has a daughter makes this a million times more sad. So many terrible things happen in this world and I will never understand why.

She had older kids too, one is around 18 or so & is coming down cause he lived elsewhere



Bitter sweet, I guess - I won’t leave my son alone, he’s like wtf dude why u buggin?! I take him with me everywhere now.

He’s like, this is what you work on & where - oh yeah buuuuuud


I’m trying to find a way to get him in the gym asap while I still can - I was gonna do it today. But, it’s a 13 year old minimum policy

[yeahbuddy289]

Nice super duty brother… I’ve got a sweet 6.0 that’s leaking oil in my driveway.

[< <Samson> >]

Nice super duty brother… I’ve got a sweet 6.0 that’s leaking oil in my driveway.

You mean a 6.no?!

I refuse to put another dollar or a second into another one

7.3 or 6.7 fords only

Steering myself off my own thread


Fuck! I miss this lady - and, I’m a no one to her. I just can’t stop doing shit rn, I get all locked up - she was just here! I just talked to her, she was the most average person ever - just gone

[lovbyts]

Prayers to her family and yours. Stuff like that is a reminder of how fragile life is but I know I dont need to remind you of that. I feel for the daughter because she is going to be forced to grow up fast now and most likely will be put in bad positions due to the father still being the parent.