I think it's truly better to be single...

**redrock** · 11-12-2003, 10:54 PM

So I slept with this girl, yada yada yada, she's now playing games with me. Acting weird. I haven't talked to her for two days and you know what, it feels fucking great.

I don't understand why girls can't just be straight forward and tell you the truth. I know something is on her mind, but she won't tell me. OH well, no biggie. RR

F.T.W.

**TheMudMan** · 11-12-2003, 10:55 PM

You just have to find the right one........... you're still young I wouldn't get tied down anyway.........

**Da Bull** · 11-12-2003, 10:59 PM

No flame here at all,but WTF is with all these I lost my baby threads?Inever saw so much crying over women in my life.I say to all of you..BE A MAN...geez

**big daddy k de** · 11-12-2003, 11:01 PM

oh wow i need a girl to haha im working on a hottie and damn she is real hot. i should have her within a few weeks hahaha

**redrock** · 11-12-2003, 11:01 PM

Originally Posted by Da Bull

No flame here at all,but WTF is with all these I lost my baby threads?Inever saw so much crying over women in my life.I say to all of you..BE A MAN...geez

I get what you're saying. I'm not crying over her. I am just starting to realize that I am much happier single. And that I need to not let myself get so worked up my women ya know? I'm still figuring things out. Women are a different breed....that's for sure. RR

**redrock** · 11-12-2003, 11:04 PM

Originally Posted by big daddy k de

oh wow i need a girl to haha im working on a hottie and damn she is real hot. i should have her within a few weeks hahaha

Few weeks huh? Does she know this? Did you have her sign a contract? Hahaha, just fucking with ya man, hope things work out. RR

**peam** · 11-12-2003, 11:07 PM

DUDE.... women don't always know what they want either. We're just as confused as you are. I mean.... as simple as you all are... some girls just can't get it through their heads that all you guys REALLY want is sex, food, and football. Okay?! So... yeah... that's what's up.

**PurePower** · 11-12-2003, 11:10 PM

i just dont like talking all that much....and it gets on girls nerves that i date.......

LORDBLiTZ · 11-12-2003, 11:12 PM

I'm always single. I just have alot of girl friends i go bang.

**NissanRider240** · 11-12-2003, 11:17 PM

Been single for 2 years. Just dont feel like I have time for someone. Not that I am busy, I just dont feel like dealing with all the crap. I think being single is better when u are young tho. Keep it single redrock and have some fun!

LORDBLiTZ · 11-12-2003, 11:17 PM

Classic...

http://www.funnyjunk.com/pages/onething.htm

**redrock** · 11-12-2003, 11:18 PM

Originally Posted by peam

DUDE.... women don't always know what they want either. We're just as confused as you are. I mean.... as simple as you all are... some girls just can't get it through their heads that all you guys REALLY want is sex, food, and football. Okay?! So... yeah... that's what's up.

Haha, we want lots more than just food, sex and football. I understand that guys can be just as confusing as girls, but it seems to me that a lot of the times, girls are scared to guys how they really feel.

I mean, i know there is something on this girls mind, she has told a friend of mine, and I have asked her about it and she won't talk to me.

I didn't want to come off like I was badgering girls, I am just confused and a little frustrated. RR

**peam** · 11-12-2003, 11:27 PM

until women are more mature... and totally comfortable with themselves they're not going to tell you whatever they feel.... we're told to wait for you to pursue us... we're told that if we want to get serious to not tell you because it'll scare you off... not to buy presents for no reason... not to call too much... not to leave voice mails too often... there are a billion "rules" that I happen to not follow... I go with however I feel whenever I feel it and the last guy couldn't handle it but... someday one guy will be able to and then he'll be the lucky winner

So.... wait until you're older... then I think you'll find out what they want as long as they're mature.

**peam** · 11-12-2003, 11:29 PM

mature and confident.... the whole self esteem body image issue plays into everything for women... face it... it's harder to be a woman... that's it... so... if you're confused ask her to explain if she won't... try again..if she still won't forget about it the second time is key by the way... one time she may just say no because she wants to make sure you REALLY care... (see complicated I know)

**bermich** · 11-13-2003, 01:10 AM

Originally Posted by Da Bull

No flame here at all,but WTF is with all these I lost my baby threads?Inever saw so much crying over women in my life.I say to all of you..BE A MAN...geez

I AGREE. I mean it hurts but fuck. Stand up and shake it off.
There are SO MANY OTHER women out there that are probably better suited for us anyway. Just happens you ran into this girl before you ran into a better one. Consider the break up a blessing that you found out now rather than after you get married that it wouldnt work out.

Better to be single? All depends on the time of year and mind frame you are in.
Its always good in the beginning (single or together) then it gets old and tiresome. Enjoy which ever side you are on. They both have ads and dis'ads.
A new girl every weekend or a girl you trust and are comfortable to share your secrets with.
A new girl where the sex is great and each time you learn something new, or a girl you can design a house with and plan a family with.

**Da Bull** · 11-13-2003, 01:33 AM

DR. peam...calling Dr. peam...lol

**bermich** · 11-13-2003, 01:45 AM

Originally Posted by peam

mature and confident.... the whole self esteem body image issue plays into everything for women... face it... it's harder to be a woman... that's it... so... if you're confused ask her to explain if she won't... try again..if she still won't forget about it the second time is key by the way... one time she may just say no because she wants to make sure you REALLY care... (see complicated I know)

I never went with those rules. I asked once and she plays that lame game I walk away. She learns from the first time to answer the first time I ask or I just turn around and do something else. I hate that crap. I absolutely hate it.

**redrock** · 11-13-2003, 01:55 AM

Originally Posted by bermich

I never went with those rules. I asked once and she plays that lame game I walk away. She learns from the first time to answer the first time I ask or I just turn around and do something else. I hate that crap. I absolutely hate it.

Man, I like the way you think. I should really employ that mentality, I just get caught up in the notion that things might workout. RR

**bermich** · 11-13-2003, 03:47 AM

Originally Posted by redrock

Man, I like the way you think. I should really employ that mentality, I just get caught up in the notion that things might workout. RR

I used to think that way too: Things might work out if I am nice and let her know. Sad thing is that I learned at such an old age that when you arent interested in a girl, she likes it or is subconsciously attracted to it.
The real hard part is learning how to act uninterested in a girl whom you are VERY interested in.

Sorry if this seems like I am talking about myself but I am up and NO other threads are being replied to at this hour. So I am gonna take this one over.

A year ago: I liked this girl my friend worked with. We hooked up after a club. No sex, but I was fondling her tits and ass while we slept. My friend kept telling her I was a player and five girls a week come in and out of my house.
I swore up and down that I wasnt a player and what not. I thought it would scare her away.
Quite the opposite. That was the main reason she hooked up with me was because my friend (He isnt a friend, he is a dick but anyway) told her I was a player. She heard me talking to other girls on the phone and I tried to convince her they werent girls I was talking to. Me talking to girls made her even more jealous and more clingy.
It just goes to show that girls are territorial and even if they dont want something, they wanna know they are the baddest bitch and that they can get it. They wanna be one of those girls the player is fucking with because they think they can be the one that makes him stop seeing ALL the others.

Once they get that power and they know they have that power, they lose interest SO QUICK.

Another example (quick to the point story) Seeing a girl. She stopped seeing me. I had a halloween party and fucked a porn chick. The girl who stopped seeing me found out I hooked up with a girl right after we broke up. I denied it thinking it would piss her off. We got back together. Broke up later but thats not the point.
The point is: I found out later on ( a year later) from her cousin that the only reason she got back with me for a short time was because she found out I was sleeping around again. It pissed her off that other girls were fucking with her property even though she had no interest in it.

That is why I LOVE GIRLS so much. They are so instinctual, territorial, and easy to predict.
They are very animalistic. Like a tiger. So beautiful, you just wanna stare at it. It stands there while you stare and you get closer. All of a sudden, you get swatted by her sharp ass claws because you got too close. If you just do something else the tiger gets curious and comes to you.

Damn. Thats a long post. Hope you read it all.
In short. Be a dick to her and she will think you are hot.
Sleep with her friend and she will want you back.
Sleep with her cousin and she will never touch you again.
Sleep with her sister and she will join in.

**Danielle** · 11-13-2003, 06:52 AM

Originally Posted by Da Bull

No flame here at all,but WTF is with all these I lost my baby threads?Inever saw so much crying over women in my life.I say to all of you..BE A MAN...geez

lol..........thats what i'm saying.......all you guys have alot of women problems

and peam......i def. agree with you......

fuck it......i so much rather be single.......finally just started seeing someone seriously after being single for over 2 years.......and ehhhhhh i dont know.......guys are just too fucking jealous.......i refuse to ever have to tell someone all the time where i'm going on a friday night.....and tell them step by step how the night went..........and have someone look @ my phone whenever it rings...........forget that...........i have one father........thats enough.......lol

......single is better!!!!!!!!

**mass junkie** · 11-13-2003, 07:04 AM

Is it coincidence that most everybody on AR is dysfunctional.......

**Danielle** · 11-13-2003, 07:08 AM

Originally Posted by mass junkie

Is it coincidence that most everybody on AR is dysfunctional.......

lol.........

**Juggernaut** · 11-13-2003, 07:23 AM

Human interaction is all it is and nothing more........you'll interact better with some more than others. Heartbreak, happiness and hopelessness are just part of the equation. Make the most out of whatever relationship you’re in and when it falls apart lick your wounds stand up and move on. The only thing you actually ever have are memories, some good some bad....................better to live it than dream it.

**chicamahomico** · 11-13-2003, 12:43 PM

Is it coincidence that most everybody on AR is dysfunctional.......

No coincidence.....god I love my dysfunctional second family. Bermich, that is one of the best posts I've read in a long long time!

**BUYLONGTERM** · 11-13-2003, 12:49 PM

My Motto:

"Once U go single, you never go back"

**Babyweight** · 11-13-2003, 02:19 PM

Originally Posted by bermich

That is why I LOVE GIRLS so much. They are so instinctual, territorial, and easy to predict.
They are very animalistic. Like a tiger. So beautiful, you just wanna stare at it. It stands there while you stare and you get closer. All of a sudden, you get swatted by her sharp ass claws because you got too close. If you just do something else the tiger gets curious and comes to you.

Very interesting.....

It looks as though maybe you were dating a cub????????

Good analogy though..
BW

**big daddy k de** · 11-13-2003, 02:57 PM

Originally Posted by redrock

Few weeks huh? Does she know this? Did you have her sign a contract? Hahaha, just fucking with ya man, hope things work out. RR

Yhea bro you need to have a plan when it comes to this stuff

**bermich** · 11-13-2003, 04:22 PM

Originally Posted by Babyweight

Very interesting.....

It looks as though maybe you were dating a cub????????

Good analogy though..
BW

I dated them all. Cubs to lions. Shy ones, bitchy ones, nice ones, mean ones.
Sad thing is: I keep going back to the bitchy manipulative ones. It never works out but that is the type I will always like.

**BUYLONGTERM** · 11-13-2003, 04:56 PM

Originally Posted by bermich

I dated them all. Cubs to lions. Shy ones, bitchy ones, nice ones, mean ones.
Sad thing is: I keep going back to the bitchy manipulative ones. It never works out but that is the type I will always like.

Yeah, the bitchy ones are the ones you just want to give it to really hard!!!!

**BUYLONGTERM** · 11-13-2003, 04:58 PM

Originally Posted by Da Bull

No flame here at all,but WTF is with all these I lost my baby threads?Inever saw so much crying over women in my life.I say to all of you..BE A MAN...geez

Clomid must be kicking in

**sp9** · 11-13-2003, 05:14 PM

You will find the right one - hell im 33 and still on the lookout. Most of my friends are divorced already and on or looking for wife number 2. The real unlucky ones are writing child support checks (paying child support is good) and the girl still has the fat house while they are in an apartment. Sometimes that's the result even if the wife was cheating.

Me I'm still looking for the right one, might go looking tonight. Have given a few a serious look over this year. It has been fun.

**slamd097** · 11-13-2003, 05:47 PM

Look, i am MARRIED, and I have more sex with rosie palm and her 5 sisters then I do with my wife.

Think im going to go and find a mistress...

**wiky** · 11-13-2003, 06:05 PM

Originally Posted by bermich

I used to think ... her cousin and she will never touch you again.
Sleep with her sister and she will join in.

Its a very personal thought, we know there are too much different kind of girls, but your words sounded as my thoughts about the most of them. Totally agree. (ive found one who seems to dont fit that thoughts, lucky or wrong?)

**bermich** · 11-13-2003, 08:15 PM

Originally Posted by wiky

Its a very personal thought, we know there are too much different kind of girls, but your words sounded as my thoughts about the most of them. Totally agree. (ive found one who seems to dont fit that thoughts, lucky or wrong?)

Dude. I have no idea what you just typed. And MY QUOTE you have in your post, I never typed anything CLOSELY relating to how you worded it.

But thanks

**wiky** · 11-14-2003, 04:07 AM

Originally Posted by bermich

Dude. I have no idea what you just typed. And MY QUOTE you have in your post, I never typed anything CLOSELY relating to how you worded it.

But thanks

Yes, i must have read the quote after i cut, your post was a bit long and i didnt want to repeat it word by word. Anyway when i type its just i need to translate from spanish to english, and maybe it only sounds good to me, but im learning americanish so fast as i can, IMO

**bermich** · 11-14-2003, 06:03 PM

Wiky. I thought there was a translation thing going on.
English is going well so far. It is difficult to stick with learning a new language. Especially English. Most Americans dont even speak proper english.
I think it is
LATIN
ENGLISH
JAPANESE

Difficulty to learn
Oh yeah. Wooky is next.

**Animal Cracker** · 11-20-2003, 06:10 AM

Chicks are all the same until they hit 35...anthing under that, they are all 16 in their mind. Stay single...that way you can fire them when all that estrogen srews up their thought processes.