On a scale of 1-10...how much of an asshole am I.

**someday** · 01-05-2004, 02:29 AM

So heres the story,

I went out with this girl for about a year and a half, anyhow we broke up about two and a half years ago. Well we broke up for B.S. reasons and both carried some feelings for each other and two weeks ago we decided to give it another chance. Well I'm unsure if the feelings are still there and i think it is becuase im a shallow asshole. Back when we dated before she was amazingly gorgeous, took care of herself, would push me to run harder and longer. Well as of today she looks like she gained more than a couple pounds and i dont think i can seriously start a relationship with her because of it. It makes me sick to think im this shallow but my views have changed about allot of things in the past few years....in fact me from four years ago would have kicked me of todays ass, or at least givin it one hell of a shot. But today while i was eating my dinner of chicken breast and a can of tuna she scarfed down a large popcorn chicken and 2 beers from KFC, the whole time i wanted to yell at her to ****in quit. Man i need some advice bros....

and to top it all off, this girl i've been tryin to date for the last year called me up the other night and says shes comin down her wed,thurs, and fri and wants to hang out all week. Why do they always wait until the ****tiest time....dammit.

On the plus side....next cycle starts in three weeks....im gonna be a ****in ripped up 200 pounds mfer....hopefully..

**scottninpo** · 01-05-2004, 02:33 AM

bro, seriously, if you're not attracted to her, then don't waste your time, plain and simple, don't think you owe anything to her because she was hot, a relationship will never work unless your mate is physically appealing to you, it's nature man, don't fight it

**Mr. Death** · 01-05-2004, 02:36 AM

No, thats not shallow. Being attracted to how well a woman takes care of herself is no different than being attracted to any certain personality trait. Because it is a personality trait. You wouldn't date someone that was a total bitch would you? In my opinion this is no different. Go out with the girl you have been after for a year, and have a good time.

**Da Bull** · 01-05-2004, 02:42 AM

fcuk i thought this was a poll...wtf................j/j bro

**Xavier_4446** · 01-05-2004, 03:31 AM

dude I dated a girl for 3 years once. At the beginning she was hot as balls, towards the end she had gained like 20 lbs and cut her fairy butch short. needlessly to day we broke up. if your not attracted. don't even waste your time bro. not worth

**Animal Cracker** · 01-05-2004, 06:17 AM

Not shallow at all bro...you are being honest with yourself.

**palme** · 01-05-2004, 06:25 AM

If your not attractive to her then just stay friends (if you can) but get another girl as your gf.

**hoss827** · 01-05-2004, 07:55 AM

Not shallow man...be honest to yourself. I thought this was a poll though....

**slamd097** · 01-05-2004, 07:57 AM

your just being honest, nothing wrong with that. In fact aren't women wanting us man to be more honest with them.

**Doc M** · 01-05-2004, 08:08 AM

Save both of you headaches though and be up front with her..Tell her you feel and that your feelings have changed..At least then you can walk away and feel like you handled it with some balls..Break it off now though because it will only get worse..

Doc M

**Elliot** · 01-05-2004, 10:10 AM

can i still vote?

j/k yeah dont waste your time.. but hey u know my motto fat chicks are just like them little scooters they're fun to ride until you friends find out.. im such a pig, i know..

**darmadoc** · 01-05-2004, 05:50 PM

Call it shallow, call it honest, call it whatever you want. The bottom line is that you can not expect a relationship to make it without a physical attraction up front. You should bail now. I think you should spare her the exact reason for your decision, however.

**Devourer** · 01-05-2004, 06:11 PM

you might just want to start your cycle before you make any rash decisions. test makes everything look better

**bornbad71** · 01-05-2004, 07:17 PM

I didn't see the poll, but I'm going with 16 here...........

(j/j)

**ItalianMuscle** · 01-05-2004, 07:27 PM

Bro.. Be Honest with her say your not attracted to her.. Tell her you don't fell the same..

**spywizard** · 01-05-2004, 07:34 PM

When you have to start taking Viagra... so you can get a hardon to f*** her.. that's when you know you aren't attacted to her..

Do the guy thing.. stop returning her calls.. and avoid her..

lol

Peace

**bermich** · 01-05-2004, 10:01 PM

Its not shallow. Its also not that she let herself go either. I think you are just tired of looking at her.
I dated a girl for about 3 years off and on. She wasnt all that great when I met her but I knew she had potential. Recently she looks VERY HOT. (Could pass as that LA FEMME NAKITA, blonde hair) girl. Well even with her being hot now I wouldnt date her just due to the fact that she bugs me being around her and I dont know why.

I think you just dont like her and you want to play the field now.