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    Attention: Re: PMs and my Sig...

    While not directly and AAS topic.. it is related:

    My sig now reads:

    No reply to your PM? That means:


    a. i'm busy
    b. you're on ignore


    Now.. an explanation.

    I get frequent PMs daily.. and have always prided myself on replying promptly; and thoroughly. I'm sure hundreds of guys, noobs and senior members alike, can vouch for that.

    I haven't asked for anything..'cept the base respect for the time i invest in helping others...and of course the understanding that i am not paid to respond here.. and as such demands on my time must be kept within reason.

    Of late there've been members abusing this.. sending me voluminous PMs (to which i've responded en totale); rude demands; redundant repetitive replies (basically asking the same question over and over...even after i've supplied them with the answer and over) etc.; using my free detailed responses on their clients (i.e. for pay)...

    Heck these guys have gone as far as asking me to freely customize their clients' diets/ cycles/ training..that they can make money off of it.

    Actually..they've gone further..this is just the tip of the ice-berg.. but i cannot divulge the extent without posting the PMs..which i will not do (as it would be a breach of their privacy)..

    Obviously this is intolerable.

    Namely because it places an exhorbitant demand on my limited time here (time which could be better used helping genuine noobs.. or expanding my research base so as to be better able to assist other members)... and dually, because their misuse is ethically wrong.

    That being said... You guys know who you are.

    If you do not receive a reply to a PM.. it is for the above mentioned reason(s).

    /end rant

    Respectfully...
    Narkissos

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    Sounds good bro, now ANSWER MY PMs!!!! @sshole... LOL j/k

    always helped me in the past bro, i can understand what you are saying.

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    Taking advantage of nark.

    How dare you ...HOW DARE YOU!!!!

    Tell them nark, this aint no charity.

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    I've only sent you a couple awhile back and you don't respond to me anyway

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    I know I had used you as a referance before (Without your permission, again, my apologies, I meant no harm, just thought you were familiar enough with me to have some amount of trust, I apparently was wrong.) and then even after explaning my reasoning, you still seemed to take it as an insult ? Had you read any of my messages thereafter (which I am assuming you didn't), you might have understood a little bit more. Having not responded to any of my messages since, one of them being an "apology" of sorts, I no longer will bother you with any questions/comments etc via PM/Email and I thank you for letting me know you will not respond to any if I was to do so.

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    I just sent those few asking about the sexual favours. I promise I'll stop now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by perfectbeast2001
    I just sent those few asking about the sexual favours. I promise I'll stop now.


    Oh so he's ignoring you to huh??

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hellmask
    Oh so he's ignoring you to huh??


    Hes been sending them to me too...whore!

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    So does this mean I cant get any nudes?

    fine Ill stop with my insistent PMs.

    All seriousness, you dont need to explain yourself man. if people are taking advantage of you, then they don't deserve, a response much less an explination.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hackamaniac
    I've only sent you a couple awhile back and you don't respond to me anyway
    He only will reply if you weigh over 210 pounds. How much you weigh?
    Muscle Asylum Project Athlete

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    205 or so haven't weighed in two weeks maybe 210 by now

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hackamaniac
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    Well, there you go.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Carlos_E
    Well, there you go.


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    And please doooo not compliment his package in his contest pics and vids, he's black thats all there is to know!!!!!!!!!!1

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bigmax
    Me too!!
    If you don't know ask me
    Bigmax i've pm'd you once or twice and you have always responded to me and I thank you for that!

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    I respond to anyone who sends nude pics of figure competitors. It's for a project I'm doing. I gotta stop typing my wrist aches.

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    Quote Originally Posted by perfectbeast2001
    I respond to anyone who sends nude pics of figure competitors. It's for a project I'm doing. I gotta stop typing my wrist aches.
    I'm sure you would respond to most pm's!
    U seem like a great fella...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Carlos_E
    He only will reply if you weigh over 210 pounds. How much you weigh?

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    Last edited by Hackamaniac; 10-22-2006 at 06:45 PM.

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    On a serious note:

    Quote Originally Posted by Skullsmasher
    I know I had used you as a referance before (Without your permission, again, my apologies, I meant no harm, just thought you were familiar enough with me to have some amount of trust, I apparently was wrong.) and then even after explaning my reasoning, you still seemed to take it as an insult ? Had you read any of my messages thereafter (which I am assuming you didn't), you might have understood a little bit more. Having not responded to any of my messages since, one of them being an "apology" of sorts, I no longer will bother you with any questions/comments etc via PM/Email and I thank you for letting me know you will not respond to any if I was to do so.
    This thread wasn't directed at you.. but now that you've brought the topic up: Using someone as a reference without asking first is a HUGE no-no. It's enough to get you black balled by every source on the net.

    While i understand your thought process... accept the apology...and haven't taken any subsequent action(s)... you still have your work cut out for you if regaining that trust is of any importance to you.

    Narkissos

    Quote Originally Posted by Hackamaniac
    I've only sent you a couple awhile back and you don't respond to me anyway
    It was during the 'Smak debacle'.. It didn't warrant a reply. No offense to you personally of course.

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    To conclude tho... I realise that the real 'offenders' have chosen not to reply to this thread. I expected as much.

    To the other guys.. Thanks for understanding..and respecting my time constraints..

    Know that i will continue to help as much as i can.

    Any delay in response will be most likely due to the above-metioned time constraints.

    Nark

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    er?

    bump...

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    bump.....

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    nark you my boy its true what you say always helpin out as much as you can always replyin right away

    nark for prez

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    Thanks for the bump Faiz


    One8

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    bump...!

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    Quote Originally Posted by AnabolicAndre
    All seriousness, you dont need to explain yourself man. if people are taking advantage of you, then they don't deserve, a response much less an explination.
    I agree.... And to ask for you to re arrange a clients diet, etc is unbelievable... Good post Nark....

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    Thanks guys.

    I think i may lock this down in a bit... having got my thoughts accross

    Nark

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    God...... you're high maintainence C. But I still love ya.

    And for those people that nark will no longer respond to; Feel free to PM/Email me. I'll set you straight.

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    that's a shame bro, that ppl would take advantage of you that way - because eventually ppl like you will stop helping anyone and everyone and then we are all screwed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 1buffsob
    God...... you're high maintainence C. But I still love ya.

    And for those people that nark will no longer respond to; Feel free to PM/Email me. I'll set you straight.
    LMAO.. you have no idea what you're opening yourself up to

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    Quote Originally Posted by rock75
    that's a shame bro, that ppl would take advantage of you that way - because eventually ppl like you will stop helping anyone and everyone and then we are all screwed.
    Never will happen bro.

    As long as i'm on... i'll be here to help.. count on it

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    Quote Originally Posted by Narkissos
    Never will happen bro.

    As long as i'm on... i'll be here to help.. count on it
    ..WHEW,

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    Quote Originally Posted by perfectbeast2001
    I just sent those few asking about the sexual favours. I promise I'll stop now.


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    No i know why i have been getting so meany more pm's

    Nark you are 100% right.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gsxxr
    No i know why i have been getting so meany more pm's
    No.. you get so many more PMs because of the small penis thread

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    Quote Originally Posted by Narkissos
    No.. you get so many more PMs because of the small penis thread
    HAHAHAAHA.. .... BURN!.........

    get 'im, GSXXR....

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