To make a long story short, my previous supplier has began getting shady where as a buddy ordered some gear from him like we had before numerous times and it never came and the guy said it was seized and he wont return the money or reship. If he wasnt hours away...well i'll leave that alone there. My question is, without coming off as a disrespectful asshole what would be a respectful decent way to approach someone at the local gym about gear if its obvious hes using??? Please no lame comments on how i shouldnt do it, im not a newbie to gear just limited on sources that are trustworthy. Thanks for any help with this situation.