
Originally Posted by
Sexy4mySweetheart
wow... thats super messed up that she would do such a thing.
Maybe she is just extreamly immiture and enjoys head games or she craves drama...eigther way what she did is not normal, emotionaly healthy/stable behaviour for a girl, or any1 for that matter.
I wouldn't focus on the preg factor right now...I think your biggest most immediate concern is if you want to be subjected to more emotional abuse in the future by her. Cuz if shes ok with playing head games with you about a possible child of yours ~ than no topic would be off the table to her ~and that my friend, is a scarey thing.
At the very least you may want to vocalize to her how jacked it is of her to play with your emotions in attempt to make her point, and that it wont be tolerated in the future cuz your a grown *ss man and desirve to be spoken to as such with an adult conversation expressing her concerns and problem solving together. (sad to say tho that she sounds a lill crazy and may not respond to an adult conversation possitivly).
I almost typed that I was sorry for you, but I stopped myself because the solid fact is that we are all in the relationships we choose to have.
If this relationship is too nutty for you than go find a healthyer one ( its not like your married) or see if shes open to problem solving in this relationship...eigther way, your gonna have to man up, take charge an action and calmly state what you will and will not accept in your relationship.
Do whats best for you, May the force be with you, lol
p.s. ... some chicks truely are a lill scarey