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    how talk to loved ones about AAS usage?

    i was not planning on telling anyone that i was going on AAS because i know my girlfriend, friends and family are really against it. the problem now is that one of my friends walked in on me as i was injecting. so how do u guys go about having that conversation with people who are so openly against it?

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    Don't have that conversation. My parents know I do it and have never asked me. I'm way bigger now and there is no way they can't tell. They just don't want to ask me if I'm on roids.

    Don't sweat it dude. It's a free country and you can do what you want, well... sort of. At least you're not addicted to hardcore drugs like heroin, coke or meth...

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    best way is to tell them to run a search on here, as its been discussed 1,000,000 times

    if you're a grown adult what the hell do you care what a friend thinks anyway?! your post makes me think you're a teenager
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    Have you ever thought of injecting behind locked doors?

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    I forced my parents to watch the movie "Bigger, Stronger, Faster" then had them ask me any questions they had about it. Fortunately, my gf is all for me using, so there was never any issue there. She likes watching me inject lol.

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    my wife injects me. i told her when we were dating i was going to use them and if she had an issue we better end it early. i explained everything to her at that time and she is ok with it since i get my blood work done regularly and dont use insulin.

    my dad is all for it. trying to get him on. the rest of my family doesnt know. not gonna tell them.

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    Just my opinion but a couple implies partnership and partners must be honest with each other or they won't last. If you are in an adult relationship with your girlfriend then you need to discuss it with her...........................now that your friend knows eventually everyone is going to find out. Other than a serious girlfriend or wife I don't see why anyone other need be told. Get on a computer and come to this site together and let her see the facts for herself.

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    Most people already suspect it anyway (or at least they will if you're doing it right).
    It's really not a hard conversation so long as it is apparent that you know what you're doing and can baffle them with some AAS and ancillary knowledge.
    Both my parents and most of my good friends (including 2 ex-girlfriends) know I use, and I haven't once gotten a lecture or scolding. This is because I know what I'm doing and always have a lengthy, technical answer to counter any of the usual questions or concerns (i.e. HCG for "shrunken balls", getting frequent bloodwork, proper PCT etc). Only an idiot is going to try to lecture someone on a subject in which they are vastly outgunned...and I don't tell judgmental idiots. Just don't let them stump you on anything, or you're screwed.
    It also helps to have a handful of good reasons to justify your use ("because I want to be huge" doesn't really cut it).
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    I never tell anyone I'm on roids except my wife, dad, and, sister. I also had them watch the movie bigger, Stronger, Faster and answered all their questions and concerns they had. My wife injects me most the time

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    If its someone you feel you can trust, explain why you chose to do it. I told my girl I do it because bodybuilding is my passion, I explained I doubt I will ever be pro or even compete but this makes me happy and I have a desire to do it.

    If its just a bro you cant trust, tell him your on trt. Rather have somone blab to everyone im on 100mg of cyp for health reasons then a gram of cyp for personal reasons.

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    ok thanks guys. my girlfriend and i are definitely in a serious relationship and having talks of marriage and she knows im on but is totally against it. i will definitely have my friend sit down and address any concerns he has with it.

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    I'm sure my family knows. We don't discuss it. All my friends are on so its common conversation and all the girls we hang out with know.

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    Only people that know are my wife and brother. Better to keep things low key but ultimately I could never hide it from my wife.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fit4ever180 View Post
    I forced my parents to watch the movie "Bigger, Stronger, Faster" then had them ask me any questions they had about it. Fortunately, my gf is all for me using, so there was never any issue there. She likes watching me inject lol.
    repped, awesome movie.

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    Just tell them you're on TRT. "My doc said I have to"

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    I sat my girlfriend down and we watches B.F,S. She is a nurse, and afterwards asked "Maybe I should do some growth...lol"

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    When you get to be a certain size an explanation no longer becomes necessary, lol...

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    tell her to stick it in ur ass for you and then she will know what ur all about

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    Spam much?
    Mine is relatively easy. I told my wife at the time that I'm going to cycle and she offered to pin me.
    My mom asked "You're not doing steroids are you?" and I replied "**** yea I am" done deal. I find that if you treat it like it's not that big of a deal people don't go nuts over it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gthom47 View Post
    i was not planning on telling anyone that i was going on AAS because i know my girlfriend, friends and family are really against it. the problem now is that one of my friends walked in on me as i was injecting. so how do u guys go about having that conversation with people who are so openly against it?
    Thats something I think you should keep to yourself.
    Dont put yourself in situations where someone could
    walk in on you.

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