My girlfriend won't let me do steroids :(

**anabolicphenomenon** · 02-10-2013, 03:18 AM

I have about 10 years of experience with AAS and my current gf says she's gonna leave me if i continue to use them. Does anyone here have any advice? Thnx.

**Charger527** · 02-10-2013, 03:22 AM

Leave her, if she doesnt like you for who you are then go.

**panntastic** · 02-10-2013, 03:22 AM

Originally Posted by anabolicphenomenon

I have about 10 years of experience with AAS and my current gf says she's gonna leave me if i continue to use them. Does anyone here have any advice? Thnx.

Probably best in the lounge.
But is steroids a better companion than your gf?
Unless you make money from your strength or physique then I personally think you would be mad to pick a vial over human companionship.

**lovbyts** · 02-10-2013, 03:31 AM

And just where do you think she will draw the line in trying to control your life? There will be no such line. As much as you let her she will take it. Honestly especially if this was not the first thing that has come up and she was not willing to even listen or learn then I would move on. Tell her straight up, if SHE is not willing to have an open mind about things she knows nothing about then she is not the right one for you and it's time to part ways.

I understanding not picking aas over human companion but you dont have to, you just need to find the right one. Like I said, where will it end? Just because she is your GF does not mean she is the one.... Have you had others? yeah probably. Why didnt they work out? Because not everyone is meant to be together so just keep looking.

**Tron3219** · 02-10-2013, 03:38 AM

I'm gonna have to agree with love on this one. My WIFE doesn't even tell me what to do or gives me ultimatums. She just merely suggests things, like try not to go to jail...etc. lol

She's not ur mommy, she doesn't have the god given right to tell you what you can or can't do. And ultimatums are just feeble attempts at manipulation. If she can't talk to you about it and y'all come to a reasonable agreement then you have no reason being together.

-TroN-

**Back In Black** · 02-10-2013, 03:42 AM

Does your usage affect your relationship? Has she said why she wants you to stop? How long have you been with her?

**Honkey_Kong** · 02-10-2013, 03:46 AM

OP, it's really your choice what to do. It's one thing if she is just another girlfriend, but would you be on here posting this question if she was that? Here is what I suggest you do, first hit the google and do as much research as you can about steroids and the consequences about them. Find as many studies as you can and then perhaps educate her on AAS as best as you can. This probably will take many weeks of spoon-feeding her bits and pieces. Then you can sit down and have another discussion with her about YOU using them.

Now I don't know your story, and I don't know her story either, but I'm willing to bet she's the kind of girl that is controlling. Am I right? If that is the case then this isn't about your use of AAS, this is her bossing you around and from the sounds of it you're pretty fed up with it and should find another girlfriend.

If she lives with you and/or more serious than just her being another girlfriend, you need to sit with her and make the decision together. You'll hear a lot of people try to hide their use from their wife/gf, but this is bad business. Eventually, she's going to find out and definitely wont be cool with you then. It'll also keep you from being as close to her as you can because you'll always have this other life.

But remember this, if she agrees to let you do AAS, you're going to be at risk of consequences if it fails. Suppose kids become involved one day. You definitely risk this coming up in the custody hearings should you two split. Or if you get in a fight with her, she could easily dime you out. She might also let it slip out to other people that you use gear.

**ironbeck** · 02-10-2013, 04:35 AM

jUST THE FACT YOU ARE ASKING ABOUT THIS ON A FORUM...face it your a yes dear man, dont do them and what ever else she tells u to do their lol, your just that type of guy.never had a man card so why try to now.

**ryguy1982** · 02-10-2013, 04:56 AM

Oh hell my gf broke up with me for having low t and having to go on trt!! I tried explaining that I had to go on it cause of my ups and down and she replied steroids are not the answer!! So I just packed up my stuff and moved on..her loss!

**Honkey_Kong** · 02-10-2013, 05:02 AM

This really is lounge material.

**Papa Smurf** · 02-10-2013, 07:01 AM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

And just where do you think she will draw the line in trying to control your life? There will be no such line. As much as you let her she will take it. Honestly especially if this was not the first thing that has come up and she was not willing to even listen or learn then I would move on. Tell her straight up, if SHE is not willing to have an open mind about things she knows nothing about then she is not the right one for you and it's time to part ways.

I understanding not picking aas over human companion but you dont have to, you just need to find the right one. Like I said, where will it end? Just because she is your GF does not mean she is the one.... Have you had others? yeah probably. Why didnt they work out? Because not everyone is meant to be together so just keep looking.

Preach on my brother!!! OP...........Trust me on his, Lovbyts (and me) have been down some "interesting roads: Ditch ta bitch before you buy her a house, car, furniture, cloths, jewery, etc etc................ and alimony

**MickeyKnox** · 02-10-2013, 07:04 AM

Originally Posted by Honkey_Kong

This really is lounge material.

X2.

Choose between your AAS and her. Those are your options.

**clarky.** · 02-10-2013, 07:15 AM

Educate her if she's not 4 it well that's up 2 to u mate but when will she stop with her your not doing that shit.

**Honkey_Kong** · 02-10-2013, 07:17 AM

Originally Posted by MickeyKnox

X2.

Choose between your AAS and her. Those are your options.

He already made his decision before he posted this thread. He just wanted us to agree with him.

**MickeyKnox** · 02-10-2013, 07:23 AM

Originally Posted by Honkey_Kong

He already made his decision before he posted this thread. He just wanted us to agree with him.

I sorta knew that. But still, how sad is that. The day i need permission to use AAS responsibly is the day im single. Wait, i AM single..lol

**Honkey_Kong** · 02-10-2013, 07:31 AM

Originally Posted by MickeyKnox

I sorta knew that. But still, how sad is that. The day i need permission to use AAS responsibly is the day im single. Wait, i AM single..lol

I keep my old lady in the decision making mix. What happens to me affects her, we're not married, but we live together and we're trying to start a family. It's not that you need her to give permission, it's that you two need to make the decision together. If she's not willing to sit down and work towards a decision with him, the OP needs to kick her to the curb (unless he's a pvssy and will just let her rule over him).

Hahaha sorry it wasn't directed towards you and it wasn't coherently written as one thought. Just a bunch of thoughts on the matter I strung together.

**lovbyts** · 02-10-2013, 07:32 AM

Dont forget to get at least one more BJ before you let her loose and if she doesnt normally swallow or take it in the mouth to not warn her and give her a good blast.

**Honkey_Kong** · 02-10-2013, 07:37 AM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

Dont forget to get at least one more BJ before you let her loose and if she doesnt normally swallow or take it in the mouth to not warn her and give her a good blast.

^x100000000

This or you could go A2M on her.

**MickeyKnox** · 02-10-2013, 07:38 AM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

Dont forget to get at least one more BJ before you let her loose and if she doesnt normally swallow or take it in the mouth to not warn her and give her a good blast.

lol!

**ElectraMaddox** · 02-10-2013, 07:46 AM

I think you have to decide what most important to you. If you have ten years exp. with aas did you speak about that when you got involved? If she knew that and cont or she told you at the beginning she never liked it... Then you backed yourself in a corner. If you told her in the beginning and she accepted it then I think you have grounds to say to her that's apart of who you are.... There's not enough info to really analyze the situation. What I know about me... I like this lifestyle and who ever I end up with needs to accept it. I can't be with someone that wouldn't allow me to juice. That's just me and clearly I would have to have that conversation before getting committed. I just don't know where you stand.... What I don't recommend is doing it behind her back bc if she finds out you lied to her... The repercussions might be worse

**Henryhill470** · 02-10-2013, 07:50 AM

Ditch her. If he can't except you for who you are find someone that will ! 9 years ago I explained everything to my girlfriend and she accepted everything. We have been married now for 7 years. Don't change to make someone else happy.

**lovbyts** · 02-10-2013, 07:50 AM

Originally Posted by Honkey_Kong

^x100000000

This or you could go A2M on her.

hahaha I like the way you think you dirty boy....

**Honkey_Kong** · 02-10-2013, 08:00 AM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

hahaha I like the way you think you dirty boy....

You know the rule about A2M right? Once you do that, you can't ever kiss her again, so it's time you send her on her way.

**>Good Luck<** · 02-10-2013, 08:11 AM

Originally Posted by anabolicphenomenon

I have about 10 years of experience with AAS and my current gf says she's gonna leave me if i continue to use them. Does anyone here have any advice? Thnx.

So do what any man would do... Lie to her and tell her your all done and you'd never jeopardize your relationship.... And then find a better way to hide your stash. **** it. If she finds it just say oh well. If a girl threatens to leave, or accuses you of cheating etc... It's already to late IMO

**swm1972** · 02-10-2013, 08:18 AM

Originally Posted by >Good Luck<

So do what any man would do... Lie to her and tell her your all done and you'd never jeopardize your relationship.... And then find a better way to hide your stash. **** it. If she finds it just say oh well. If a girl threatens to leave, or accuses you of cheating etc... It's already to late IMO

You been reading my diary? Man this all sounds so familiar.

**lovbyts** · 02-10-2013, 10:29 AM

Originally Posted by >Good Luck<

So do what any man would do... Lie to her and tell her your all done and you'd never jeopardize your relationship.... And then find a better way to hide your stash. **** it. If she finds it just say oh well. If a girl threatens to leave, or accuses you of cheating etc... It's already to late IMO

And as the saying goes, it's always easier to ask for forgiveness than permission.

**Times Roman** · 02-10-2013, 12:12 PM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

And just where do you think she will draw the line in trying to control your life? There will be no such line. As much as you let her she will take it. Honestly especially if this was not the first thing that has come up and she was not willing to even listen or learn then I would move on. Tell her straight up, if SHE is not willing to have an open mind about things she knows nothing about then she is not the right one for you and it's time to part ways.

I understanding not picking aas over human companion but you dont have to, you just need to find the right one. Like I said, where will it end? Just because she is your GF does not mean she is the one.... Have you had others? yeah probably. Why didnt they work out? Because not everyone is meant to be together so just keep looking.

I'm going to agree with LB here. You were doing AAS long before you were doing her. I understand her concern, which, unfortunately is based on fear.

So suppose you had a harley, and your gf said she doesn't want you to ride anymore, it's either her or the bike?

The art of finding the right companion is to not try to shape your significant other to conform to your expectations, but instead, find the right companion that is reasonably close to your expectations, and then learn to adapt your expectations to the person you are with. forcing a person to change never really works in the long term.

that's just my opinion

**BBJT200** · 02-10-2013, 12:16 PM

Roman has a good point here. ^

A good partner is not one who tries to change someone into something else. A good relationship is about finding someone whose differences you can accept...not change.

**Synergy1** · 02-10-2013, 12:42 PM

Originally Posted by >Good Luck<

So do what any man would do... Lie to her and tell her your all done and you'd never jeopardize your relationship.... And then find a better way to hide your stash. **** it. If she finds it just say oh well. If a girl threatens to leave, or accuses you of cheating etc... It's already to late IMO

Boom! We have a winner.

**XxAndreaxX** · 02-10-2013, 01:24 PM

my GF is psycoligist, and she doesn't want me to take AAS because its freakin deep vigorexia, and I need help. **** that, I love vigorexia, I'm not in any depression, i ****in love it.
So I start my cycle without sayin nothing to her, and at the end, she loves the great sex I'm giving her, even If I don't ****in have any desire to have sex.

**--->>405<<---** · 02-10-2013, 01:33 PM

Originally Posted by ironbeck

jUST THE FACT YOU ARE ASKING ABOUT THIS ON A FORUM...face it your a yes dear man, dont do them and what ever else she tells u to do their lol, your just that type of guy.never had a man card so why try to now.

im thinking beck may be onto something here. in my opinion ur GF must already wear the pants in the relationship in order to feel she is in a position to make such a demand. if it were me and she were just my GF id tell her to go fvck herself!

at some point u are gonna need to grow some balls otherwise ur gonna go around feeling bad about urself for getting bossed around by ur woman...

oh and its bigorexia not vigorexia..

**marcus300** · 02-10-2013, 01:36 PM

Whats more important to you? you decide

**austinite** · 02-10-2013, 01:40 PM

This is an easy fix. Just make an exchange with your girlfriend. Now you wear the pants and she wears the skirt.

**redz** · 02-10-2013, 01:45 PM

Kick her to the curb. On to the next one.

**Xtralarg** · 02-10-2013, 01:46 PM

Originally Posted by anabolicphenomenon

I have about 10 years of experience with AAS and my current gf says she's gonna leave me if i continue to use them. Does anyone here have any advice? Thnx.

It's impossible to give sound advice there are too many factors that only you know and feel that will lead you to your decision.

I would come off or just don't use for a while and see how you feel, time will help you come to your decision.

**likelifting** · 02-10-2013, 01:50 PM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

And just where do you think she will draw the line in trying to control your life? There will be no such line. As much as you let her she will take it. Honestly especially if this was not the first thing that has come up and she was not willing to even listen or learn then I would move on. Tell her straight up, if SHE is not willing to have an open mind about things she knows nothing about then she is not the right one for you and it's time to part ways.

I understanding not picking aas over human companion but you dont have to, you just need to find the right one. Like I said, where will it end? Just because she is your GF does not mean she is the one.... Have you had others? yeah probably. Why didnt they work out? Because not everyone is meant to be together so just keep looking.

This.

**EyE** · 02-10-2013, 01:57 PM

Flip a coin and let fate decide......

Heads=AAS
Tails=GF

problem solved, lol.

**redz** · 02-10-2013, 02:04 PM

Flip a coin and let fate decide......

Be careful with this..... I did this just under a year a go and changed everything in my life. I`m at peace with it but just saying.......I ended a marriage and 7 year career on a coin flip.

**canesfan804** · 02-10-2013, 02:08 PM

If you have 10 years exp with AAS then she should understand AAS is part of the reason she is with you. My wife didnt like the idea of me doing it at first but after talking with her she is no longer against it. Although she is really against Tren but I wouldnt be doing that for a long time anyways.

**ElectraMaddox** · 02-10-2013, 02:11 PM

Originally Posted by BBJT200

Roman has a good point here. ^

A good partner is not one who tries to change someone into something else. A good relationship is about finding someone whose differences you can accept...not change.

Well said