Si it wise to cycle without telling the mrs?

**rodduz** · 11-01-2013, 04:09 PM

Is she going to know? Can fob her off for the gains with some bullshit about german volume training etc but in the bedroom? Are there going to be times during pct where the old fella aint going to play ball?

**Cuz** · 11-01-2013, 04:26 PM

I never tell mine. That's just me though. It would cause too many problems.

**rodduz** · 11-01-2013, 04:30 PM

DO you just not shag her for a week or so?

**mikey hulk** · 11-01-2013, 04:46 PM

Tell her the truth cuz if she finds out you done

**GSXRvi6** · 11-01-2013, 04:48 PM

Mine knows what's up, I don't hide anything from her. Besides, I can pitch stuff like "you gotta get me off every day cause it's good for my prostate while on cycle"

**qscgugcsq** · 11-01-2013, 04:51 PM

Tell her, she probably only think the same thing that everyone think.

explain her how steroids works inside.
what the side you could expect, what you do to counter them.

Thats what I did with my girlfriend.

steroids are safe if done properly dont just tell her, explain her.

**Cuz** · 11-01-2013, 05:03 PM

Originally Posted by rodduz

DO you just not shag her for a week or so?

I been married for almost 9 years man, married when I was 20. Sex don't happen much no more. I really do not understand your question to be honest, do you mean while on cycle or pct or what?

**rodduz** · 11-01-2013, 05:04 PM

Haha, ah right! Both really...

**Cuz** · 11-01-2013, 05:07 PM

you want to know how much me and the wife have sex? lmao

**frighteous** · 11-01-2013, 05:28 PM

Yes...I'd like to know. Mine wants to get married, but I am on the fence.

**AlphaMike** · 11-01-2013, 05:39 PM

Just tell her. You're a grown man, do what you want. If she's smart she won't freak out with the knee jerk reaction most ppl have.

Frighteous,
Basing your expectations of marriage off of someone else's is ludicrous. Different relationship, different ppl, different circumstances!

Rodduz,
Do your PCT right and you shouldn't get ED.

**Cuz** · 11-01-2013, 05:49 PM

when you get married chances are they person doesn't stay the same after a few years. When you buy a new car its all shiny clean and new and then 5 years later it has 100k miles on it its in the shop and don't work have the time....what do you do? You trade the damn thing in lmao!

Marriage is a big deal man, if I had to do it over I wouldn't have got married at such a young age. I was too young to get married so if you are satisfied with your life and have done everything you want to do then go for it. Just know that when you do get married shit changes a lot.

As far as ED goes just watch your estrogen levels, check blood, and use proper PCT and it "should" be good to go.

**frighteous** · 11-01-2013, 05:58 PM

Originally Posted by AlphaMike

Just tell her. You're a grown man, do what you want. If she's smart she won't freak out with the knee jerk reaction most ppl have.

Frighteous,
Basing your expectations of marriage off of someone else's is ludicrous. Different relationship, different ppl, different circumstances!

Rodduz,
Do your PCT right and you shouldn't get ED.

AlphaMike, I'm basing my expectations off of 75 percent of the men who are married that I've spoken to. After 5 years of marriage, I hear "Sex? Much less than when we were dating, etc." Then I know plenty of dudes who have been married 10-15 years and every single one of them have generally just accepted the fact that they get laid once a week if they're lucky. I feel that it's a considerably realistic cause for concern, I mean, sure, you could assume that most of these guys are doing something wrong; like, maybe some of them aren't going down on their woman before they make love, or maybe they just aren't that good in bed to begin with, but I revert back to my original point...It is extremely rare to find a married dude who's been married for ten plus years, who has sex three to four times a week.

**Cuz** · 11-01-2013, 06:03 PM

Originally Posted by frighteous

AlphaMike, I'm basing my expectations off of 75 percent of the men who are married that I've spoken to. After 5 years of marriage, I hear "Sex? Much less than when we were dating, etc." Then I know plenty of dudes who have been married 10-15 years and every single one of them have generally just accepted the fact that they get laid once a week if they're lucky. I feel that it's a considerably realistic cause for concern, I mean, sure, you could assume that most of these guys are doing something wrong; like, maybe some of them aren't going down on their woman before they make love, or maybe they just aren't that good in bed to begin with, but I revert back to my original point...It is extremely rare to find a married dude who's been married for ten plus years, who has sex three to four times a week.

I agree

**GSXRvi6** · 11-01-2013, 06:10 PM

I have been married for over 10, 3 kids, I get it 2 - 5 times a week.

Told her early on, I am getting laid in a regular basis, she needed to decide who was gonna do the laying cause I was getting it one way or another.

**Rusty11** · 11-01-2013, 06:10 PM

Originally Posted by frighteous

AlphaMike, I'm basing my expectations off of 75 percent of the men who are married that I've spoken to. After 5 years of marriage, I hear "Sex? Much less than when we were dating, etc." Then I know plenty of dudes who have been married 10-15 years and every single one of them have generally just accepted the fact that they get laid once a week if they're lucky. I feel that it's a considerably realistic cause for concern, I mean, sure, you could assume that most of these guys are doing something wrong; like, maybe some of them aren't going down on their woman before they make love, or maybe they just aren't that good in bed to begin with, but I revert back to my original point...It is extremely rare to find a married dude who's been married for ten plus years, who has sex three to four times a week.

Ahhh...c'mon guys. 52 here, married 23 years, and sex 2-3 times per week. Long live liquid cia!!!

Sorry OP. My post has nothing to do with your question.

I do agree that 20 is too young to get married, though. Too much life to experience...

**EasyDoesIt** · 11-01-2013, 06:36 PM

Strap on those bal..s (j/k) and start the deal off by telling the truth and who you are. If it is important to you to use gear once in awhile i would not dance around the issue. Some women do not like their spouse or bf to go to the gym a lot either, if the two go hand in hand you have a problem there to. I have a friend that takes test but his gf won't let him do anything else and he has to hide his hgh which has got to be a pain, don't even know how he does it. He shivers when he buys something for himself because his gf is going to be pissed, i say screw that it's my money i don't tell you not to get breast implants. lol
That's just me tho, do what you are comfortable with, as long as your comfortable hiding every time you decide to cycle and start sweating about getting caught.
Best of luck friend!

**Megalodon6** · 11-01-2013, 06:43 PM

I'm 23 and I've been happily married for 3 years with two kids!

**diesel101** · 11-01-2013, 09:26 PM

Originally Posted by chadcuz1985

I never tell mine. That's just me though. It would cause too many problems.

This is how I also prefer to handle it.

**mh03** · 11-02-2013, 01:06 AM

I'm preparing for my first cycle. Been married 3 years and not planning on saying anything to the wife. Too much headache, theres no way in hell she would understand. Having said that I'm still trying to figure out exactly how I'm going to do it without her knowing.

**DPTUK** · 11-02-2013, 01:27 AM

Ever since I crashed my E2 levels, I've found the holy grail of asexuality.

I just love not having a libido... it's such a power trip when some hot blonde chick does squats in front of you and the only thing you care about is how quickly she's gonna finish her sets so you can jump in on the squat rack!

**EasyDoesIt** · 11-02-2013, 01:34 AM

You would have to find your secret hiding place. Although when it comes to HCG you might have a problem. I drove on short vacation one time where i wanted to continue hGh and placed it in a sandwich type cooler. I just used one of those plastic units that you freeze to keep things cold, when i stayed at hotel i used water and some ice to keep it cold. You would have to change it out regularly which would be a major pain. If you own your own business and have an office that would solve it all. I can't imagine not being able to hide a few bottles of gear somewhere. What's your explanation for the muscle growth going to be?

**programdude** · 11-02-2013, 02:20 AM

It'll be a pain keeping it secret. A gf no, but a wife definetley.

**redz** · 11-02-2013, 02:31 AM

Just be honest if there's a problem then on to the next one.

**masso** · 11-02-2013, 04:15 AM

My wife injected me a few times, goes gets my barells and needles for me.

Seriously all you guys who have to hide stuff honestly don't have the right woman for you otherwise you wouldn't need to hide anything.

I love talking to Mrs about my cycles etc.

**Brett N** · 11-02-2013, 04:31 AM

Been married 15 years, 2 kids and we have sex just as much now as we did 15 years ago. 4-6 times per week and twice a day on occasion when we have a sitter. Great cardio.

Honestly, for me, if I can't be honest...what do I really have? I have not cycled but I told my wife that I would be upping my TRT when I start to take T3. I told her I would be tripling it so I wouldn't lose any muscle and I would actually probably gain a little. I try to educate her as much as possible . She also has some faith i my judgement because I am not the type who goes off on some cockamamy bs without being properly informed.

Plus, it just seems like a lot of work to try and hide it and the risk of being caught.

**Lunk1** · 11-02-2013, 06:31 AM

If you have to lie about this, what else do you feel the need to lie about?

By the way, married at 19, been married nearly 22 years and still hitting it damn near daily.

**austinite** · 11-02-2013, 06:33 AM

Originally Posted by Lunk1

If you have to lie about this, what else do you feel the need to lie about?

By the way, married at 19, been married nearly 22 years and still hitting it damn near daily.

Ummm... your girlfriend on the side for one!

**Lunk1** · 11-02-2013, 06:39 AM

Originally Posted by austinite

Ummm... your girlfriend on the side for one!

Your new pic looks great sweety. You drive all the boys crazy around here

**austinite** · 11-02-2013, 06:41 AM

Dang. Right in the kisser!

**JinNtonic** · 11-02-2013, 06:48 AM

Marriage is supposed to be a team. You support each other, but your both adults and make your own decions.

**austinite** · 11-02-2013, 06:54 AM

This is always a never ending debate because obviously people will see both sides. Just do what you feel comfortable with. Personally, I wouldn't share anything. You can absolutely count on every small to large argument being blamed on steroids and so called rage. I don't care how educated your partner is, there is no educating non-users that it's fine. No matter how much support you get, I assure you, they're not convinced. Many folks even have issues with T therapy...

Furthermore, you better hope to whatever you believe in, that you don't reach the point of separation, especially if children are involved. You can kiss your rights to the kids goodbye. Custody battles wouldn't even exist, you'd be out of the equation faster than you can dial your attorney. Not to mention any potential personal legal trouble.

If you've been married for 20+ years, kids in college and you feel comfortable. Go for it I guess. For me, I'll never share the info with anyone, no partner, no siblings, no one. I'll die with it.

Deny deny deny. Never fails.

**Cuz** · 11-02-2013, 09:12 AM

we can all agree on some marriages work and some just don't. Like I said I keep my stuff private from the missus, that's just me. You can do whatever you want to do.

**EasyDoesIt** · 11-02-2013, 11:06 AM

Originally Posted by austinite

You can absolutely count on every small to large argument being blamed on steroids and so called rage. I don't care how educated your partner is, there is no educating non-users that it's fine. No matter how much support you get, I assure you, they're not convinced. Many folks even have issues with T therapy...

Furthermore, you better hope to whatever you believe in, that you don't reach the point of separation, especially if children are involved. You can kiss your rights to the kids goodbye. Custody battles wouldn't even exist, you'd be out of the equation faster than you can dial your attorney. Not to mention any potential personal legal trouble.

If you've been married for 20+ years, kids in college and you feel comfortable. Go for it I guess. For me, I'll never share the info with anyone, no partner, no siblings, no one. I'll die with it.

That's a very good point Aust! Hhmm sounds like you have a bit of experience with that. When things go bad count on them to use whatever they have against you. That includes girlfriends to, Love can end in a moment.
Sounds like he will have a heck of a time hiding them. Some people have very little space in relationships and their daily habits are so predictable that changes start throwing up red flags. Guess you better find your wifes female idol and tell her that she uses Anavar to look that way, then get your wife on Var and you will have something on her. (jk,) but if she was a fitness fanatic, she would probably like it. Like i said HCG is going to be the big hiding challenge.

**EasyDoesIt** · 11-02-2013, 12:19 PM

Originally Posted by Lunk1

By the way, married at 19, been married nearly 22 years and still hitting it damn near daily.

That is a serious accomplishment Lunk and i mean it for real. Not many can make that statement, good for you my man, you and your wife must be doing something right.