
Originally Posted by
FRDave
Not to be a dick so don't take this the wrong way...
My girl had 2 kids and is not as tight as the majority of girls I have slept with. Even though she is very attractive and an awesome girl, guys orgasm based on feeling, not mentally like girls. Because of this, it does take me longer to bust with my girl, in which a condom would make it near impossible.
Would I ever tell my girl she is loose? No... But after having kids and as you age, keagels are a must.
Once again, the above is only another consideration as you mentioned you have a kid. Could be simple a condom that was too tight and needs a larger size.