Just want to know peoples experiences with this.
Girlfriend says she'd leave me if I ever do AAS. Is it worth hiding or just do what you want to do, be open about it and let life take it's course?
Just want to know peoples experiences with this.
Girlfriend says she'd leave me if I ever do AAS. Is it worth hiding or just do what you want to do, be open about it and let life take it's course?
Some woman will use anything they can to have a power over you. She will hold it against you. Shouldn't have told her.
I taught my wife to inject me.Originally Posted by newguy92
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Lucky haha.Originally Posted by MuscleInk
I'm sill going to do what I want. I'm just wondering if I should not tell her or tell her and let her do whateverOriginally Posted by DAAS
If there is one thing I have learned about relationships it is to always be honest. If it is something you really want to do she will understand or move on and you will find someone who will.
I've hid it from one and had another pin me. If the girls not cool with it then don't tell her. Sometimes successful relationships are based on well kept secrets my friend.
I am a little torn on giving advice on that one just for the fact that my wife of 15 years doesn't even know that I cycle. There are only two people other than me that know I cycle even though there quite a few that suspect it.
How do you think she'd respond/react to finding out.Originally Posted by diesel101
My ex-wife knew and didn't approve but knew better than to give me grief about it. Her only request was that I not inject when the kids were around which made total sense to me.
She would be p!ssed!!!!!!!!!!!! My wife knows that I do pretty much what ever I want but this is one of the few things that she would not put up with me doing. I have made a few comments about trying steriods and from her reaction and comments I know there is know way she would agree to it.
Unless you have been when your gf for a very long time AND trust her 100% I wouldn't tell her anything. I've heard of girls turning their bf into law enforcement when she got pissed at him or he tried to break up with her.
That being said, is she into fitness at all? Tell her to become a member here for the diet and fitness part of the forum. The more she's around here the more she'll start to realize that gear; when properly used, isn't as bad as the media makes it out to be.
My wife (when she was still my gf) used to think steroids were horrible because all she ever heard about is what is preached on the news. We both became members here for diet and training purposed and when I finally got ready to do my first cycle she not only supported that decision but she encouraged it. Now she does my injections for me if I ask.
Ouch. Awkward. So glad I'm not in that situation - too much drama.Originally Posted by diesel101
It's not her business. Deny deny deny. That goes for everything around you. GF, friends, family, etc...
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That's your business, not hers.
^^^If we're talking a GF, I could agree. If a wife, I disagree.Originally Posted by AshopRep
Yes, true....but I imagine its still a difficult position for you to be in.Originally Posted by diesel101
Not going to lie it does kinda bother me not telling her the truth we normally have a very honest marriage.
Throw on "bigger faster stronger" and watch it with her, maybe it well help alleviate some of the gross misconceptions perpetuated by the media
This is what I was talking about in my last post in the "hot wife" thread. Why are you the one that has to give in? She says it's her way or the highway....there's no compromise there, she already has her mind made up and fvck you if you wanta do gear. It's ridiculous that we've come to the point that our women tell us what we are and what we aren't going to do.
Agree that a successful marriage requires communication and concessions.Originally Posted by slfmade
Sorry OP, not trying to take is in a different direction.![]()
Tell here its TRT if she finds it. Other than that I would not say crap about it and like others have said, deny deny deny. I also have my wife inject me but she thinks its just TRT. Since she is about to graduate from Nursing school now she is getting cut out of the loop. She now knows how much TRT goes into a syringe . . .
Don't tell her
Stick it in her butt and then as you cum on her face tell her you use steroids and too bad for her.
I havnt cycled yet but ive discussed it with my current GF, to begin with she was totally against it and thought i would turn into a monster. She was also against me messing with my hormones and future fertility, thats when i told her to stop taking the birth control pill and we will use condoms.. As she can have fertility issues in the future aswell,she was totally against that aswell so i said whilst you manipulate your hormones (in the safest manner possible) then so will i.. But since then i have spent countless nights reading stickies and threads to her, now all she asks from me is that i let her know when i do cycle and to involve hershe even reminds me to not forget my pre-cycle bloodwork.. I think honesty is the key..
This ^^
Im in the Uk, so the legal issues arent so great here about using. However, my girlfriend of 3 years knew from the start of my steroid use, she initially didnt like it at all, but after realising that I wasnt just a 'steroid monkey' but did know how to use them properly* she became more accepting, and having watched things like Bigger, Faster, Stronger, she realised that its use is demonised by the media for no reason at all, except it makes a good headline.
Pistorius case, currently in the media a lot. It was initially headlined as "steroid athelete shoots girlfriend" or something to that effect, as if steroids were the main cause.
raoul moat - He wasnt just a psycho, he was a steroid using maniac!
Once she understood this she was very excepting of my use.
I've decided to do thisOriginally Posted by redz
Thanks everyone for the comments!
my wife knows everything that I take and is supportive of my aas use because I use them responsibly...I once asked her during one of our disagreements/fights if this is about the steroids and she calmly said absolutely not...to be honest she really digs her big boy and wouldn't want it any other way...not all women are into the Adam Levine look thank god...
Heres what I did:
My GF was against any type of drug and for her steroid was likr any other street drugs.
I explained her what they really were, what they were doing inside my body. I was talking in physiological term not in bro term. You have to make her understand that you know what the **** you are doing.
I also said why I wanted to do that.
After a couple weeks she were ok with me using.
+ she even injected me most of the time.
There is no reason to lie, tell her exactly what side effect could happen, and what you plan on doing for every side that could happen.
If you know what your doing it and you show it to her. She cant say that you are a irresponsible douchebag who do no effort.
Just my .02
I am the worst lier you could ever see therefor hiding it from here has never been a option.
Plus, think about it. If she discpver you lied to her. Its done.
If she disagree with you but at least she knows what you doing. It will be more acceptable.
Good luck
I'm in Canada and possession isn't illegalOriginally Posted by tattoo449
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