Sexual Appetite

My boyfriend is an experienced steroid user and his sex drive is in four wheel drive. Not that I'm complaining, however, when he wants to get naughty he just asks for it or something. Like he doesn't believe in the magic of four play or doesn't try to turn me on as well. I have tried many ways and many times to communicate this issue. I couldn't be more direct. However he still doesn't try and I am left unsatisfied or not interested and he will do this little guilt trip thing if I say no. What can I do to get him to understand. How do I get him to try to turn me on first. At least sometimes.

-sexually frustrated

he's just going to keep doing that because reguardless of your concern you keep having sex with him right?

Slap the tit and tell him it's not all about him. What's wrong with him anyway he should be playing with you and enjoying it as long as pos. :chairshot

I plead the 5th

Lovbyts ?

This should be fun.

Tell him if he needs to finish what he starts .....like a big boy!

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Originally Posted by Buster Brown

Tell him if he needs to finish what he starts .....like a big boy!

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:lol:..

Get a new boyfriend, plenty of fish in the sea. You will get over him in no time as soon as somebody else makes you cum.

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Originally Posted by Mr.BB

Get a new boyfriend, plenty of fish in the sea. You will get over him in no time as soon as somebody else makes you cum.

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lmao

I was trying to b nice

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lmao

I was trying to b nice

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She can be nice dumping him, never said to be rude lol.

Just politely tell him something like: "I need to move on, it was good but my feelings have changed."

:)

PS: BTW, this selfish behaviour its not a steroids side effect (this needs to be crystal clear lol)

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Originally Posted by Mr.BB

PS: BTW, this selfish behaviour its not a steroids side effect (this needs to be crystal clear lol)

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Truth ;)

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Originally Posted by < >

Truth ;)

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Yup......just like when someone turns into an ass when they drink to much.....its because they are an ass!

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Originally Posted by Buster Brown

Yup......just like when someone turns into an ass when they drink to much.....its because they are an ass!

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Well put, it just multiplies it

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Originally Posted by KCCOJESSI

My boyfriend is an experienced steroid user and his sex drive is in four wheel drive. Not that I'm complaining, however, when he wants to get naughty he just asks for it or something. Like he doesn't believe in the magic of four play or doesn't try to turn me on as well. I have tried many ways and many times to communicate this issue. I couldn't be more direct. However he still doesn't try and I am left unsatisfied or not interested and he will do this little guilt trip thing if I say no. What can I do to get him to understand. How do I get him to try to turn me on first. At least sometimes.

-sexually frustrated

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You need to learn how to communicate better with him and actually explain how you feel, if he doesn't listen then he's obviously a douche.

Sounds like your boyfriend is still young.
Most guys when younger only care about themselves in bed.

It isn't until we get older that we finally understand. That the fun really begins when you pay attention to a woman's needs and let her go first.

Lovbytes is our resident love guru.
I'm sure he'll be around shortly. Lol

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Originally Posted by swolehead

he's just going to keep doing that because reguardless of your concern you keep having sex with him right?

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agreed. teach him a lesson, communicate that foreplay or no sex. ;)