So, I told my wife I used AAS
I'm happily married for 5 years, 2 kids, and been keeping this from my wife since my first cycle in the Fall. I was nervous AF to tell her because of the stigma surrounding AAS and how it's labeled as such an awful thing. I knew I had to though, it was eating away at me that I was hiding it from her.
It went much better than expected.
She definitely expressed her disappointment, but more because I didn't tell her about it initially. I get that, but I had my reasons for not telling her before/during my first cycle. It did find it somewhat baffling that she almost doesn't care if I use AAS, saying she trusts me to know what I'm putting in my body and whether or not it's dangerous. She even didn't mind that I was already planning my next cycle - which to me is a huge surprise. She just told me she doesn't want to see me doing it, and definitely won't help me inject - although I didn't ask, she was just clarifying her stance. She doesn't want to know any specifics except for when I'm on cycle, just for her knowledge.
I also have no doubt she'll keep this between us - she never shares our private affairs.
*Deep sigh of relief*
Any of you other bros tell your wives and have similar experiences?