Oh come on Obs lol. I get why he did it, but he should have told her. Once a man and woman make that covenant before God and vote to love through the good tonnes and bad, that's a 3 way promise. Divorce should be dropped from your vocabulary. That's why it's imperative to get to know her before taking the plunge. My wife and I dated for 8 years while ahe finished up college and we never loved together ever. Not even short term. But when wee got married, it meant so much. Now there has been times we've wanted to kill eachother, but in the end I wouldn't have it any other way. I've left for a few days before but we always patch it up. Marriage has most so much more messing these days because we are programmed to be selfish and self serving. Marriage is the hardest work one will ever do. And before I quit my rant, I do believe there is grounds for divorce. Infidelity and that's it. But even in infidelity, there are those strong couples that can power through and work to get it right. I admire those. Ok. My rant and sermon is over now
*EDIT - Where does he live?