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09-25-2018, 08:33 PM #1New Member
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Telling your Significant Other about Gear
Hi all!
My girlfriend saw me excited before she left for work. I had a nice touchdown of some highly anticipated Gear... She knows about my trt, but I haven't broached subject of gear. Should I keep my mouth shut or cop to it? Anyone with insight or stories would help.
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09-25-2018, 08:43 PM #2
I was honest with my wife about it before I started my first cycle. She was nervous of course until she saw the documentary "Bigger, Stronger, Faster" then she was all in because she saw the benefits of it for me and my low test. She is always excited when a package comes in the mail with my gear in it.
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09-25-2018, 08:49 PM #3Staff ~ HRT Optimization Specialist
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I wouldn't tell a girlfriend, if the relationship goes south it could blow up in your face.
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09-25-2018, 09:10 PM #4
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09-25-2018, 09:38 PM #5Associate Member
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If it's serious I'd tell her man. Always better to air on the side of caution and tell the truth. Better than lying about it for a year or whatever and then her finding out (which she will) and never trusting you again, since you kept a secret for that long from her.
It is a part of your life, and if she is too - you will share it.
Now if it's some random chick you don't think it will workout with - maybe leave it out of the conversation haha
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09-26-2018, 01:39 AM #6New Member
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Nope. Dont tell her. Unless you know for sure you can trust her.
What happens when you guys break up and, she turns on you? Minipulates you and holds this over your head. Or. Runs to the cops.
Do not tell her.
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Shit, my 2nd wife started me on my sauce
I wouldn't inject myself, since she's going to school to be a nurse and all - I'll do it, no prob
I fvck with her now saying I'll come off - she says, she'll spike me in my sleep
Wife #1 would freak & do some weird shit like throw my crap away
Yeah, I got this strange relationship shit covered
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09-26-2018, 07:16 AM #9
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09-26-2018, 07:34 AM #10
Coffee, breakfast, syrine, and a kiss...
I quit chewing up adrol tabs, was tired of getting bristled by her 5 o'clock shadow.
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^ pretty much, no joke
As far as other "girlfriends" or whatever I come up with - I tell nothing. . . But, the last few just knew & just seem to expect it from guys they are with. They just want it kept away from them.
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09-26-2018, 07:42 AM #12
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09-26-2018, 08:07 AM #13
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09-26-2018, 10:40 AM #14
Depends apon the relationship......
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09-26-2018, 02:51 PM #15
Upon......
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09-26-2018, 03:22 PM #16Member
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09-26-2018, 03:58 PM #17Junior Member
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Even if you have a great relationship illegal stuff is still illegal and if you break up and she is spiteful you may wish you kept quite, I have a friend going throgh that now. He has a court date in a couple of weeks for what his lawyer says should never have been an issue. Good luck. If you are married the laws are different.
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Lmfao... right!!
Unless shes ride or die. Then, thats not gonna happen.
Just be careful. Ive even seen ex wives rat their ex husbands out. I, personally wouldnt rat my soon to be ex out for fucking gear. Like. No. I couldnt do that, i do them. It would be hypocritical of me to do that.
Moral of the story. Get a girl you can cycle with lol
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09-26-2018, 06:06 PM #19
My ex wife screamed steroids in divorce. The judge, I, and my lawyer looked at her like she was batshit.
It probably could have effected me if she hadnt been screaming like a psycho.
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09-26-2018, 06:26 PM #20
Deny Deny Deny.
Never, ever tell. That's my advice. Not even if she was your wife.~ PLEASE DO NOT ASK FOR SOURCE CHECKS ~
"It's human nature in a 'more is better' society full of a younger generation that expects instant gratification, then complain when they don't get it. The problem will get far worse before it gets better". ~ kelkel
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09-26-2018, 08:10 PM #22
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09-26-2018, 08:12 PM #23Junior Member
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The truth will set you free. LOL! But really who wants to live a lie?
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09-26-2018, 09:28 PM #24Staff ~ HRT Optimization Specialist
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09-28-2018, 08:24 PM #25
I already have trust issues. Especially with women. I trust NO woman to not use the roid card against me in a breakup/divorce. I mean, that would have to be a TRUE ride or die. I'm talkin Dom Toretto and Letty Ortiz level ride or die. Otherwise, I personally wouldn't trust them with that information. It'll be kinda hard to get it around a wife though. Maybe write out a contract saying she can't use it against you in the event of a divorce
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Shit - in all real reality, my current wife has way more on me than just steroid use
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09-29-2018, 12:01 PM #27New Member
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All you guys are right. My girl does not handle conflict well. My lips are sealed.
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It so depends on the person
A solid 75% of the females I currently know accept it like it is a regular part of a over 30 guy
I know quite a few guys who are on true TRT & they don't even lift
I suppose it's how you present it too - Well, I went to a REAL MD & they prescribed me this
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09-29-2018, 12:28 PM #29
Just happened bout hour ago.
Usual steroids threats by a bitch
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Don't tell shit , even if scripted they'll demonize it as the cause for you not putting up with being walked on
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^ truth
We're all dif tho
Only a very select few get close to me & know what I actually do. They speculate, but barely get an idea.
It's just the way it has to be - for me at least
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09-29-2018, 03:52 PM #31
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Well, so far so good I guess - nothing derogatory towards any of my fitness or juicing so far from any female around me
Knock on wood
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09-30-2018, 05:33 PM #33New Member
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I would be totally honest. It never feels good sneaking around in your own home. If she finds out on her own, it will also cause major trust issues probably beyond any issue that would have been created by the steroids in the first place. It might be a hard conversation, but I would do it.
I eased into it with my wife. I was tested and found to have low testosterone , so an actual doctor prescribed me testosterone . Then, I found cheaper sources and told her about that. She was worried but okay with it. Then, I started experimenting with other steroids and told her, making sure she was aware that each is just a derivative of the testosterone molecule. Now, she doesn't care at all. It's just a part of our lives and no big deal. It's a good place to be, much better than sneaking, hiding, and worrying. I have kids, so I keep them in a safe, and she has the combination in case she ever wants to look around or whatever. She never has but I can tell it makes her feel better to know nothing is hidden.
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09-30-2018, 06:46 PM #34New Member
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What I find funny is the most judgmental women when it comes to PEDs usually have some infatuation with Hugh Jackman, Chris Hemsworth and other actors who are obviously juicing (not judging those guys obviously, just saying there's a double standard and they aren't open about their usage)
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