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    Telling your Significant Other about Gear

    Hi all!

    My girlfriend saw me excited before she left for work. I had a nice touchdown of some highly anticipated Gear... She knows about my trt, but I haven't broached subject of gear. Should I keep my mouth shut or cop to it? Anyone with insight or stories would help.

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    I was honest with my wife about it before I started my first cycle. She was nervous of course until she saw the documentary "Bigger, Stronger, Faster" then she was all in because she saw the benefits of it for me and my low test. She is always excited when a package comes in the mail with my gear in it.

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    I wouldn't tell a girlfriend, if the relationship goes south it could blow up in your face.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Windex View Post
    I wouldn't tell a girlfriend, if the relationship goes south it could blow up in your face.
    Exactly! Tell no one. Maybe a trusted friend or a long time wife. Just had a now ex girlfriend go crazy on me. Glad she didn't know about my use of gear Or she'd have screamed that to the world as well.

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    If it's serious I'd tell her man. Always better to air on the side of caution and tell the truth. Better than lying about it for a year or whatever and then her finding out (which she will) and never trusting you again, since you kept a secret for that long from her.

    It is a part of your life, and if she is too - you will share it.

    Now if it's some random chick you don't think it will workout with - maybe leave it out of the conversation haha

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    Nope. Dont tell her. Unless you know for sure you can trust her.

    What happens when you guys break up and, she turns on you? Minipulates you and holds this over your head. Or. Runs to the cops.

    Do not tell her.
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    Shit, my 2nd wife started me on my sauce

    I wouldn't inject myself, since she's going to school to be a nurse and all - I'll do it, no prob


    I fvck with her now saying I'll come off - she says, she'll spike me in my sleep


    Wife #1 would freak & do some weird shit like throw my crap away





    Yeah, I got this strange relationship shit covered

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    Quote Originally Posted by Windex View Post
    I wouldn't tell a girlfriend, if the relationship goes south it could blow up in your face.
    X10.
    I have seen where the female tried using this in a custody battle.
    Now, if she finds out on her own, it could be just as bad.
    Be careful who you trust, some people are vengeful and can creat a large hassle for you.


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    Coffee, breakfast, syrine, and a kiss...

    I quit chewing up adrol tabs, was tired of getting bristled by her 5 o'clock shadow.

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    ^ pretty much, no joke


    As far as other "girlfriends" or whatever I come up with - I tell nothing. . . But, the last few just knew & just seem to expect it from guys they are with. They just want it kept away from them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by < <Samson> > View Post
    ^ pretty much, no joke


    As far as other "girlfriends" or whatever I come up with - I tell nothing. . . But, the last few just knew & just seem to expect it from guys they are with. They just want it kept away from them.
    Its no fun when you are pinning a glute and the door hits you in the ass and she sees you

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    Quote Originally Posted by German89 View Post
    Nope. Dont tell her. Unless you know for sure you can trust her.

    What happens when you guys break up and, she turns on you? Minipulates you and holds this over your head. Or. Runs to the cops.

    Do not tell her.
    Fast forward to the 305 mark....

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    Depends apon the relationship......

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    Upon......

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    Quote Originally Posted by Couchlockd View Post
    Upon......
    Once upon a time....

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    Even if you have a great relationship illegal stuff is still illegal and if you break up and she is spiteful you may wish you kept quite, I have a friend going throgh that now. He has a court date in a couple of weeks for what his lawyer says should never have been an issue. Good luck. If you are married the laws are different.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kelkel View Post
    Fast forward to the 305 mark....

    Lmfao... right!!

    Unless shes ride or die. Then, thats not gonna happen.

    Just be careful. Ive even seen ex wives rat their ex husbands out. I, personally wouldnt rat my soon to be ex out for fucking gear. Like. No. I couldnt do that, i do them. It would be hypocritical of me to do that.
    Moral of the story. Get a girl you can cycle with lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by German89 View Post
    Lmfao... right!!

    Unless shes ride or die. Then, thats not gonna happen.

    Just be careful. Ive even seen ex wives rat their ex husbands out. I, personally wouldnt rat my soon to be ex out for fucking gear. Like. No. I couldnt do that, i do them. It would be hypocritical of me to do that.
    Moral of the story. Get a girl you can cycle with lol
    My ex wife screamed steroids in divorce. The judge, I, and my lawyer looked at her like she was batshit.

    It probably could have effected me if she hadnt been screaming like a psycho.

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    Deny Deny Deny.

    Never, ever tell. That's my advice. Not even if she was your wife.
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    Quote Originally Posted by austinite View Post
    Deny Deny Deny.

    Never, ever tell. That's my advice. Not even if she was your wife.
    Austinite... were you on ology years ago. Like, say 5 yrs ago?

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    Quote Originally Posted by kelkel View Post
    Fast forward to the 305 mark....

    Hahaha, perfect!

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    The truth will set you free. LOL! But really who wants to live a lie?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wyatt 88 View Post
    The truth will set you free. LOL! But really who wants to live a lie?
    Every single politician

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    I already have trust issues. Especially with women. I trust NO woman to not use the roid card against me in a breakup/divorce. I mean, that would have to be a TRUE ride or die. I'm talkin Dom Toretto and Letty Ortiz level ride or die. Otherwise, I personally wouldn't trust them with that information. It'll be kinda hard to get it around a wife though. Maybe write out a contract saying she can't use it against you in the event of a divorce
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    Shit - in all real reality, my current wife has way more on me than just steroid use
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    All you guys are right. My girl does not handle conflict well. My lips are sealed.

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    It so depends on the person


    A solid 75% of the females I currently know accept it like it is a regular part of a over 30 guy


    I know quite a few guys who are on true TRT & they don't even lift



    I suppose it's how you present it too - Well, I went to a REAL MD & they prescribed me this

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    Quote Originally Posted by < <Samson> > View Post
    It so depends on the person


    A solid 75% of the females I currently know accept it like it is a regular part of a over 30 guy


    I know quite a few guys who are on true TRT & they don't even lift



    I suppose it's how you present it too - Well, I went to a REAL MD & they prescribed me this
    Just happened bout hour ago.

    Usual steroids threats by a bitch

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    Don't tell shit , even if scripted they'll demonize it as the cause for you not putting up with being walked on
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    ^ truth

    We're all dif tho

    Only a very select few get close to me & know what I actually do. They speculate, but barely get an idea.



    It's just the way it has to be - for me at least

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    Quote Originally Posted by Couchlockd View Post
    Just happened bout hour ago.

    Usual steroids threats by a bitch

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    Don't tell shit , even if scripted they'll demonize it as the cause for you not putting up with being walked on
    My gf never uses that.
    Instead its the time at the gym and devotion to building

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    Well, so far so good I guess - nothing derogatory towards any of my fitness or juicing so far from any female around me

    Knock on wood

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    I would be totally honest. It never feels good sneaking around in your own home. If she finds out on her own, it will also cause major trust issues probably beyond any issue that would have been created by the steroids in the first place. It might be a hard conversation, but I would do it.

    I eased into it with my wife. I was tested and found to have low testosterone , so an actual doctor prescribed me testosterone . Then, I found cheaper sources and told her about that. She was worried but okay with it. Then, I started experimenting with other steroids and told her, making sure she was aware that each is just a derivative of the testosterone molecule. Now, she doesn't care at all. It's just a part of our lives and no big deal. It's a good place to be, much better than sneaking, hiding, and worrying. I have kids, so I keep them in a safe, and she has the combination in case she ever wants to look around or whatever. She never has but I can tell it makes her feel better to know nothing is hidden.

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    What I find funny is the most judgmental women when it comes to PEDs usually have some infatuation with Hugh Jackman, Chris Hemsworth and other actors who are obviously juicing (not judging those guys obviously, just saying there's a double standard and they aren't open about their usage)

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