Thank you all so much for the replies!!!! Your insights, while not giving me much hope, have been so helpful in growing my understanding of the situation.
I have to say my gut dropped when you say it might be months before he’s back to ‘normal’. I guess I was just hoping that if it was only 3 weeks to change it’ll just go back again as quick.
Honestly, I don’t really know how much more I’m able to handle. It feels like he is so indifferent to me but when he’s with other he seems to much more like his old self. I don’t know if it’s all an act for them and with me he doesn’t feel the need to act, because I’m a safe space I guess or if he actually just doesn’t like me any more.
From when he will talk to me, he sounds a lot like how The Road describes it. He’s like stone and empty, not happy, not sad. And sames that he wouldn’t hear a bar of stopping because as I said earlier he doesn’t think they’ve got anything to do with his mood really.
I just don’t know what to do next. How to be ‘enough’ I guess for now all I can do is wait for him to be done and see what happens after.
I was also interested to learn that the pct won’t change/reverse/affect this mood as I expected, which is good as I guess I can now have a better expectation of what might come.
I really really have appreciated all your help and your willingness to share and explain these things to me!
PS those of you with pics attached to your profile....WOW
