okay bros need sum major chic help here (gurls welcome on comments)

[musclehead1]

alrite im jus gonna get straight to it i started liking my best friend (a chick) and i told her how i feel like jus about an hour or so ago.....and shes like i dont feel the same way about u and ull get over it...anyways she was also like i dont see u in that kinda way. most ppl are goin to say u will get over her but the thing is i wanna be with her and i want sum advise. And right now i feel that if i cant be with her i dont wanna be friends with her either and then see her with sum other guy in like a few months. any help would be appriecated.

[AnabolicAlien]

stay her friend. at least she was honest with you. don't push the issue... play it cool and see if she develops feelings too. i was in the same situation once.

with the limited info you gave us that's all i can suggest.

A.A.

[hung-solo]

stay her friend. at least she was honest with you. don't push the issue... play it cool and see if she develops feelings too. i was in the same situation once.

with the limited info you gave us that's all i can suggest.

A.A.

ditto, dont act strange either because you said that. atleast you were man enough to say it in the first place. been there done that

[helios]

I had a similar problem a couple months ago. Granted I still wish I could make a relationship out of her, but for the most part I'm over it and we are back to normal.

You will get over it eventually man. Just remembering there are plenty of other ladies out there to shmooz with. And as far as cutting off your friendship with her, stupid move bc 1) you will regret ending a friendship and end up apologizing anyway, or/and 2) you look like an ass who doesn't have his emotions in check.

G'luck.

[SwoleCat]

Move on to another girl who likes you in "that way".

~SC~

[builtthekid]

Well just find another hoe man women do grown on trees in this world.

[OGPackin]

IMHO bro u cant be "JUST" friends with a chick u like. It will always be in the back of ur head and if she doesnt feel the same its going to eat away at u little by little. I will not be friends with a chick i like. I just wont do it, and either should u....

OG

[hung-solo]

IMHO bro u cant be "JUST" friends with a chick u like. It will always be in the back of ur head and if she doesnt feel the same its going to eat away at u little by little. I will not be friends with a chick i like. I just wont do it, and either should u....

OG

oh thats great advice og! hahaha

[OGPackin]

oh thats great advice og! hahaha

U must be one of those guys huh...? The one that stays friends with a chick that u have feelings for knowing she doesnt feel the same way, but one day u hope she will change how she feels about u....Ya i know u all to well....

OG

[hung-solo]

U must be one of those guys huh...? The one that stays friends with a chick that u have feelings for knowing she doesnt feel the same way, but one day u hope she will change how she feels about u....Ya i know u all to well....

OG

hahaha, no they usually dont change there minds bro. so therefore i dont dwell on it..nor do i wish or hope that it does.. i just bang her friend hahaha

[cpt steele]

hahaha, no they usually dont change there minds bro. so therefore i dont dwell on it..nor do i wish or hope that it does.. i just bang her friend hahaha

Hahahah nice one

[OGPackin]

hahaha, no they usually dont change there minds bro. so therefore i dont dwell on it..nor do i wish or hope that it does.. i just bang her friend hahaha

Ok, if ur not that guy then why did u roll ur eyes to my advice not to be friends with her..?

My point is, 99.9% of the time they dont change how they feel. So why put urself through that...? To me, its like holding a carret just out of reach of the horse to make him do what u want. Me...im not going to do it....

OG

[Z-Ro]

IMHO bro u cant be "JUST" friends with a chick u like. It will always be in the back of ur head and if she doesnt feel the same its going to eat away at u little by little. I will not be friends with a chick i like. I just wont do it, and either should u....

OG

i agree, i don't think any guy can really be a "friend" with a girl you like, and really are you just being a friend to get closer to her? like og said, its just going to eat away at you little by little, so watch yourself, so that you don't get hurt in the long run

[musclehead1]

one question i want to know is why! cuz the thing is i know for a fact that im better lookin than anybody else shes been with....so should i ask her why?

[cpt steele]

one question i want to know is why! cuz the thing is i know for a fact that im better lookin than anybody else shes been with....so should i ask her why?

NO


Do not ask her why that is giving her the power.... Bro your a man we do the picking and the qualifying, dont let her have that power over you Bro I think it would be really good for you not to talk to her for a week or or so, so you can get your thoughts together....jmo

[musclehead1]

NO


Do not ask her why that is giving her the power.... Bro your a man we do the picking and the qualifying, dont let her have that power over you Bro I think it would be really good for you not to talk to her for a week or or so, so you can get your thoughts together....jmo

i dunno curiousity sucks ****.....but there has to be a reason other than "i dont see u in that kinda way" she said when we first started talkin we she thought about it.

[khurrams]

one question i want to know is why! cuz the thing is i know for a fact that im better lookin than anybody else shes been with....so should i ask her why?

Bro this is the way I look at it.....She's probably an insecure girl who lacks self confidence.....She feels intimidated by you......Last but not least.....Since you guys have been friends Im pretty sure she notices you getting a sh*t load of attention from other girls and probably her girl friends have told her repeatedly how hot you are....therefore to her she probably wants an average joe who won't hurt her and she wants to settle for less...thats how usually girls think man.....To her she thinks that say u guys end up bieng together and say at some point have your indifferences....you can go pick up any woman u want and do whatever with her....I don't know if u'r getting what Im tryin to say but...all in all thats what I think....I might be absolutely wrong but thats my opinion....What do u guys think???

[co2boi]

Remain her friend, but start dating someone else before she does and never let those feelings out again. Don't be an ass-kissing wussy friend either though. Treat her more like a guy friend than a girl friend.

[builtthekid]

Id still ask her to let me bang.

[cpt steele]

There isnt anyway to take back what you said so live with it. Now you can make her come around but, your in the "friend" zone, which is ver difficult to spin. You need to first stop thinking like a chump. I mean this very important dont be her chump, be man have balls dont supplicate her (kiss ass) if you dont have balls then your a chick obviously. Now you need to change your beliefs in yourself before she will change her beliefs in you. How do do that cpt steele? You start by working on what is she atteracted to in a guy, and mirror that make that you. Maybe you should ask her "why are we friends when I feel like I am in an emotional box confined to your labels and insucurities.'' If she says I am not interested tell her its "its only because I will not hurt you in all the ways you are familliar with" Bro its not that she doesnt see you that way its you r not envoking a familliar response to her being turned on by you

[houseofpain]

alrite im jus gonna get straight to it i started liking my best friend (a chick) and i told her how i feel like jus about an hour or so ago.....and shes like i dont feel the same way about u and ull get over it...anyways she was also like i dont see u in that kinda way. most ppl are goin to say u will get over her but the thing is i wanna be with her and i want sum advise. And right now i feel that if i cant be with her i dont wanna be friends with her either and then see her with sum other guy in like a few months. any help would be appriecated.

never begin a sentence with "AND" j/k bro. i would move on, remain her friend but try not to dwell on it. i would look for a girl who wants the same as you want. who knows maybe one day she will come around. HOP.

[spywizard]

you can't make someone like you "In that way"

but

You can make someone hate you for forcing your feeling on them..

and

we always want something more when we can't have it..

[SwoleCat]

Remember, women are like public transportation........

You may miss the first bus, but another one will come along shortly in 15 minutes!



Okay, now let the females whippin' my azz commence!

~SC~

[hung-solo]

Remember, women are like public transportation........

You may miss the first bus, but another one will come along shortly in 15 minutes!



Okay, now let the females whippin' my azz commence!

~SC~

have you ever thought about publishing some of these comments swole? hahaha

[drdeath613]

hey stay friends with her get her to sleep over with u and maybe it can lead to dry humping then to all out sex lol

[khurrams]

In my opinion bro you need to move on and score somebody better than her......Be friends with her but just on a friendly level....Not bieng friends and doing special things for her and treating her any differently than u'll treat your other friends....Once you develop something new and different with the new girl u'll eventually get over that infatuation phase...but watever you do don't show her that you are hurt over her rejection....that will just give her the satisfaction....so just give her the benefit of the doubt and kinda sorta distance yourself but don't make it too obvious....Always remember "You run after them...they run away from you....You run away from them....they run after you"........Goodluck and hope you can get over this stump real soon....I know how this whole ordeal feels but watever you do don't let it affect your confidence....If u'r feeling down just go in front of the mirror and say this three times "I am the sh*t and I can get anyone I want".......Trust me bro....It helps..cos it sinks into your sub conscious and its a self conditioning mechanism...

[khurrams]

In my opinion bro you need to move on and score somebody better than her......Be friends with her but just on a friendly level....Not bieng friends and doing special things for her and treating her any differently than u'll treat your other friends....Once you develop something new and different with the new girl u'll eventually get over that infatuation phase...but watever you do don't show her that you are hurt over her rejection....that will just give her the satisfaction....so just give her the benefit of the doubt and kinda sorta distance yourself but don't make it too obvious....Always remember "You run after them...they run away from you....You run away from them....they run after you"........Goodluck and hope you can get over this stump real soon....I know how this whole ordeal feels but watever you do don't let it affect your confidence....If u'r feeling down just go in front of the mirror and say this three times "I am the sh*t and I can get anyone I want".......Trust me bro....It helps..cos it sinks into your sub conscious and its a self conditioning mechanism...

[CAUSASIAN]

You are probably a nice guy. Girls dont like nice guys. Girls treat nice guys like their friends or brothers. Trust me I have learned from experience, girls like guys that make them insecure. Girls like guys that treat them like shiiit, no offense to the laides but its true.

Be confident, dont always do everything she wants, be mysterious, dont always be there for her, dont talk to her about other guys.

Some advice is plain wrong, dont treat her like your buddy.

Now what you have to do is, try and get away from her, stop being her friend, stop picking up the phone when she calls, seem busy. Stop being her friend totally.

If she considers you a friend she will reach out to you, if not shes not worth it.

The worst, worst, worst mistake you did was saying you like her.

If I was you, I would tell her, I was really drunk that day, I didnt mean to say "I like you". Tell her that there is no way I would ever like you, your not type of girl.

Girls like guys that are mean and hard to get. They want a man, not a women.

Girls have a backup system, I belive you are the backup for her. If what she want doesnt happen she will come to you. Trust me its not a good situation to be in.

The best advice is ignore her for a while, have fun, or make it seem like your having fun. Talk to her about girls you like, tell her about how you like girls, and what you would like to do with them. Then slowly make her the friend that wants you, instead of the other way around.

With women its all mental. The ugliest guy can get the hottest girl if he plays the game right.

[co2boi]

You are probably a nice guy. Girls dont like nice guys. Girls treat nice guys like their friends or brothers. Trust me I have learned from experience, girls like guys that make them insecure. Girls like guys that treat them like shiiit, no offense to the laides but its true.

Be confident, dont always do everything she wants, be mysterious, dont always be there for her, dont talk to her about other guys.

Some advice is plain wrong, dont treat her like your buddy.

Now what you have to do is, try and get away from her, stop being her friend, stop picking up the phone when she calls, seem busy. Stop being her friend totally.

If she considers you a friend she will reach out to you, if not shes not worth it.

The worst, worst, worst mistake you did was saying you like her.

If I was you, I would tell her, I was really drunk that day, I didnt mean to say "I like you". Tell her that there is no way I would ever like you, your not type of girl.

Girls like guys that are mean and hard to get. They want a man, not a women.

Girls have a backup system, I belive you are the backup for her. If what she want doesnt happen she will come to you. Trust me its not a good situation to be in.

The best advice is ignore her for a while, have fun, or make it seem like your having fun. Talk to her about girls you like, tell her about how you like girls, and what you would like to do with them. Then slowly make her the friend that wants you, instead of the other way around.

With women its all mental. The ugliest guy can get the hottest girl if he plays the game right.

Couldn't have said it better myself.

[cpt steele]

Good advice causasian....

[rugbyking]

for everybody that said to stay with her and hope it works out you are all fvking WRONG!!!! once a girl puts you in the "friends zone" your fvked!!! there is only one thing that will allow her to change her feelings for you, and this is...TIME. by time, i mean time apart from each other. this could be anywhere from 6 months to a couple years. bascially she needs to forget about you completely then you reintroduce yourself and have changed your pussy past ways. honestly your best approach to this situation is to cut off all contact with her and try to meet new women. there is no doubt in my mind if you went out and got 10 girls # this weekend that at least 3 of them would be 10x better than this girl. another reason you are so tied up on this girl is because she is your only option. if you were talking to 5 different girls, you would give 2 sh!ts what this girl thinks cause you would dump her and replace her with someone else. BUT YOU DONT HAVE OTHER OPTIONS, do you? thats why this girl is so "special"

so stop returning her calls, only answer like 1 every 3 calls from her and when she asks what your doing say your out in public places and your busy. tell her you would like to chat but you have to go. always end the conversation first. make up stuff like "oh sara is calling, i have to let you go, ill call you later- then dont call back. this will confuse her cause you are jumping through hoops right now to spend time with her. spend less and less time with her. AND FOR GOD SAKES go out and talk to new girls. go to some parties/bars whatever and hook up with some other ppl. you need to get this girl out of your head and a month from now when your with 3 other girls you will laugh at this situation. you can thank me by pm your welcome

[cpt steele]

for everybody that said to stay with her and hope it works out you are all fvking WRONG!!!! once a girl puts you in the "friends zone" your fvked!!! there is only one thing that will allow her to change her feelings for you, and this is...TIME. by time, i mean time apart from each other. this could be anywhere from 6 months to a couple years. bascially she needs to forget about you completely then you reintroduce yourself and have changed your pussy past ways. honestly your best approach to this situation is to cut off all contact with her and try to meet new women. there is no doubt in my mind if you went out and got 10 girls # this weekend that at least 3 of them would be 10x better than this girl. another reason you are so tied up on this girl is because she is your only option. if you were talking to 5 different girls, you would give 2 sh!ts what this girl thinks cause you would dump her and replace her with someone else. BUT YOU DONT HAVE OTHER OPTIONS, do you? thats why this girl is so "special"

so stop returning her calls, only answer like 1 every 3 calls from her and when she asks what your doing say your out in public places and your busy. tell her you would like to chat but you have to go. always end the conversation first. make up stuff like "oh sara is calling, i have to let you go, ill call you later- then dont call back. this will confuse her cause you are jumping through hoops right now to spend time with her. spend less and less time with her. AND FOR GOD SAKES go out and talk to new girls. go to some parties/bars whatever and hook up with some other ppl. you need to get this girl out of your head and a month from now when your with 3 other girls you will laugh at this situation. you can thank me by pm your welcome

WERD

[cpt steele]

See Im not the only 1 that thinks you should stop hanging out with her

[Bryan2]

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[c_ville]

word.. i know exactly what you are going through. same applies for me, and its kind of a bitch waking up and knowing i have better chances winning the lottery than having her. i never told her how i felt, but its quite apparent i would have got the same results you did.

i say the best thing you could do is just be yourself. dont fvcking change for her.. dont be her b!tch.. dont put your entire focus on her ...and notice how easy it is to get other girls when you really dont give a fvck about them. hit the club, bar.. wherever you go to pick up broads and you'll see

eventually, she will realize she wants a nice guy.. and if you stayed around - it will likely be you. i really dont think girls know wtf they want, so as taxing as it is on you, dont worry..

best wishes