A couple of months ago I was complainign that I dont get any kind of action when it comes to dating and girls. Now I get some but **** I constantly run into the strangest ****ing girls/women alive.
One is a 31 year old marinebiologist that I havet meet yet but that is already trying SO hard to make me jelous online. Its kind of phatetic how she tries to "play" me against some other dude. I play along just for the fun of it and to frustrate her as much as I possbily can hoping I will get a chanse to nail her. Why the **** does girls do this? I mean 31 year old.... she should have learned to ditch that ****. Cause when she doesnt bull**** she is a very interesting female that I would like to date seriously, but when doing **** like that she just becomes a walking vagina that I want to nail just for the hell of it...
and just yesterday I meet ANOTHER wierd girl. 24 years old. One night she started chatting with me on a dating site. Almost imidietly I got her number(after writing alot of ohh so dirty things to her lol, funny because she had writen on the site that she DONT like people writing sexual things). 2 days later she sends me alot of messages to my cell phone and asks me if we can meet upp. I say sure and suggestst a movie at her place, then the wierd ass questions starts. If Im a virgin, what I think of her(yeah right easy to answere that when I hadnt meet her yet), what I think of her looks from the pic I have seen and all kinds of questions.
I get bad vibes right away but I meet her anyway...
Well that evening was so ****ing wierd. The first thing she does is cuddle upp in my arms and then during the evening she asks me ATLEAST 5 times what I think of her. So I just told her every time that she seems nice and easy to get along with ect. Just regular stuff but she continued to push me into saying more things about her until I almost got pissed and told her I dont have anything more to say becasue I dont even ****ing know her yet. Have no clue what she wanted me to say. Then she stoped for a while and maby 1 hour laters she said "so what do you think of me now" like I should have gotten a clearer picture of what kind of person she is in that short time span....
After a while she stops that and starts ask what I think of her looks, if she is cute, over and over again and I assure her time and again that I find her attractive. Finaly she asks me to RATE her so I say she is maby 7,5-8 on a scale of 10 and she gets grumpy that I didnt give her a 9.
Also all the time during the evening she gave me "orders" to do things. Like she didnt ask me if I want to play with her hair she TOLD me to do it. Not in a rude way but not in a plesant way either. Then she TOLD me to rubb her back and finaly she told me to give her a back massage. I just play along thinking this will probably lead somewhere but I dont like getting bossed around. She also spent half the evening interogating me about my sexual life, who I have slept with, if it was good, how old they where and so on. Constantly brining upp sex and then constantly kind of acusing me in a half joking half serious way that I only think about sex and finaly I get sic of it and just said that I wouldt hesitate if I got the chanse to nail her. But that my whole life doesnt revolve around sex. After that comment she became shocked becaused it seemed like she never in her wildest imaginations thought I would want to have sex with her.
Anyway the night didnt end with sex or anything. I just sleept on her couch and then went home the day after. Tried to giver her a kiss before going to beed and she just turned her cheek towards me, but just a couple of minutes earlier I had rubbed her tits and ass and almost everything except the beaver....
Safe to say she confuses the hell out of me. I dont know if she is just HORRIBLY insecure and constantly need some kind of recognition and assurance or if she is a bossy, jealous, attention craving maniac.
Underneath all that crap she seems like a nice, fun easygoing girl but I dont think I can handle all the wierdness. If she just has low self esteem I can understand that but this feelt different.....
Does it sound like someone I should avoid??