Honesty or not
Your girl lives in another city so you have to put a lot of faith in her honesty and integrity that she's faithful. Since you have been together she's been honest with you even when it was uncomfortable for her to do so....and it's part of what you respect and love her for.
She calls you and tells you that her ex-bf of nearly a year showed up at her door at 1030 at night and she let him in. She tells you that after the conversation, where she reminded him that he had a girlfriend and that she was involved with someone....as he was she was walking him to the door...he tried to put the moves on her. She promptly pushes him away and tells him she's off limits and not to try it again. She assures you nothing happened and she realizes that letting him the door was the wrong decision.
So.........
a. Would you be glad she told you and believe her?
b. Would you rather she just kept the situation to herself? Would you then be worried that something was gonna happen that would piss you off?
C.B.
1. Once a cheat always a cheat!
2. YES, SHE can get pregnant the first time!
3. NO, PULLING out IS NOT a RELIABLE method of Birth Control. DAMMMMIT..... Wrap that shyte UP!!
Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.
For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage.
What the mind can conceive....the body will achieve!