
Originally Posted by
BlocRoc
Not to start ruffling feathers or anything like that, but unless its not a serious relationship, I dont see why you wouldnt want to let your significant other know what you're doing... It does affect you both tremendously.
Think about this scenario... Lets assume you want to have kids some day with this woman, and you've both talked about it already, but she doesnt know that you're a gear monkey.
She gets pregnant, and it is common knowledge that getting your woman preggers while on, is not a good idea, your body chemistry is fukt, and there are high chances of having issues with the baby's health.
Now in this scenario, how do you explain that you want an abortion when you both wanted to have a baby? So you have to tell her about your jiuce use and most likely end up breaking up because of lies and the fact that you now would be wise to abort. You ruin your life, as well as hers for the time being.... Have you ever been in a postion where you wanted kids but knew that you should abort (for whatever reason? Its not fun, messes with your head... gets under your skin)
Now if you tell her, well you can plan around it, and you have no problems.
Being 30, having a fiancee that has an 8 year old from a previous relationship, and her being 3 months pregnant, Im sure that I have different priorities, since I do want a family, and my woman is the center, beginning and end of my world.
Are drugs (yes we are all druggies of a differnet type here) worth more that your personal and emotional well being? I hope not! My fiancee knows that if she got worried about mood swings caused by the gear, or a change in my personality, I would quit... nothing is worth loosing her! She may not want me to be as big as I want myself to be, but thats not an issue... she loved me when I was fat, and she loves me when Im swole.
Look at it this way.. if you're serious about this girl, why are you cheating yourself out of a good relationship by poisoning the trust that is so important between two people.
AND
If you're not serious about this woman, and she's just a place to stick your carrot and get it wet, why the H E L L are you even asking about keeping things from her?
figure out what type of a relationship you want to have or are having and go from there!
L8