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    26 year old female needs some advice...

    I need some advice from all of you that have taken steroids and have dealt with behavior changes. I'm 26 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for about 5+ months. He recently started to use steroids and he's now approaching his 5th week. I’ve noticed a change in our relationship. Although I know there are many others factors for change in relationships, I can’t help but think most of it has to do with steroids. He’s been very distant and even asked for space. Before the use of steroids he was focused and now he seems to be more confused about certain things, almost as if it’s clouding his judgment. Can you please send me some insight in the changes you’ve experienced with yourself and maybe even your relationship while using steroids?

    His cycle looks like this
    1-14 wk .25mg L-dex & 10mg nov ED
    1-4 wk 75mg Test Prop ED
    1-12 wk Test E 250mg Monday morning and Thursday night. 500mg total
    7-14 wk Var 20mg 3 times ED. 90mg total
    15-19 Standard PCT
    Last edited by AConcernedGirlFriend; 03-06-2006 at 07:53 AM.

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    Everybody reacts differently from them, alot of it also depends on what it is he's taking and how much of it, or how he's dosing it. If it's his very first cycle then he's going to be experiencing things he hasnt before, or isnt used to. He may just be so into the gym and himself right now and being on cycle intensifies it, that it seems that your being pushed to the back burner, which isnt fare in any case. When I first cycled a couple times my emotions were crazy, one day I was on top of the world and the next day I was down at the bottom. Of course, other factors played into all of that, and I was much younger at the time(like 19). You do get used to them however, and for some eventually being OFF steroids yields a far worse personality than being ON. My advice to you would be to sit down with him and ask him what it is he really wants out of the relationship, and ask him if he is going to put any effort into it. You guys need to be on the same page, you may want something serious, he may just want somebody for now, or a piece of ass. He probably wont tell you the real truth either way, but at least that way it'll be on his conscience that your analyzing the way he's acting lately. There are some types of people who can handle steroid usage responsibly, and that is knowing when they need to take a break from them, or take it easy on the dosages they are taking and how much $ they spend on them. I love steroids myself, but they can ruin your life financially and socially if your not careful. Just go by what you see, if he can manage the relationship and be cool while on them then let it be, if it starts seriously effecting the relationship to the point where you two arent on the same page half the time, well your not as big of a priority as steroids and move on.

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    Do you happen to know what steroids he is on? Because as stayinstacked said it depends on the steroid, I know Certain compounds tend to cause you to get irritated more easily. Such as anadrol, halotestin, and tren.

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    She lists test E, test prop & var. Tren I've seen do some radical stuff to a personality and would definitely say it is a mood changer. This stuff I don't know about. You might post this on the main AAS board as well as it might not get as much viewing on the women's board.
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    hmmm...you have a very exact knowledge of the "jargon" and proper terms of a cycle...

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    yea, everyone reacts differently to steroids. I was always super super against them because my best friend and I are not best friends anymore because of it..

    however, I had a change of heart when i met scott.. my b/f, because although i can see slight changes.. it isn't aggressiveness or complete passiveness, mood swings, etc... (you know what I mean?) - that seems to be what he's experiencing

    Listen, it probably is the steroids. I don't really know how to fix it, but the other guys may have suggestions to that. As scott had always said.. if you do them right, it won't be like that... i dono.. i think everyones different and some guys just pricks on them..

    wait it out... if you love him you'll wait through it because now he's in no real state of mind to understand what's happening.. or to care

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    well, he's restoring and exceeding his hormonal levels of test.. that's a good thing if he is consuming enough food..

    think of him as a teenager.. moody, unfocused, and rash decissions..

    kind of like when women get thier period, and they have a hormonal imbalance.. same thing..
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    Thank you for all of your responses, they were very helpful. I posted again under ANABOLIC STEROIDS - QUESTIONS & ANSWERS. Wish me luck!

    Thanks Sassy69!

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    Quote Originally Posted by AConcernedGirlFriend
    Thank you for all of your responses, they were very helpful. I posted again under ANABOLIC STEROIDS - QUESTIONS & ANSWERS. Wish me luck!

    Thanks Sassy69!
    good luck. hope u find wat ur lookin for

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    Yeah good luck. You seem to know the terminology like you've been here for years!
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    After a few months of dating my (now) husband he told me about his AAS use. I know TEST... and 2 other things, I dunno what they were. It freaked me out at first because I remember seeing this lifetime movie when I was younger about this man who went crazy on Steroids and started beating his wife, etc... but like all things I took it with a grain of salt and watched him. I really think what you want out of them and your mentality to begin with play a huge factor in how you'll act on them. If he's the type of guy who "wants to be the biggest, toughest and best" then MAYBE he's not exactly relationship material right now. The only difference I personally noticed was an increased need to get the 'roids when a cycle was coming up, when stock was low. That's really about it. He does have mood swings but being initially quite laid back it was more like male PMS. If he was more hyper, moody, aggresive... then I would assume it would just be worse. I do hope this helps!

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    How long has he been using aas? Seems like a pretty advanced cycle. Hes taking 90mg var ed and 1gm test a wk? Mens moods will change when on cycle for some men. If he experiments on dosaging, maybe it will help.

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    Quote Originally Posted by stayinstacked
    Everybody reacts differently from them, alot of it also depends on what it is he's taking and how much of it, or how he's dosing it. If it's his very first cycle then he's going to be experiencing things he hasnt before, or isnt used to. He may just be so into the gym and himself right now and being on cycle intensifies it, that it seems that your being pushed to the back burner, which isnt fare in any case. When I first cycled a couple times my emotions were crazy, one day I was on top of the world and the next day I was down at the bottom. Of course, other factors played into all of that, and I was much younger at the time(like 19). You do get used to them however, and for some eventually being OFF steroids yields a far worse personality than being ON. My advice to you would be to sit down with him and ask him what it is he really wants out of the relationship, and ask him if he is going to put any effort into it. You guys need to be on the same page, you may want something serious, he may just want somebody for now, or a piece of ass. He probably wont tell you the real truth either way, but at least that way it'll be on his conscience that your analyzing the way he's acting lately. There are some types of people who can handle steroid usage responsibly, and that is knowing when they need to take a break from them, or take it easy on the dosages they are taking and how much $ they spend on them. I love steroids myself, but they can ruin your life financially and socially if your not careful. Just go by what you see, if he can manage the relationship and be cool while on them then let it be, if it starts seriously effecting the relationship to the point where you two arent on the same page half the time, well your not as big of a priority as steroids and move on.

    Well put, to the point.

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