Horrible last month and a half. :(

[tbrocato]

The last month in a half has been horrible for me.

- I just turned 23 and found out that my dad who has raised me my entire life is not my biological father.

- I found out today my grandfather has cancer.

- Me and the girlfriend for a year split up due to the fact that I have a problem drinking and I can never be faithful.

- The most recent girl I have been talking to hates me due to my over drinking and she may be pregnant.

- I love strippers and they love my money.

- My weight training has not been going well at all.

- The only thing I have going for me is that I have a great job but I work offshore and I am only home one week a month.

Hope stuff is better next month.

[GunTotingHipGangster]

damn bro, im sorry to hear all that
look at it this way, theres only one way to go now...thats up
keep your head up

[Mizfit]

Quit drinking.

[spencer]

Quit drinking.

fvcking hell mizfit.


keep ur head up pal. and its true the only way is mate

[Prol]

1#Take a breath.
2#Stop Drinking(So much)

Dude........try to take it easy ..............you need some time to focus on your life......and drinking so much is not going to help ..................you know your problems start dealing with them ...........get organized...........

Damn i sound like my X.................

[~fuelforfire~]

mizfit, youve been giving out some dumbass comments lately, things are easier said then done you know.

[Prol]

I didn't mean to sound like Ahole ..........all i said was meant to motivate u .........no rant at all

[Mizfit]

mizfit, youve been giving out some dumbass comments lately, things are easier said then done you know.

This is not a dumb ass comment.

Has alcohol ever hurt your life in any way?

He said that his gf left him because of his drinking.. The new chick is not talking to him because of his drinking.

Maybe my opinion is he is using Alcohol as a crutch. - Because it's definately not an excuse...

Sorry buddy i wasn't put on this earth to hold ppls hands when they r making evil beds.. If he didn't want opinions, you don't post. Plain and simple.

and FYi... If you don't want to read what i post.. don't read it.

[tbrocato]

I didn't mean to sound like Ahole ..........all i said was meant to motivate u .........no rant at all

No bro I understand I need to stop drinking so much. Its just hard to find someone to talk to about everything. Glad they created the internet. I cant talk to any of my friends, just not that type of relationship between us.

[Prol]

I'm going threw some trouble myself and all i know is that everything passes ........ keep your headup

[Mizfit]

No bro I understand I need to stop drinking so much. Its just hard to find someone to talk to about everything. Glad they created the internet. I cant talk to any of my friends, just not that type of relationship between us.

We all go thru tought times..
It's how we get thru it that matters

[GunTotingHipGangster]

i used to have an alcohol problem when i was 17....mizfit is right, you need to quit drinking
that shit doesnt help any problems out

[spencer]

if he likes drinking, hows it a problem?

[Prol]

No bro I understand I need to stop drinking so much. Its just hard to find someone to talk to about everything. Glad they created the internet. I cant talk to any of my friends, just not that type of relationship between us.

I know what it is not being able to talk to friends about problems because of X or Y .............if ya need anything Pm .........take care and GodBless

[GunTotingHipGangster]

- Me and the girlfriend for a year split up due to the fact that I have a problem drinking and I can never be faithful.

- The most recent girl I have been talking to hates me due to my over drinking and she may be pregnant.

these problems revolve around drinking

[Mizfit]

if he likes drinking, hows it a problem?

Drinking to have fun is one thing, but he has said it screws up aspects of his life..

I'm not sure if he is using it to get through his family issues, but regardless, if you numb one pain by drinking and as a consequence you cause yourself more pain.. whats the point?

From his post i get that alcohol has become a problem.

[Prol]

if he likes drinking, hows it a problem?

I like drinking .....and bet alot of people do ,but not knowing how to control it is the problem most people face ...........

[spencer]

ok, anyway goodluck.

[~fuelforfire~]

This is not a dumb ass comment.

Has alcohol ever hurt your life in any way?

He said that his gf left him because of his drinking.. The new chick is not talking to him because of his drinking.

Maybe my opinion is he is using Alcohol as a crutch. - Because it's definately not an excuse...

Sorry buddy i wasn't put on this earth to hold ppls hands when they r making evil beds.. If he didn't want opinions, you don't post. Plain and simple.

and FYi... If you don't want to read what i post.. don't read it.

who said i didnt want to read what your posted, you commented about his problem, and i commented to your response, didnt realise i wasnt allowed to, i never told you to stop talking like that.. so hmm

[tbrocato]

if he likes drinking, hows it a problem?

Yah roger that. I guess I just dont know how to deal with stuff sometimes. How would anyone feel if they woke up one day and found out that the person you thought was your father and his whole side of the family isnt even releated to you. Just crazy, what else can people hide from you ?

[spencer]

Yah roger that. I guess I just dont know how to deal with stuff sometimes. How would anyone feel if they woke up one day and found out that the person you thought was your father and his whole side of the family isnt even releated to you. Just crazy, what else can people hide from you ?

my g/f was distraught wen she found that out man, i know that shit ur feeling cause i had to pull her threw that shit, it was threw in her face out the blue wen her mam and dad were arguing. hes a wanker anyway

[soccer#3]

lets focus on tbrocato instead of mizfit.. at least she's tryina help

anyway, dude seems like the alcohol is the source for ur problems
the liquor makes u feel better when life turns shitty but in reality ur only movin the problem instead of dealin wit it (them).

as far as ur dad, damn that gotta be hard findin out he's not ur biological dad.

ur grandpa, be there for him n support him.

i been to stripclubs too, they only want ur $ like u said. they'll say ur cute this n that but it comes down to one thing, $$$.

really try to quit the drinkin...

and remember after a dark night theres a bright day.. keep ur head up

[spencer]

lets focus on tbrocato instead of mizfit.. at least she's tryina help

anyway, dude seems like the alcohol is the source for ur problems
the liquor makes u feel better when life turns shitty but in reality ur only movin the problem instead of dealin wit it (them).

as far as ur dad, damn that gotta be hard findin out he's not ur biological dad.

ur grandpa, be there for him n support him.

i been to stripclubs too, they only want ur $ like u said. they'll say ur cute this n that but it comes down to one thing, $$$.

really try to quit the drinkin...

and remember after a dark night theres a bright day.. keep ur head up

great post

[Bojangles69]

dude everyone goes through f' ed up shit..
you just need to learn how to cope in CONSTRUCTIVE ways, not DESTRUCTIVE ways, everything your doing is in fact a way of coping, problem is DESTRUCTIVE coping only leads to more DESTRUCTION in your life.
And about the whole quitting drinking bid..
I had a problem drinking in highschool, I LIKED IT
Got in the club scene, got serious habit with x and speed
failed outta school, o.d. ed, got fired, split up with my girl, grandmother died, got into a serious fight with my bro cuz he was trying to smack some sense into me, got arrested and sentenced to 7 yr's in prison. All within 9 months. Mizfit put #1 QUIT DRINKING.
Im not sure how much your drinking but it sounds like everything else you listed is a side-effect of the drinking, but the drinking is a side-effect of something you didnt list. And unless you figure out what that is its going to be real hard to get past. jomo.

[big L 17]

things will look up.dont let your problems make you drink more.

[kloter1]

tone down the drinking to just weekends. i was a daily trashed college guy for a long time and manage to drink just on friday nights now.

you can go to strip clubs without spending money and having a good time.

if youre not faithful to your girl that means you really dont care for her that much and looking for something better.

[tbrocato]

Thanks for all the advice everyone. I leave for work tom. morning and wont be back for two weeks hopefully when I come back I will be able to control myself. Luckly, the oil platform I am going on has 3 gyms on it. Looks like mini Gold gyms lol. I will be able to get my mind right!

[SwoleCat]

mizfit, youve been giving out some dumbass comments lately, things are easier said then done you know.

Hey, watch it. She did not give a dumbass comment by saying "quit drinking", in fact it's good advice. Seeing how his relationships go to shit because of the alcohol problem, I'd say that's actually damn good advice.

~SC~

[SwoleCat]

if he likes drinking, hows it a problem?

Try reading his post again.

If it's not blatantly obvious to you, then perhaps you should put down the drink.

~SC~

[speedtraining]

Go get your self a massage and a happy ending.

[Bojangles69]

/\/\ is that a Robo Dwarf??

[G.I JOE]

Drinking to get drunk is only a excuse for idiots to act like idiots. My advice quite drinkin and get ur priority's straigh.