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[USfighterFC]

Well to start off Friday was my birthday. My g/f had put an order in for a birthday cake and was to go shopping with her mom on Friday morning for a gift. Well my girlfriend is a stripper. So she works nights. She went to work Thursday night and her phone was out of power so she didnt call me when she left which was ok cuz sometimes she doesnt. Well she gets out at 4am and usually goes straight home and sometimes hangs out with friends till around 5:30am or 6am. Her father called me at 9:00am and told me she never came home. I figured she fell asleep at her friends house or something but I was def worried because about 2 months ago she was kidnapped and robbed at gun point and easily could've been killed or raped. Anyway I told him to call me when she gets in so I know she's ok and to wait a little while to see what happens. 10-11-12-1-2-3 o'clock roll by and she is still not home. Now I'm starting to get very nervous because that is not like her at all but at the same time I wouldnt put it past her. I was very ready to almost call the cops but she's only been missing for 12 hours and I think you need to be missing for at least 24 hours for them to file a missing persons report. Well at around 5pm her father gets a call from the hospital that she is there in THE PSYCHE WARD. Her father is a real piece of shit and I hate dealing with him but we went to the hospital where she refused to see him. So we left and I came back with her mom who she loves and she saw both of us. Apparently she didnt feel well at work and left early and took a walk to get some fresh air. She said a few blocks away she couldnt walk anymore and got violently sick and sat in a doorway and kept repeating "I wanna kill myself" crying hysterially. Well a passerby called the cops and then an ambulance came and took her to the hospital to the psyche ward. She said she doesnt remember the ambulance ride or anything. The doctors said her pants were found unbuttoned and her belt undone and they thought she may have been raped and not remembered. Thats highly unlikely cuz whenever my g/f eats to much or feels sick she always unbuttons the top button of her pants and undoes her belt. Well she is being evaluated today and we'll see what happens today. So much drama....and I HATE drama. Not to mention the hospital gave me her belongings and cell phone to take home and I found something very displeasing that I have to talk to her about. If it is what I think it is then the Psyche ward is a place she will prefer to be rather than with me.

[farrebarre]

damn that sux bro, hopefully its not what u think it is.
if it is what i think it is have a serious talk with her about it.
hope everything works out for the best, good luck bro

[Wrath]

I have heard you talk about this girl before and how much trouble she is. I don't know if you have mentioned it before...but why do you keeps her around? I def don't advocate leaving her in her time of need...but like you said, I hate drama in relationships. That shit is way too exhausting.

Especially if you finding incriminating stuff in her cell. Why you putting up with her?

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Happy birthday. Sorry about all that drama. I'm sure you know, but that comes with dating strippers.

You going to spill what you found in her stuff that pissed you off?

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Don't tell me that you found phone camera pics of her boffing some other dude.

[USfighterFC]

I have heard you talk about this girl before and how much trouble she is. I don't know if you have mentioned it before...but why do you keeps her around? I def don't advocate leaving her in her time of need...but like you said, I hate drama in relationships. That shit is way too exhausting.

Especially if you finding incriminating stuff in her cell. Why you putting up with her?

I dont know to be honest. I cant even give you an answer. How sad is that? I mean sometimes we get along like we're meant for each other, then she is like my arch nemesis. Actually the doctor told her yesterday that she is bipolar and I can see that causing a lot of stress in the relationship. It happens all the time one min she is good and the next she can be all nuts. I do love her and she loves me, but honestly we're just both kinda fvcked with our priorities. I dont even know why I hang around or keep her around, its been a long hard road and i have no idea where its going and I guess my stupid ass wants to find out even if its right into a brick wall......which is more than likely where it is going.

[USfighterFC]

Don't tell me that you found phone camera pics of her boffing some other dude.

LOL nah nothing like that. I will bring it all up when we kinda settle down for a minute after all this horseshit is over with.

[USfighterFC]

I'm not even gonna comment on the cell phone shit but you can let your imagination run wild but I doubt you have to think very hard. The thing is we just break up and stop talking for weeks and then we start again. So its not like I blame her and its not like when I do the same thing she blames me. put it this way. When we're together we are really together. When we're not we're not. Unfortunately we love each other but its a very volatile relationship.

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I dont know to be honest. I cant even give you an answer. How sad is that? I mean sometimes we get along like we're meant for each other, then she is like my arch nemesis. Actually the doctor told her yesterday that she is bipolar and I can see that causing a lot of stress in the relationship. It happens all the time one min she is good and the next she can be all nuts. I do love her and she loves me, but honestly we're just both kinda fvcked with our priorities. I dont even know why I hang around or keep her around, its been a long hard road and i have no idea where its going and I guess my stupid ass wants to find out even if its right into a brick wall......which is more than likely where it is going.

In my little world, whenever I hear "bipolar" I think "crazy" so I run the other way. That laughing one second / crying the next that bipolar folk do just doesn't compute with me.

Only you know if all that drama and pain is worth hanging around for. Good luck.

[USfighterFC]

In my little world, whenever I hear "bipolar" I think "crazy" so I run the other way. That laughing one second / crying the next that bipolar folk do just doesn't compute with me.

Only you know if all that drama and pain is worth hanging around for. Good luck.

Its not that bad but when she gets mad she gets MAD. And it doesnt take much. I'm hoping they give her medication so they can balance out hormone levels or whatever levels that need to be balanced out, because sometimes she is totally irrational.

[MAXIMA5]

Bro, that sucks. I've been there. Same story here about 2 years ago. Everything except the ambulance and psych ward, but still.

Tell her to quit stripping, or quit her. I gave mine the option and she quit dancing. Everything's been great since.
That lifestyle is shit, and it beings out the worst in people.

And as far as the bipolar thisng goes, mine was diagnosed bipolar also. I'll give you the real diagnosis; too much drinking, not enough sleep, too much money, too much attention from dirtballs.

[Wrath]

I dont know to be honest. I cant even give you an answer. How sad is that? I mean sometimes we get along like we're meant for each other, then she is like my arch nemesis. Actually the doctor told her yesterday that she is bipolar and I can see that causing a lot of stress in the relationship. It happens all the time one min she is good and the next she can be all nuts. I do love her and she loves me, but honestly we're just both kinda fvcked with our priorities. I dont even know why I hang around or keep her around, its been a long hard road and i have no idea where its going and I guess my stupid ass wants to find out even if its right into a brick wall......which is more than likely where it is going.

I feel you...That is how it was with my girl 2 ex'es ago. We loved hard and fought and argued hard as well. It was nice to have a peaceful relationship with a nice girl after that. No going through phones, or arguing about dumb shit...it kinda sucked though cause I still had feelings for her, and we kept in contact and I could see us getting back together and I could tell it would be a cycle, for some reason I wouldnt be able to break. I know it might sound pussy but the best thing I did was get out of Atlanta. I got into a post bacc/grad program in houston so it ain't like I was running from her persay. I miss atlanta...but I had gotten too complacent in that enviroment.

She needs to see a psychiatrist asap. A lot of times, bi- polar tendencies show up in family history (Weak correlation though). Do you knwo if any one in her family has mental issues?

[USfighterFC]

I feel you...That is how it was with my girl 2 ex'es ago. We loved hard and fought and argued hard as well. It was nice to have a peaceful relationship with a nice girl after that. No going through phones, or arguing about dumb shit...it kinda sucked though cause I still had feelings for her, and we kept in contact and I could see us getting back together and I could tell it would be a cycle, for some reason I wouldnt be able to break. I know it might sound pussy but the best thing I did was get out of Atlanta. I got into a post bacc/grad program in houston so it ain't like I was running from her persay. I miss atlanta...but I had gotten too complacent in that enviroment.

She needs to see a psychiatrist asap. A lot of times, bi- polar tendencies show up in family history (Weak correlation though). Do you knwo if any one in her family has mental issues?

Yeah her mother was diagnosed with it last year and she has gone to the psyche ward numerous times. The thing that drives them over the edge is the asshole husband/father. He is a real piece of shit who has done so much prison time. All he does is yell at everyone and make everyone miserable in that house. I have intervened repeatedly and told him literally shut the fvck up. Yesterday i was telling his wife how big of a piece of shit he is and he should go down. And she AGREES!!! She hates him but he wont leave. He is a total lunatic in terms of violence. He's already done time for manslaughter. The guy is just a drug dealer who holds no real job, does not pay rent, does not pay for food, does nothing for the family, gets no gifts for anyone on holidays. I've told him if he ever feels compelled to grow some balls and stand toe to toe with me I will do so anywhere at anytime. Everyone wants to see this guy go but they cant get him to leave.

[Carlos_E]

I have heard you talk about this girl before and how much trouble she is. I don't know if you have mentioned it before...but why do you keeps her around? I def don't advocate leaving her in her time of need...but like you said, I hate drama in relationships. That shit is way too exhausting.

Especially if you finding incriminating stuff in her cell. Why you putting up with her?

Agreed

[sonar1234]

USfighterFC good luck with all of this bro, my girlfriend is hypocondriac i dont freaking know how to write it but she always think she is sick with something.

It really gets annoying has shit too and even if she is 28 i have to treat her like an 8 year old.

[zimmy]

hey man..ya think mebe someone slipped her somfin in a drink at the club? i know the clubs i go to we buy the dancers drinks all the time.

[Carlos_E]

hey man..ya think mebe someone slipped her somfin in a drink at the club? i know the clubs i go to we buy the dancers drinks all the time.

That came to my mind to. I wonder if she was high or something. The way he described it she was having a mental break down and some people handle drugs that way.

[Tren Bull]

Well to start off Friday was my birthday. My g/f had put an order in for a birthday cake and was to go shopping with her mom on Friday morning for a gift. Well my girlfriend is a stripper. So she works nights. She went to work Thursday night and her phone was out of power so she didnt call me when she left which was ok cuz sometimes she doesnt. Well she gets out at 4am and usually goes straight home and sometimes hangs out with friends till around 5:30am or 6am. Her father called me at 9:00am and told me she never came home. I figured she fell asleep at her friends house or something but I was def worried because about 2 months ago she was kidnapped and robbed at gun point and easily could've been killed or raped. Anyway I told him to call me when she gets in so I know she's ok and to wait a little while to see what happens. 10-11-12-1-2-3 o'clock roll by and she is still not home. Now I'm starting to get very nervous because that is not like her at all but at the same time I wouldnt put it past her. I was very ready to almost call the cops but she's only been missing for 12 hours and I think you need to be missing for at least 24 hours for them to file a missing persons report. Well at around 5pm her father gets a call from the hospital that she is there in THE PSYCHE WARD. Her father is a real piece of shit and I hate dealing with him but we went to the hospital where she refused to see him. So we left and I came back with her mom who she loves and she saw both of us. Apparently she didnt feel well at work and left early and took a walk to get some fresh air. She said a few blocks away she couldnt walk anymore and got violently sick and sat in a doorway and kept repeating "I wanna kill myself" crying hysterially. Well a passerby called the cops and then an ambulance came and took her to the hospital to the psyche ward. She said she doesnt remember the ambulance ride or anything. The doctors said her pants were found unbuttoned and her belt undone and they thought she may have been raped and not remembered. Thats highly unlikely cuz whenever my g/f eats to much or feels sick she always unbuttons the top button of her pants and undoes her belt. Well she is being evaluated today and we'll see what happens today. So much drama....and I HATE drama. Not to mention the hospital gave me her belongings and cell phone to take home and I found something very displeasing that I have to talk to her about. If it is what I think it is then the Psyche ward is a place she will prefer to be rather than with me.

oh sh_t bro. thats no good. fu_kin women are always creating drama... i hope that everything works out bro

[USfighterFC]

That came to my mind to. I wonder if she was high or something. The way he described it she was having a mental break down and some people handle drugs that way.

This was also a possibility and she brought it up to the paramedics and the doctors at the hospital. She said she left early and took a walk because she felt sick and thought maybe the brisk air would make her feel a little better. She said she walked a few blocks and she couldnt really walk anymore and bent over to make herself feel better. She put her finger down her throat to make herself throw up. She said she couldnt stand anymore so she sat down and felt really sick and thats when all the other stuff happened.

[USfighterFC]

BTW she was discharged today but she isnt herself at all. She's quieter and not talking much. She's Puerto Rican so thats not normal.

[MAXIMA5]

That came to my mind to. I wonder if she was high or something. The way he described it she was having a mental break down and some people handle drugs that way.

Definitely very likely, given the circumstances. Whether she used them intentionally or not, drugs are rampant at those places.

Either way, this whole thing sucks for you. I know what it's like to try to be the good guy all the time and caring about someone who you fear is hopeless.

Good luck.

[Carlos_E]

Not wishing anything bad but did they check for drugs in her system or check if she was sexually assaulted?

[USfighterFC]

Not wishing anything bad but did they check for drugs in her system or check if she was sexually assaulted?

Yeah I believe so and her BAC was .100 which is hardly piss ass drunk. I can blow a .08 right now if i wanted and thats the legal limit. But i actually did not ask if they found drugs in her system but she is not big on drugs. She doesnt really touch them.

[Carlos_E]

Yeah I believe so and her BAC was .100 which is hardly piss ass drunk. I can blow a .08 right now if i wanted and thats the legal limit. But i actually did not ask if they found drugs in her system but she is not big on drugs. She doesnt really touch them.

I'm not saying she did them purposely. Someone could have slipped her something.

I'm also surprised the club lets her leave alone. I have a friend who's a stripper and security makes sure they get a cab. They don't let them leave by themselves.

[USfighterFC]

I'm not saying she did them purposely. Someone could have slipped her something.

I'm also surprised the club lets her leave alone. I have a friend who's a stripper and security makes sure they get a cab. They don't let them leave by themselves.

Yeah this place just seems to let them walk out the door. The bouncer stands there but he's a fat fvck who doesnt watch you get into a car or cab he just closes the door after you and he hardly does that. But I dont know if they got toxicology tests back or not I should really ask her. I would like to call the hospital to get that info but I doubt they would give it to me.

[Carlos_E]

My best to you both. Hope everything is OK.

[Mizfit]

Happy belated

And hun you seem to have more trouble than good with her..

sometimes.. love ain't enough

[firmechicano831]

good luck USfighter, I think this would be the best time to talk to her about what changes are needed in the relationship as well.

[guest589745]

Dude, IMO I would leave her before things get even worse. Good luck man, keep us posted.

[zimmy]

hey the affects sound exactly like Rohypnol. Here is a quick random quote from a website, but the effects sound just like it.

Rohypnol can be ingested orally, snorted, or injected. It is often combined with alcohol or used as a remedy for the depression that follows a stimulant high. The effects of Rohypnol begin within 15 to 20 minutes of administration and, depending on the amount ingested, may persist for more than 12 hours. The drug’s metabolic properties are detectable in urine for up to 72 hours after ingestion.

Under Rohypnol, individuals may experience a slowing of psychomotor performance, muscle relaxation, decreased blood pressure, sleepiness, and/or amnesia. Some of the adverse side effects associated with the drug’s use are drowsiness, headaches, memory impairment, dizziness, nightmares, confusion, and tremors. Although classified as a depressant, Rohypnol can induce aggression and/or excitability

[novicenovicen]

sorry brotha

[USfighterFC]

Ehh dont be sorry, the situation is even worse now and will finish playing out tonight.

[Carlos_E]

Ehh dont be sorry, the situation is even worse now and will finish playing out tonight.

Sorry to hear. You two must be having that talk.

[MAXIMA5]

Hope it goes well. Hopefully this will be her wake-up call.

[BARLOW]

grr.....shit sucks.....
so she went out with another dude when you broke up im guessing is wut you found out?

[GunTotingHipGangster]

hey the affects sound exactly like Rohypnol. Here is a quick random quote from a website, but the effects sound just like it.
Quote:
Rohypnol can be ingested orally, snorted, or injected. It is often combined with alcohol or used as a remedy for the depression that follows a stimulant high. The effects of Rohypnol begin within 15 to 20 minutes of administration and, depending on the amount ingested, may persist for more than 12 hours. The drug’s metabolic properties are detectable in urine for up to 72 hours after ingestion.

Under Rohypnol, individuals may experience a slowing of psychomotor performance, muscle relaxation, decreased blood pressure, sleepiness, and/or amnesia. Some of the adverse side effects associated with the drug’s use are drowsiness, headaches, memory impairment, dizziness, nightmares, confusion, and tremors. Although classified as a depressant, Rohypnol can induce aggression and/or excitability

i was thinking the exact same thing...someone could have slipped her something, and i wouldnt put it out of the question given her setting and the people known to frequent those places. i'm not saying that everyone that goes to strip clubs is trying to drug a girl, but youre more than likely to find one of these characters there rather than at a normal bar.

As far as bipolar goes, i know what road youre traveling on. My ex was bipolar, and let me tell you the worste thing you can tell her is the fact that she is bipolar. my god did my girl WIG when i told her she's crazy/bipolar. I'm not telling you that you should get rid of her because i know how great love can be, but what i AM telling you is that someday you'll look back and thank god that that is a closed chapter in your life.

[RA]

Sorry to hear about all the drama. Hope everything works out for the best.

[Big Broker 1]

good luck bro..hope everything works out for the better