what to do when start dateing someone new ??

[steve0]

Alright guys/girls i have been eye'n this girl that works at the bank i bank at, well it turns out i went to HS with her sisters and all the good stuff, which gives me something to use when i wanna start a convo with her, i asked her out today, for lunch tommorow, now the tricky part is, how do explain my life style to her, i mean you guys know how most of use live with the training and dieting and such, not really drinking much it's a full time job for the most part, so how do i roll all that into a conversation without scaring her off, thinking im some sort of meat head with OCD, hahahah..

Steve0

[SwoleCat]

Tell her you are into health and fitness and eating healthy and staying fit.

She should repect a man who takes care of himself.

I can think of a host of other habits that are far worse.

~SC~

[steve0]

Tell her you are into health and fitness and eating healthy and staying fit.

She should repect a man who takes care of himself.

I can think of a host of other habits that are far worse.

~SC~

True SC, very true she seems nice we will see how it escalades after tommorows lunch.

[C_Bino]

Well bring it up as part of a convo, but dont say "hey I workout everyday and dont have much time for a gf" you just sound like a creepy guy. I mean people always talk about their interests on first dates and this is one of yours so just bring it up like anything else and tell her why you like it so much etc.

[roar1]

Maybe wait a few dates before revealing anything... she might provide some insight on what she thinks voluntarily..

[Kale]

Tell her you are into health and fitness and eating healthy and staying fit.

She should repect a man who takes care of himself.

I can think of a host of other habits that are far worse.

~SC~

Thats good, but you also need to subtly ask her if she takes it up the pooper as well

[chest6]

Yeah careful with that. I already scared 2 girls off this year..

[steve0]

Yeah careful with that. I already scared 2 girls off this year..

What ?? well what happened ? chest6 what did you eat there lunch to ?

[steve0]

Well bring it up as part of a convo, but dont say "hey I workout everyday and dont have much time for a gf" you just sound like a creepy guy. I mean people always talk about their interests on first dates and this is one of yours so just bring it up like anything else and tell her why you like it so much etc.

Yes, i can see what you mean, she one of those people that work 9-5 so she stays busy me on the other i run around all day dealing with people, so i workout in the mornings, im not affraid of my workouts getting in the as much as i am the dieting,

[24labor]

I satered seeing this girl this year and it kinda just fell into place she knew that I am into fitness and trainnig and as for the dieting shes not at all concerned about it, I mean sometiems it is a little hardcore to eat at times but you'd be suprised that some girls actually are impressed by the style its very interesting especially if you get all scientific when explaing things makes you sound like a whiz. Just don't make it the main topic I mean break the ice and tell her you do it for this reason and you have to do this to get your goal then talk about something else nothing worse than talking about yourself for a long time

[chest6]

What ?? well what happened ? chest6 what did you eat there lunch to ?

Haha nah. Just every 2 hours I'd be like I gotta eat. Like we would hangout and we would be somewhere and I'd be like time to eat. If she would be like now? I'd be like yeah I'm starving (trying to sound normal) and be like yeah I have to or else I feel funny (another excuse)..theyd ask if I drank and I said no. I dunno..fvck them I aint changin

[steve0]

Haha nah. Just every 2 hours I'd be like I gotta eat. Like we would hangout and we would be somewhere and I'd be like time to eat. If she would be like now? I'd be like yeah I'm starving (trying to sound normal) and be like yeah I have to or else I feel funny (another excuse)..theyd ask if I drank and I said no. I dunno..fvck them I aint changin

hahahah hell yeah me either, it's just a way of life now, i use to have a cuti that didnt mind but i fuvked that all up,

[chest6]

Yeah..they thought I was pretty strange eating every 2 hours and "working out too much". O well..I think the solution is find someone with similar interests that understands and u can relate to

[steve0]

true, but this day in age it can be hard to find, AAHHHH weres mikedura when you need him. hahah

[kloter1]

what do you mean "what do you do" just be yourself and let her know what your all about and how your lifestyle is.

[C_Bino]

Yeah careful with that. I already scared 2 girls off this year..

You sure it was your lifestyle that scared them Frankenstein?

[steve0]

what do you mean "what do you do" just be yourself and let her know what your all about and how your lifestyle is.

what up Kloter were you been man, yeah i know man i should just be myself, duh, i'll let you guys know how it goes

[ShnouzedUp]

just keep her talkin about herself man... ita work out better for ya anyway.

[steve0]

just keep her talkin about herself man... ita work out better for ya anyway.

AAAA shnouzed i was woundering when you were gonna hit my thread.

[mwolffey]

ive come to the conclusion that i need to date a fitness or figure girl...someone that understands my lifestyle completely....the diet, the training, the grumpy moods while cutting...everything

[steve0]

ive come to the conclusion that i need to date a fitness or figure girl...someone that understands my lifestyle completely....the diet, the training, the grumpy moods while cutting...everything

word.....i dunno what iv got myself into now

[ShnouzedUp]

AAAA shnouzed i was woundering when you were gonna hit my thread.

just keep asking her questions about herself... and when she says something you can relate to, then relate.. and relate comically.

[chest6]

You sure it was your lifestyle that scared them Frankenstein?

I knew that was gonna come eventually My face may be deformed...but it was definitely the lifestyle

[steve0]

I knew that was gonna come eventually My face may be deformed...but it was definitely the lifestyle

what up with ur face chest ?

[lucabratzi]

Haha nah. Just every 2 hours I'd be like I gotta eat. Like we would hangout and we would be somewhere and I'd be like time to eat. If she would be like now? I'd be like yeah I'm starving (trying to sound normal) and be like yeah I have to or else I feel funny (another excuse)..theyd ask if I drank and I said no. I dunno..fvck them I aint changin

haha, thats how i am...i really would love to know what they think when this happens...when ur poundin down food then 2 hours later u need to eat again...then cuase were college kids we're weird cause we dont drink/take drugs ed....like u said, ****em i aint changin...if they like me they like me...i know im a better candidate for a bf/**** then most people...not bein cocky just confident...

[chest6]

haha, thats how i am...i really would love to know what they think when this happens...when ur poundin down food then 2 hours later u need to eat again...then cuase were college kids we're weird cause we dont drink/take drugs ed....like u said, ****em i aint changin...if they like me they like me...i know im a better candidate for a bf/**** then most people...not bein cocky just confident...

Yeah I'd sound weird if I gave the real reason. I just say "Cuz Im hungry" and it works

what up with ur face chest ?

nuttin just goin along with the frankenstein comment

[spound]

They will probably be able to tell jsut through normal conversation...at least thats what happens with me....and then they ask questions and I answer truthfully, only to find out that they are usually truly interested/fascinated with the fact that I am so knowledgable on training/diet/health...and then they ask more questions...and then they wanna suck my D1ck LOL...but for real that's how it goes


Oftentimes I find the girl has many of the same interests as me...other wise she probably woudlnt be looking as good as she does (good enough for me to want to ask her out)

[steve0]

They will probably be able to tell jsut through normal conversation...at least thats what happens with me....and then they ask questions and I answer truthfully, only to find out that they are usually truly interested/fascinated with the fact that I am so knowledgable on training/diet/health...and then they ask more questions...and then they wanna suck my D1ck LOL...but for real that's how it goes


Oftentimes I find the girl has many of the same interests as me...other wise she probably woudlnt be looking as good as she does (good enough for me to want to ask her out)

good way to put it Spound,

[HULKBOY]

i dont know why the hell you guys are more worried about food rather than hangin out w/a chick..i mean come on were in college...ya know the best years of our lives yada yada...so why worry about missin a meal and scarin her off..**** the meal get you some pussy before you turn into a recluse..i mean if your gettin ready for a show then by all means do what you gotta do..but for us who just like lookin good who gives a **** if you miss a meal...its not like we're future PRO's or anything..go out and party get laid enjoy college life...remember we got the rest of our lives to be obsessed but for now we should just enjoy being young....

[taiboxa]

good god from the sound of the first post .. im affraid u will skare her away by talking too much about YOUR SELF
dont just throw it all out on the table like that.. she will be like wow wut a dueche who is so full of himself

ask her questions about her self learn about her EVERYONE LOVE TO TLAK ABOUT THEMSELVES
if she asks be honest
if she wants to go out to clubs and shit go drink water and watch to see if she drinks to get drunk
im sure u kan figure out the rest

[chest6]

i dont know why the hell you guys are more worried about food rather than hangin out w/a chick..i mean come on were in college...ya know the best years of our lives yada yada...so why worry about missin a meal and scarin her off..**** the meal get you some pussy before you turn into a recluse..i mean if your gettin ready for a show then by all means do what you gotta do..but for us who just like lookin good who gives a **** if you miss a meal...its not like we're future PRO's or anything..go out and party get laid enjoy college life...remember we got the rest of our lives to be obsessed but for now we should just enjoy being young....

Tru..I've heard that..but Im too obsessed theres no turnin back

[Haro3]

Tru..I've heard that..but Im too obsessed theres no turnin back

agreed, thank god i was with my girl before i started geting serious.

[lucabratzi]

Tru..I've heard that..but Im too obsessed theres no turnin back

ditto...but after im done w/ pct. im goin to do another good cut...and then just maintain...not worry so much about missin a meal, and seperating carbs/fats....drink a lil more on the weekends and just bang girls....no more gf bs...

[Tren Bull]

Alright guys/girls i have been eye'n this girl that works at the bank i bank at, well it turns out i went to HS with her sisters and all the good stuff, which gives me something to use when i wanna start a convo with her, i asked her out today, for lunch tommorow, now the tricky part is, how do explain my life style to her, i mean you guys know how most of use live with the training and dieting and such, not really drinking much it's a full time job for the most part, so how do i roll all that into a conversation without scaring her off, thinking im some sort of meat head with OCD, hahahah..

Steve0

i dont think youd scare her off by telling her your dedicated to staying in good shape. shed probably be impressed if she knew that

[Timm1704]

this is a good thread actually. i recently went ona date with an older woman, it didnt work out. i mentioned it to my brother, who then said it was because im so single minded about bodybuilding, diet, steroids and wrestling (wouldnt that make me quattro-minded???) that id bore any normal person to death lol! i worried all night thinking he was right, and in a way he is, i am very commited to my training, diet and wrestling, but i can talk about anything, and we did on the date. as it happens, i didnt really discuss my training, diet or wrestling THAT much. obviously never mentioned steroids lol. i think though that i was too honest for a first date, and we just didnt click.

[steve0]

this is a good thread actually. i recently went ona date with an older woman, it didnt work out. i mentioned it to my brother, who then said it was because im so single minded about bodybuilding, diet, steroids and wrestling (wouldnt that make me quattro-minded???) that id bore any normal person to death lol! i worried all night thinking he was right, and in a way he is, i am very commited to my training, diet and wrestling, but i can talk about anything, and we did on the date. as it happens, i didnt really discuss my training, diet or wrestling THAT much. obviously never mentioned steroids lol. i think though that i was too honest for a first date, and we just didnt click.

word....we had lunch today, shes a very flirty girl, hahha could a good think on my part, all seemd to go very good till she said " im in the process of getting divoced ", i was like O' dizzam, what now ? she invited me over to her place this weekend to hang out, hahah, gues i'll go i hope her soon to be x husn=band dont show up.

[taiboxa]

word....we had lunch today, shes a very flirty girl, hahha could a good think on my part, all seemd to go very good till she said " im in the process of getting divoced ", i was like O' dizzam, what now ? she invited me over to her place this weekend to hang out, hahah, gues i'll go i hope her soon to be x husn=band dont show up.

ur a rebound...
ur going to get dickd in a very bad way... good luck w/ that ROFL

[Oki-Des]

Never worry about what to say to a woman, just listen and she will like you more. Good Luck

[Timm1704]

ur a rebound...
ur going to get dickd in a very bad way... good luck w/ that ROFL

this is very likely. when did they seperate? either way, try keep any feelings at bay, and just have some **** hanging out the back of her, then move on

[thebison]

my advice would be date someone with similar intrests that way when u talk about diet cutting and stuff at least that person has and idea of whats going on and you could bulshit about working out n stuff.