I cant believe im posting for advice on this but I am... I will give a "prequil" to my situation, so i hope people who want to give serious reponses will read... To be HONEST, im lookin for advice for those who are serious with a hispanic or different race girl...

background - I live in a very whitetrash, kinda poor, area... where every family works in two factories but everyone works hard in sh!tty factories... 2 miles down the road is the hispanic ghetto( another 4 miles is all african american area because milwaukee is ghetto but segregated(sp?), and we have choice schools so I was raised in a very racially mixed community cause the city would bus kids from VERY VERY poverty families to our school and most familes moved here since our area was the first to offer disegrated options an its cheap... Our "Community" newspaper posted an article about how our area of town is 60% white but the average income is less than 20 g's a year,...

My parents*both got booted from their parents houses at 17, just how it is.. and they have worked very hard to get were they are and I consider them very well off because they dont take anything for granted, they save, and they respect everyone... My best friends are mexican and puerto rican... ive grown up with them and their families like im one of their own and my parents consider them family.... ive learned my half ass spanish because their parents were close enough to teach me like im a son... I cant explain how much we all consider eachother family along with all our parents

SOOO, race is indifferent to me and my parents which is AWESOME to me, especially in this day and age... my friends parents who are of different races feel the same way... I cant ask for anything more... but we all are exposed to different media outlets where this sh!t still exists...

HERES THE TWIST... I dont "date" much cause of the college scene among other insecurities I see people of my age have... BUT im about to take the plunge...

The girl im seeing now was born in mexico, but is very well educated... her parents were big political figures in mexico, but raised the second half of their kids here and they are now teachers in Milw.... this girl has only had one BF and has only had sex with this one guy before me... she comes from a strict family...

She has openly admitted she is seing a white dude(me) to her family after her one and only controlling mexican ex BF... but she has yet to introduce me... from what she has said, her family is really cool with her dating a white dude especially based on my schooling, family, goals, etc...

She has met my parents and they think she is great.... but I think we are both cautious about takin it to the extreme BF/.GF level where we meet eachothers extened family and I want to hear opinions of what to expect...

This is the only thing holding us back... I dont think either of us are scared of our extended families being racist... but it still has to be handled with velvet gloves...

I have a big family party coming up, some of which havent been exposed to the*innercity like her family and mine have been exposed too, but im excited for her to meet my family and she is too, but there are obvious precautions... I am going to insist she meets the rest of my family which will mean the world to her i think and seal our deal in a serious relationship, but it could break us...

Im just lookin for some advice on what to expect based on some of ur guys experiences and maybe how to handle those who are in our families and except it, but take cheap shots at us at the same time... because If i hear even jokes from them(which may be just joking) i will still lose my temper because i think its unappropriate and will snap on them which wil be ackward because im starting fights with family for any comment they make that will make my girl feel uncomfortable...

SORRY for the long post... im just lookin for others who were/are in the same situation, because I want to make this work, she wants it to work, but we are young and influential by our surroundings no matter how strong our initial relationship is...

Give me tips on what to expect....

Thanks

-OST