first of all any of you that take the time to read this i am grateful
hey all im 20 yrs old let me give u a background on the situation. okay i just got back from school(i go to NAU) so im on break for the summer. Anyways throughout the semester last year we talked on-line several times. we were just friends in high school but not really ever close just said wat up and talked in class a lil. She had this boyfriend for 2 years in high school, kid is such a fag i really dont want to talk about it.Anyways we had this fun bet after talking online a few times basically whoever had the highest gpa gets to strip the other one down(im not gonna say no, lol)-its some clown shit but w/e.
Anyways the first week im down here(phoenix) on summer break, she sends me the text message "So when are you gonna call me, btw what yours gpa". im like cha ching right fellas? wrong im a ****ing pussy!! anyways we talk that night for an hour on the phone(this was like tuesday) and decide to hang out that upcoming friday. (after we talked i noticed she def wasnt the kind of hook-up type).Okay we talked again thursday and everything was set for friday. Friday rolls around we hang out go to bamboo club(i dont pay for her, just cover tip) and then come back to my place and just chill by my pool and talk for a while (chillen by side of pool with fountain going and just dippin feet in water). we get along AWESOME but i really didnt make any moves (i wasnt feeling it), i touched around her body a little but nothing more. We talked about how her last boyfriend her relationship started by sex, so i intrepted this as chill on the moves.
Few days later i call and say lets hang out in a week. So we are suppose to hang out friday, thrusday night she leaves a message (like the type of message that made me think like that shes diggin me you know, like a 45 sec message hella cute i was loving it). anyways so friday rolls around, she gets off work at 7 and tells me shes a lil tired. We talk on the phone before we hang out and she gets on the topic as hanging out as friend or more than that. This is where i made my big mistake i think, i said i want to hang out as more than friends. Well this is where everything fell apart, we never hang out ( i think i came on a little too fast for her), i basically put her in control (I DIDNT MEAN TO!!!). she just says shell call me when shes ready.
-pause wtf happened, the message she left me like 10 hours earlier makes it seem like she wants it badly. she hung out with her boyfriend a few days earlier (did i already say hes a bi*ch?)
So a few days later i call her back and say you know it wasnt cool that you led me on and then stood me up (the whole fukin week you know, we decided on like tuesday that friday would be the day again). I dont think she liekd me tellin her that she stood me up (f*** that though), so i told her just to call me (my attempt trying to ease up a lil).w
As of right now its been 2/3 weeks since we last hung out, and i havent talked to her in over a week. The thing like usually id go with swoles saying i got 99 problems and a bitch aint one, but this girl is a problem for me though thats the thing. What do i need to do? At first after i last talked to her i was just trying to forget about it, but thats not what i want to do. I want this girl. I basically gotta get back into pimp mode and lay it down. Im thinking of going into her work and visiting her, and then telling her shes going to hang out(basically like she has no choice, being playful ofcourse) with me and that im going to show her a great time(i have a great idea for a next date, what do you know about cliff jumping?). Of course im not going to tell her what it is, but im going to tell her it involves her in a bikini and me in a bathing suit but not in a pool. The thing is i dont know if this is what i should do. Should i go visit her in work and tell her that, or wait for her to call -but i dont think that will happen. wheres bojangles at.
basicaly help me get this shit back in control, i had it going perfect and i feel like i tried to move things a little to quick and getting too attatched at first. any of you ladies on here i know you have awesome advice.
once again if you take the time to read this - you are seriously my favorite. right now i just started a test/tren cycle a few weeks ago and this shit is really ****ing with my head - i cant decide what i want to do. A few days ago i just realized i dont give a **** about her or her faggot boyfriend im gonna have to get in pimpen mode to get this girl back.
btw did i mention i feel like a bitch for having to actually post this on the internet, but i gotta figure this out. i think my problem was seriously just complementing her so much (prolly one of the cutest azns ive seen, ass drives me INSANE!!) that i basically put myself in a lesser position, kinda putting her in control and making her feel like she arleady won me over ( no challenge for her).ive been out of the dating game for a while so she def threw me for some loops, actually strapped my ass to a mental rollercoaster. im not really even that crazy, you know if it was a typical girl id say **** it, but something about this girl really really realllllllllllllllly turns me on in so many crazy ways.basically wat is your take on this situation, did i lose my chance? i think i can do this
i basically am going to make this girl love me, that ex bf has no chance seriously dude doesnt compete on my level you know?
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