Am I Really Too Old?

[Pinkvelvet]

Question for all you gentleman out there!

There's a group of us sport riders....and, one in particular who I think is quite attractive; but never thought about pursuing.
I find out he thinks I'm attractive as well...and was going to ask me out.

Than he found out my age....I'm 31. He's 23.

Now he says he can't get over the age difference!

Give me some thoughts here.....is it really that big of a deal? Guaranteed if the situation was reversed this wouldn't be an issue.

I would never go out with him now. If a guy is really attracted and is interested....he'd ask no matter what. I certainly wouldn't let age deter from getting in the way of knowing someone...as cool as (what I think) I am!

But, what are your thoughts...would any of you have a problem with the age difference? I don't think I look my age....but now after he said that..phuck do I feel old!

[T3/T4 GSR]

Wowww that is strange. Maybe he is gay because I am about the same age and I would love to hook up with 31 year old woman. Always wanted to hook up with an older girl.

[manc]

he's defo gay...you look top dollar to me

[Deluge1]

Wowww that is strange. Maybe he is gay because I am about the same age and I would love to hook up with 31 year old woman. Always wanted to hook up with an older girl.

Haha thats exactly it. I don't think she was looking to just "hook up".

He knows that your 31 now and most likely assumes you're looking to get serious. Which I doubht he wants at 23...

Don't take it personal.

[PROTEINSHAKE]

older (to me) women are hott as he!! ..... thats just crazy... I wish i was 23 b/c I'd be all over that. I'm 35 & I mostly go out with older women..although I throw in the 21 yr old bank teller every week or so her a$$ is NUTS....... (waiting for KALE to say he needs pics)...ask & you shall recieve.
YES....that guy is STUPID!!!!!!!

[DevilsDeity]

@ 31 your not old
@ 23 i would say the Maturity level is not there thats y hes cant handle the age differece.

[biglouie250]

not gay. it would be awkward if he were to persue you just to sleep with you and end the "relationship" since you have the same friends. so atleast he has respect in that regard. maybe he cant see a future with someone 8 years older then him. i personally think he is crazy looking at your pics.

[Mikey52]

Question for all you gentleman out there!

There's a group of us sport riders....and, one in particular who I think is quite attractive; but never thought about pursuing.
I find out he thinks I'm attractive as well...and was going to ask me out.

Than he found out my age....I'm 31. He's 23.

Now he says he can't get over the age difference!

Give me some thoughts here.....is it really that big of a deal? Guaranteed if the situation was reversed this wouldn't be an issue.

I would never go out with him now. If a guy is really attracted and is interested....he'd ask no matter what. I certainly wouldn't let age deter from getting in the way of knowing someone...as cool as (what I think) I am!

But, what are your thoughts...would any of you have a problem with the age difference? I don't think I look my age....but now after he said that..phuck do I feel old!

I won't comment on the feeling old but I sure would try to keep the guy as a friend. Anytime a 23 yearold guy doesn't lie to you just to get in your pants seems like someone I would want in my corner.

[FranKieC]

Age is just a number..I tend to date older woman because of maturity and experience

Pink you are very beautiful and seem to have a great head on your shoulders and I'm sure he will regret not taking a shot.

[SMYL_GR8]

Haha thats exactly it. I don't think she was looking to just "hook up".

He knows that your 31 now and most likely assumes you're looking to get serious. Which I doubht he wants at 23...

Don't take it personal.

That's probably it. When I was that age, I dated women over 30, but made sure from the beginning my short-term intentions were clear. If I thought they were "nesting", I stayed away.

[G-1000]

@ 31 your not old
@ 23 i would say the Maturity level is not there thats y hes cant handle the age differece.

This is the same thing i was thinking.

But what a dum ass he must be also. I guess he does not know how horny chicks your age are. Females are in there prim in there 30 and look there best if you ask me.


P.s The pics you asked me for. They did not fit in e-mail.

[Pinkvelvet]

Age is just a number..I tend to date older woman because of maturity and experience

Pink you are very beautiful and seem to have a great head on your shoulders and I'm sure he will regret not taking a shot.

Thanks for that.

And, I'm certainly not looking for anything longterm....believe me; particularly with a 23 year old.
And, as much as I don't want to admit it...I'm a little hurt by this....Gsxxr ....your so right.
I'm in my prime and I'm cycling...double whammy! Sucks being single at this time!

[Mizfit]

I've always dated younger men.. never ahd an issue regarding my age.

I prefer 5 yrs over 8 years differenvce - alot of 23 yr olds are not mautre enough for a 30 year old womne - IMO - (I'm 30 myself)

[biglouie250]

I've always dated younger men.. never ahd an issue regarding my age.

I prefer 5 yrs over 8 years differenvce - alot of 23 yr olds are not mautre enough for a 30 year old womne - IMO - (I'm 30 myself)

you 30yr old woman are too damn intimidating. lots of guys cant swallow their pride on a lot of issues. some dont care most do and look for excuses to run.

[G-1000]

Thanks for that.

And, I'm certainly not looking for anything longterm....believe me; particularly with a 23 year old.
And, as much as I don't want to admit it...I'm a little hurt by this....Gsxxr ....your so right.
I'm in my prime and I'm cycling...double whammy! Sucks being single at this time!

I feel for you sweety.

I will tell you what. Go over to your bike sit and on it. Then rev it to red line . That might help for a little while.

[perfectbeast2001]

hes a mug!!

[Deluge1]

Thanks for that.

And, I'm certainly not looking for anything longterm....believe me; particularly with a 23 year old.
And, as much as I don't want to admit it...I'm a little hurt by this....Gsxxr ....your so right.
I'm in my prime and I'm cycling...double whammy! Sucks being single at this time!

I'm sure if he knew that he wouldn't have a problem...

[manc]

hey pink take a look at this thread..its a young guy wondering to date an older woman..some interesting posts
http://forums.steroid.com/showthread.php?t=257675

[D3m3nt3d]

It would make no difference to me if I was into the girl, I am 26..if a girl was in her 30's, I'd feel like the man with her

[Pinkvelvet]

I feel for you sweety.

I will tell you what. Go over to your bike sit and on it. Then rev it to red line . That might help for a little while.

Been doin that! HA! Just not the same of course.

[FranKieC]

Thanks for that.

And, I'm certainly not looking for anything longterm....believe me; particularly with a 23 year old.
And, as much as I don't want to admit it...I'm a little hurt by this....Gsxxr ....your so right.
I'm in my prime and I'm cycling...double whammy! Sucks being single at this time!

Welcome

[rar1015]

I wouldnt have a problem with see an older woman so i dont know what his problem is.

[breacherup]

forget him-ride over to my place, you look great to me!

[MatrixGuy]

If he doesn't want you hun i'll have you

[Pinkvelvet]

you 30yr old woman are too damn intimidating. lots of guys cant swallow their pride on a lot of issues. some dont care most do and look for excuses to run.

Unfortunately...pride is the crutch of the insecure

[T3/T4 GSR]

Thanks for that.

And, I'm certainly not looking for anything longterm....believe me; particularly with a 23 year old.
And, as much as I don't want to admit it...I'm a little hurt by this....Gsxxr ....your so right.
I'm in my prime and I'm cycling...double whammy! Sucks being single at this time!

To bad you're in canada...I would love a girl who has the same chemical induced hornyness as myself haha.

[Pinkvelvet]

If he doesn't want you hun i'll have you

AWE! See ...where are all the men like you? Can't find you guys anywhere!

[Pinkvelvet]

forget him-ride over to my place, you look great to me!

On my way! Be there before morning!

[BigUno]

Wowww that is strange. Maybe he is gay because I am about the same age and I would love to hook up with 31 year old woman. Always wanted to hook up with an older girl.

ive hooked up with a older women so much better then someone my age and im 22. the guy is retarded to not wanna hook up with u cuz of age

[steve0]

nah i thinks its cool, im 22 and i was dateing a 40 yr old...it was just a sex thing but still she was 40.

[manc]

i dont think he knows what he has missed out on....what a foool
this is a pic of pink from members pictures,as youl all agree prettty damn hot

[G-1000]

[Pinkvelvet]

i dont think he knows what he has missed out on....what a foool
this is a pic of pink from members pictures,as youl all agree prettty damn hot

Holy shit...were did you get that?!

[PROTEINSHAKE]

NOW ITS 100% CONFIRMED--HE'S A JACKA$$ what else could you POSSIBLY ask for??? a hot chick that digs you & loves to work out & looks awesome!!......... DUH

[G-1000]

I my book he must be gay or just crazy.

[rar1015]

He has to be gay to not want that!!!!!!!!

[biglouie250]

Unfortunately...pride is the crutch of the insecure

your absolutley right. most guys are insecure to begin with, add to that a hot older woman and things like she lives on her own, i live with mommy, she makes xx,xxx dollars a year i make 9 bucks an hour. she has a new car(in your case a new bike) i got a 89 celica...... unfortunatley tangible assets are things guys look at in ourselves to see if we are "worth" it. thats how most guys think, not me though.

[Doc.Sust]

it is the immaturity factor, 23 year olds are idiots, hell, i was when i was 23!!! i was a grade "A" fckn jerk!!! it took me until i was about 25 to wise up. if this guy is hung up on something so dumb as age(which makes NO difference,it is all relative in the first place) he isnt worth the aggrevation, if you told me you were 40yold, and you looked the way you do now, i would have no problem with that at all! you are a very good looking girl, i doubt you will have trouble finding another "beau" to replace this fool. his loss. if i was a single canadian, i would be all over you like the color white on rice. i am sure there are alot of other men who feel the same way

[Carlos_E]

What a loser. It's his problem not yours. He probably feels intimidated because you're not a young girl he can jack around with head games. You are older, you know the signs. Be happy that you found out up front and didn't waste your time versus getting involved and him pulling this stunt later.

[Doc.Sust]

He has to be gay to not want that!!!!!!!!

he must be REAL gay!!! like Liberace/richard simmons gay!!!