guilt trip?

[Foskamink]

have u ever tried to say somthing to somone to make them feel guilty so u can get your own way?

u do it because its how u feel but u r not sure and want to give them a second chance and u want them to respond to it so u try to do that for a better outcome?

if that make sense...

[LBT]

Yes and I felt no shame.

Ooh, I'm evil.

[Foskamink]

Yes and I felt no shame.

Ooh, I'm evil.

i feel its wrong but it can really make people think places they havnt and atleast u put what u feel out in the open in a constructive way not just a hurtfull.. especially if u want a better outcome instead of a bad

[lucabratzi]

yeah i've had to do it to 2 professors this week cause i've missed some tests cause i was in a motorcycle accident...they were bein hardass's so i put on a sad face and told them i was in the hospital cuase of the accident...i just acted really sad and depressed and they are lettin me make them up one way or another...

[Mizfit]

Yes - it's called manipulation

[Foskamink]

Yes - it's called manipulation

damn ur wise...

on another note how do we all feel about this evil deed?
bring karma or not that bad

[Flagg]

Manipulation is the fine art of the spoilt brat.

[mavsluva]

Just be honest with yourself and to others and allow yourself to treat others as you'd like to be treated by them.

[outofthebox]

is it bad to do it and not realize you are manipulating someone until you feel bad for what you've done? lol

[big L 17]

ya i do it alote i fell bad

[C_Bino]

Everyone does it I think. I do it to my roommate all the time when he slips up on diet or training. I dont do it because Im a sad pathetic loser, because I know it will make him get his ass in gear when I make him feel like crap.

[Mizfit]

women got mad power in this area!

[Foskamink]

i refrained when i saw her tonight from doing this. and im just going to be open and let what happens happen

[cfiler]

women got mad power in this area!

Oh that's so true. Women love guilting a man into doing whatever they want.

[cfiler]

I only guilt other people into doing things when it's nessesary. Like I guilted a prof to let me write a test I missed, or my boss for not reporting me for being sick.

[big L 17]

women got mad power in this area!

ya we do

[J.S.N.]

have u ever tried to say somthing to somone to make them feel guilty so u can get your own way?

u do it because its how u feel but u r not sure and want to give them a second chance and u want them to respond to it so u try to do that for a better outcome?

if that make sense...

go to catholic church every sunday and you should learn about guilt rather quickly.

[Foskamink]

im catholic and im tatted with it too. but i dont think that would help

[pumpd4lif]

have u ever tried to say somthing to somone to make them feel guilty so u can get your own way?

u do it because its how u feel but u r not sure and want to give them a second chance and u want them to respond to it so u try to do that for a better outcome?

if that make sense...

i despise that trait in people and it doesnt effect me it.i laugh at my wife when she try's to make me feel guilty unfortanuatly it just further upsets her but i am not one for games