Yet another pickup in the gym....

[batlin]

I'll make this short... just wanted third party insight on this...
feel kinda weird posting this on a forum to people i dont know but oh well this is becoming one of my new homes!

I do not make it a habit to pick women up at the gym, I am at the gym to work out and not to look for my next ex Mrs. me.. and I feel women are the same.. but I have done it before, and well I did it again today...
There was a girl there that I went out with like 3.5 years ago.. we both recognized each other but i finally went up to her to talk to her.. talked a bit and then went along with my work out.. I left and she ended up leaving same time as me.. I caught up with her and talked to her a bit more and then asked if she was seeing someone.. she said "Yea i am.. but ask me in a month or so.." I was like "Oh it is one of those relationships?" she said "yea.. i dont plan on marrying this guy" so then i told her "ok well, if i see you around in a month.."

Now.. was this a blow off? she kinda gave more info then needed if it was a pure and simple blow off...

thoughts?
Oh and it was kinda funny, when we talked at the gym, she said "yea we went out once" after that a couple guys that were around kinda gave me a nod as in "good job my man" kinda funny...

Thanks All!

[Juicy J]

r u lookin for a relationship with this girl, or just some meat socket

[batlin]

LOL.. "meat socket" LOVE IT
well I think I could go for a relationship with her... but if all i got was a meat socket.. it'd be nice!

[Johny-too-small]

r u lookin for a relationship with this girl, or just some meat socket

LMFAO! OMG.

How bad were you trying to hide your Test boner?

[Juicy J]

just talk to her again in a month bro, see where it goes, if it works out then cool, but if not maybe she'll at least play with your ding dong

[LawMan018]

I'd just keep having convo's with her at the gym and if and when she decides to leave this guy ask her out on a date...

[jon77]

How bad were you trying to hide your Test boner?

[batlin]

How bad were you trying to hide your Test boner?

Lucky i was wearing my tighty whities!!! otherwise.......

[Johny-too-small]

Lucky i was wearing my tighty whities!!! otherwise.......

Good for you...

My spandex pants show everything

[Juicy J]

just go to the gym bare assed

[RockyX]

lol...talk to her in a month.....if she wanted to blow you off she wouldn't have said "ask me again in a month"......I could barely type that cuz I'm still lau***ng from the ding dong comment

[Jenseno9]

just tell her to stop wasting her time with that guy. I mean if she already thinks its going nowhere then why is she wasting her time with him? Tell her to dump that loser and go on a date with you. sarcastically ofcourse, but it should work

[10nispro]

maybe the is waiting for her period to start..? hhhmmmmmm

[timtim]

maybe her membership ends 1 day before the end of the month?

j/k

[Mogamedogz]

Pull up on a Motorcycle like Vanilla Ice and say.... "Yo Bitch... Diss dat ZERO, and Get wit a HERO!"

[batlin]

Pull up on a Motorcycle like Vanilla Ice and say.... "Yo Bitch... Diss dat ZERO, and Get wit a HERO!"

SWEET I will have to try that!!!

[batlin]

Thanks all for the replies.. and of course the laughs!

It doesnt sound like a blow off, so I will just wait it out and hope to see her in the gym again!

thanks all!

[lightwaytbaby]

dude, she obviously dont care, be honest with her, and tell her u want to go chill sometime...

[KidGalahad]

Yeah, dude. She's totally setting you up to be her rebound bang when she breaks up with that other guy. Not good if you want a relationship, but if you're in it for the sex all you need is for her to get in an argument with the dude before she sees you at the gym and you're in. Keep up a line of communication, i.e. "accidentally" be working on the bench next to her every once in a while just to remind her you're available. Just don't make it too obvious or come on too strong and it sounds like a sealed deal.

[Mojoman]

Yeah, dude. She's totally setting you up to be her rebound bang when she breaks up with that other guy. Not good if you want a relationship, but if you're in it for the sex all you need is for her to get in an argument with the dude before she sees you at the gym and you're in. Keep up a line of communication, i.e. "accidentally" be working on the bench next to her every once in a while just to remind her you're available. Just don't make it too obvious or come on too strong and it sounds like a sealed deal.

I agree, Dont even act like you remember the content of the conversation, just acknowledge her with a "hey, how are ya?" when you see her at the gym. She'll come to you when she's ready to drop the panties!

[domeyeahaigh]

i agree with kid, just dont be an overeager bitch man...if you see her in a month and she mentions it..cool..if not...**** her

[bowonly]

NOPE... she is waiting to see if she is interested in taking it any further. She must be attracted to ya, but she is holding back, and it aint another guy that kept her from saying, sure let's go out. She figures she will see you again, and see what happens. "what happened on the first date with her"?

Potential problem... she is shacking up with the other guy and can't just break it off.

[KidGalahad]

it aint another guy that kept her from saying, sure let's go out.

That's a big assumption. I'm not sure we have enough info about the other relationship to make that judgment.

[Huckster]

[QUOTE=bowonly[B]]NOPE... she is waiting to see if she is interested in taking it any further. She must be attracted to ya, but she is holding back, and it aint another guy that kept her from saying, sure let's go out.[/B] /QUOTE]

Not a good move, to show too much interest. You need to show that your not really that interested and you got other things going on. Talk to her in a month and say 'hey how ya been?'

[batlin]

Hey guys, I haven't seen this chick in the gym since the day I talked to her.. So i was bored browsing myspace and found her profile.. its private so i cant see anything but was wondering if i should pop her an email and see whats up?
thoughts?

[Huckster]

No, don't do it.

If she was interested like she led on too, she would have somehow bumped into you by now. She probably hasn't dumped the old guy. Or already had a guy waiting when she was planning on dumping the boyfriend.

[bowonly]

"She's a MAN baby"!!! Playing the field, keeping all options open!! haha

[Panzerfaust]

I wouldn't worry about her.

[unclemoney]

I'd say fvck the bitch. Forget about her, if she was really into you she'd have no problem breaking it off now, she wouldn't have to wait a month... So what does that mean, another month of some other man fvcking this girl and then I'm supposed to turn around and smash her while knowing this in my head?!?!?! FVCK THAT!

[Johny-too-small]

Why do you care, anymore? I mean with all the great variety of porno we have these days!

[batlin]

Damnit i figured that is what you all would say...
What can i say, she is hot and I wanna show her the little Batlin...

[ftony]

Bro, think about it.If she's with some dude and telling you maybe hook up in a month...Shes not displaying any loyalty to her man.Just do whatever you want or say,she's one of those that u hammer and move on...If it doesn't work out who cares,she showing hoe quality's,not girlfriend potential...