is she blowing me off?

[wjohn81]

i found a girl i went to hs with on facebook and we messaged each other back and forth so i asked her if she wanted to go out drinking this weekend and told her to pick the place and this is what she said----

i have to pick the spot ... aww man ... ill figure out something and ill get back

i dont know if this is supposed to be a nice way of saying no or does it sound like shes interested???

[powerliftmike]

Why dont you man up and tell her where youre going? Women actually like decisions to be made for them. Ask her for her phone number, do something bro

[wjohn81]

last night she said shed get back to me so i dont really want to send another message this morning picking a place cuz i dont want to sound desperate....

[Renesis]

Well you already screwed up so I say wait it out until she answers you. If not then who cares its just a chick.

[wjohn81]

**** it i sent her another message sayin i know a few places we could go and asked her if she wants to go sat night this way ill either get a yes or an obvious excuse...

[novastepp]

you just screwed yourself by acting like every other guy she has ever met. you have to be different' message her and say, "give me your number so i can call you and let you know what time i'm going to pick you up this saturday/friday." then when she does, call her and say "I want to go to ... with you around 930. still game for a good night?" then you're back in. if you get nothing with that, she's done with you.

[batlin]

you just screwed yourself by acting like every other guy she has ever met. you have to be different' message her and say, "give me your number so i can call you and let you know what time i'm going to pick you up this saturday/friday." then when she does, call her and say "I want to go to ... with you around 930. still game for a good night?" then you're back in. if you get nothing with that, she's done with you.

Yup, thats the way to do it....

I have talked to several women I have met online, and one of their biggest pet peeves is guys who A: send their number and tell THEM to call them (girls like YOU to call)
B: indecisiveness.. they want to be told where to go and what time to be there

[Dally]

[5ifthCitizen]

Well you already screwed up so I say wait it out until she answers you. If not then who cares its just a chick.

xxx2

[J-Dogg]

You might be too scared o rejection...a lot of people do not do things because they "might" fail. Who cares though?

Can you PM me her info though?

[number twelve]

is this the same girl you started the other thread about?

[gixxerboy1]

you just screwed yourself by acting like every other guy she has ever met. you have to be different' message her and say, "give me your number so i can call you and let you know what time i'm going to pick you up this saturday/friday." then when she does, call her and say "I want to go to ... with you around 930. still game for a good night?" then you're back in. if you get nothing with that, she's done with you.

that's how i meet my girl. I asked her what night we were going to dinner? She says your asking me out? I said no we are going out just asking you what night is good for you. That was almost a year ago

[number twelve]

that's how i meet my girl. I asked her what night we were going to dinner? She says your asking me out? I said no we are going out just asking you what night is good for you. That was almost a year ago

haha nice