Saudi Marriage 'Expert' Advises Men in 'Right Way' to Beat Their Wives

[Logan13]

Saudi Marriage 'Expert' Advises Men in 'Right Way' to Beat Their Wives
http://www.memritv.org/clip/en/1594.htm

He's Saudi author and cleric, "Dr." Muhammad Al-'Arifi, who in a remarkable segment broadcast on Saudi and Kuwaiti television in September, counseled young Muslim men on how to treat their wives.

"Admonish them – once, twice, three times, four times, ten times," he advised. "If this doesn't help, refuse to share their beds."

And if that doesn't work?

"Beat them," one of his three young advisees responded.

"That's right," Al-'Arifi said.

He goes on to calmly explain to the young men that hitting their future wives in the face is a no-no.

"Beating in the face is forbidden, even when it comes to animals," he explained. "Even if you want your camel or donkey to start walking, you are not allowed to beat it in the face. If this is true for animals, it is all the more true when it comes to humans. So beatings should be light and not in the face."

His final words of wisdom?

"Woman, it has gone too far. I can't bear it anymore," he tells the men to tell their wives. "If he beats her, the beatings must be light and must not make her face ugly.

"He must beat her where it will not leave marks. He should not beat her on the hand... He should beat her in some places where it will not cause any damage. He should not beat her like he would beat an animal or a child -- slapping them right and left.

"Unfortunately, many husbands beat their wives only when they get mad, and when they start beating, it as if they are punching a wall – they beat with their hands, right and left, and sometimes use their feet. Brother, it is a human being you are beating. This is forbidden. He must not do this."

Take that, Match.com!

[Flagg]

That's barely a step up from cavemen dragging their women around by the hair. It's a shame these insecure, women beating pieces of shit refuse to move forward with the rest of the world.

[spywizard]

so once again their culture is not acceptable to others...so what do we do about it??

[Dizz28]

I believe this guy has a few videos out teaching crap like this. I've seen a few of them on one of my Media websites. He does more than teach how to beat them...

He also teaches what amounts to rape of thier wives also. He says, it doesn't matter what she is doing, if the man of the house comes home and wants sex...she must stop what she's doing and "provide" for her husband. If the husband is seeing another woman, to look the other way because his pleasure if more important....

But that's how a lot of muslim faiths are in the middle east. Places like Iraq/Iran/afghanistan women are essentially slaves. It's amazing to see 3 full grown healthy men walking with nothing in thier hands while these little 5ft-nothing women are carrying 50lb sacks on thier head.

they see nothing wrong with this

[spywizard]

And that is who they are..

[Dizz28]

....and we make our women think they have to look like Cosmo models with silicon implants, injecting botulism toxin and cutting or suckin out everything else like might look like a normal person away

Which one is really more barbaric

[spywizard]

now that's a good point..

the difference is we don't beat them to get bigger lips..

we just $$$ reward those that do..

[Logan13]

so once again their culture is not acceptable to others...so what do we do about it??

nothing. But when I hear people whine about indignity in all but the middle eastern countries, it drives me crazy.

[LawMan018]

nothing. But when I hear people whine about indignity in all but the middle eastern countries, it drives me crazy.

You don't beat your wife

[brianfantana]

Check out poorer eastern european countries, they're no better... Chechnya being an example! It's like us in the UK we're born into a country where we're used to freedom and driving on the left hand side... unfortunately if we were born in the middle east we'd be used to the culture they have

[goose]

Logan reminds me of FOX news,that bill guy....

[RA]

It reminds me of that joke-

What do you tell a woman with two black eyes?

Nothing! You already told the bitch twice.

[Carlos_E]

It reminds me of that joke-

What do you tell a woman with two black eyes?

Nothing! You already told the bitch twice.

Hate to admit it, but that actually made me laugh.

[RA]

I know its crude as hell....but funny

Hate to admit it, but that actually made me laugh.

[Dizz28]

I'll pm you a fairly good joke...it's kinda degrading so I'm not gonna post it cuz I'll prolly get susp. for it

[Logan13]

It reminds me of that joke-

What do you tell a woman with two black eyes?

Nothing! You already told the bitch twice.

now that's funny, my wife even laughed.

[goose]

Why does logan not posts threads like these?

http://www.utoronto.ca/wjudaism/jour...2/v1n2grae.htm

[RA]

You didnt have to go to the end of the earth to find that....but close.

Why does logan not posts threads like these?

http://www.utoronto.ca/wjudaism/jour...2/v1n2grae.htm

[goose]

Love the joke,by the way.Told my girl that,and she gave me a slap,LOL......

[RA]

lol..

Love the joke,by the way.Told my girl that,and she gave me a slap,LOL......

[Logan13]

Why does logan not posts threads like these?

http://www.utoronto.ca/wjudaism/jour...2/v1n2grae.htm

I do not write them. But tell me this, can you name the last Jewish terrorist that walked into a school bus and detonated a bomb? Use google again if you must. Obviously, we have another middle eastern apologist amongst us..........

[Tock]

A Biblical similarity (one of many) --

The 2nd half of the 5th Chapter of the Book of Numbers (in the Old Testament) tells jealous husbands how to find out if their wives were being unfaithful: make them drink some floor sweepings, and if they get sick, then they are guilty.
After that, the Bible has other things to say about adultery, but that's another thread . . .

Lots of craziness in lots of religious traditions.

[Roidal]

Hit lightly, gf loves it anyway and I have the right tool for it.

[Teabagger]

....and we make our women think they have to look like Cosmo models with silicon implants, injecting botulism toxin and cutting or suckin out everything else like might look like a normal person away

Which one is really more barbaric

?? You're shitting us right?? You can compare a husband beating his wife to a woman electing to have a cosmetic procedure performed? You a funny dude dizzy....

[gixxerboy1]

Saudi Marriage 'Expert' Advises Men in 'Right Way' to Beat Their Wives
http://www.memritv.org/clip/en/1594.htm

He's Saudi author and cleric, "Dr." Muhammad Al-'Arifi, who in a remarkable segment broadcast on Saudi and Kuwaiti television in September, counseled young Muslim men on how to treat their wives.

"Admonish them – once, twice, three times, four times, ten times," he advised. "If this doesn't help, refuse to share their beds."

And if that doesn't work?

"Beat them," one of his three young advisees responded.

"That's right," Al-'Arifi said.

He goes on to calmly explain to the young men that hitting their future wives in the face is a no-no.

"Beating in the face is forbidden, even when it comes to animals," he explained. "Even if you want your camel or donkey to start walking, you are not allowed to beat it in the face. If this is true for animals, it is all the more true when it comes to humans. So beatings should be light and not in the face."

His final words of wisdom?

"Woman, it has gone too far. I can't bear it anymore," he tells the men to tell their wives. "If he beats her, the beatings must be light and must not make her face ugly.

"He must beat her where it will not leave marks. He should not beat her on the hand... He should beat her in some places where it will not cause any damage. He should not beat her like he would beat an animal or a child -- slapping them right and left.

"Unfortunately, many husbands beat their wives only when they get mad, and when they start beating, it as if they are punching a wall – they beat with their hands, right and left, and sometimes use their feet. Brother, it is a human being you are beating. This is forbidden. He must not do this."

Take that, Match.com!

What if her face is already ugly?

[Dizz28]

?? You're shitting us right?? You can compare a husband beating his wife to a woman electing to have a cosmetic procedure performed? You a funny dude dizzy....

No....I'm not shitting anyone

and thanks, I can be a funny guy sometimes

[helium3]

A Biblical similarity (one of many) --

The 2nd half of the 5th Chapter of the Book of Numbers (in the Old Testament) tells jealous husbands how to find out if their wives were being unfaithful: make them drink some floor sweepings, and if they get sick, then they are guilty.
After that, the Bible has other things to say about adultery, but that's another thread . . .

Lots of craziness in lots of religious traditions.

Lmao wtf?

did god tell them to do this or was it written in by a man(again).

its amazing that we have made it to the 21st century with people having these kind of beliefs.

[Tock]

Ya, here's the Bible text, crazy as it is:

http://www.tniv.info/bible/passagese...s%205&tniv=yes


The Test for an Unfaithful Wife


11 Then the LORD said to Moses, 12 "Speak to the Israelites and say to them: 'If a man's wife goes astray and is unfaithful to him 13 so that another man has sexual relations with her, and this is hidden from her husband and her impurity is undetected (since there is no witness against her and she has not been caught in the act), 14 and if feelings of jealousy come over her husband and he suspects his wife and she is impure—or if he is jealous and suspects her even though she is not impure— 15 then he is to take his wife to the priest. He must also take an offering of a tenth of an ephah [c] of barley flour on her behalf. He must not pour oil on it or put incense on it, because it is a grain offering for jealousy, a reminder-offering to draw attention to wrongdoing.
16 " 'The priest shall bring her and have her stand before the LORD. 17 Then he shall take some holy water in a clay jar and put some dust from the tabernacle floor into the water. 18 After the priest has had the woman stand before the LORD, he shall loosen her hair and place in her hands the reminder-offering, the grain offering for jealousy, while he himself holds the bitter water that brings a curse. 19 Then the priest shall put the woman under oath and say to her, "If no other man has had sexual relations with you and you have not gone astray and become impure while married to your husband, may this bitter water that brings a curse not harm you. 20 But if you have gone astray while married to your husband and you have made yourself impure by having sexual relations with a man other than your husband"— 21 here the priest is to put the woman under this curse—"may the LORD cause you to become a curse [d] among your people when he makes your womb miscarry and your a**omen swell. 22 May this water that brings a curse enter your body so that your a**omen swells or your womb miscarries."
" 'Then the woman is to say, "Amen. So be it." 23 " 'The priest is to write these curses on a scroll and then wash them off into the bitter water. 24 He shall make the woman drink the bitter water that brings a curse, and this water that brings a curse and causes bitter suffering will enter her. 25 The priest is to take from her hands the grain offering for jealousy, wave it before the LORD and bring it to the altar. 26 The priest is then to take a handful of the grain offering as a memorial [e] offering and burn it on the altar; after that, he is to have the woman drink the water. 27 If she has made herself impure and been unfaithful to her husband, this will be the result: When she is made to drink the water that brings a curse and causes bitter suffering, it will enter her, her a**omen will swell and her womb will miscarry, and she will become a curse. 28 If, however, the woman has not made herself impure, but is clean, she will be cleared of guilt and will be able to have children. 29 " 'This, then, is the law of jealousy when a woman goes astray and makes herself impure while married to her husband, 30 or when feelings of jealousy come over a man because he suspects his wife. The priest is to have her stand before the LORD and is to apply this entire law to her. 31 The husband will be innocent of any wrongdoing, but the woman will bear the consequences of her sin.' "