some female Bu11$h!t!

[dirtball_619]

so i finally meet this chick whos so hot (way outta my league) and she seemed real into me. until she told me last night shes pregnant with my friends baby.

she claims my friend took advantage of her when she was drunk and just getting out of a 3 year long relationship(she was with one of my good friends for 3 yrs until he moved).

shes best friends with my EX of 2 years. and my friend is her ex of 3 years. coincedence?

anyways... she wont get an abortion but dispises the father.i think shes really the most down to earth hot chick ive ever met and she would have been perfect had she not been knocked up by my friend.

im only 18 and my guts telling me just let it go and that i dont need a preg. girlfriend, but i know shes gonna be a MILF and a really awsome companion. we just clicked and hit it right off the bat. what to do???

am i just being a young naive sucker?

[DSM4Life]

so i finally meet this chick whos so hot (way outta my league) and she seemed real into me. until she told me last night shes pregnant with my friends baby.

she claims my friend took advantage of her when she was drunk and just getting out of a 3 year long relationship(she was with one of my good friends for 3 yrs until he moved).

shes best friends with my EX of 2 years. and my friend is her ex of 3 years. coincedence?

anyways... she wont get an abortion but dispises the father.i think shes really the most down to earth hot chick ive ever met and she would have been perfect had she not been knocked up by my friend.

im only 18 and my guts telling me just let it go and that i dont need a preg. girlfriend, but i know shes gonna be a MILF and a really awsome companion. we just clicked and hit it right off the bat. what to do???

am i just being a young naive sucker?

Just because she has a kid doesnt make her a bad person but at the same time do you want to date a chick at 18 that has a baby ?

[peteroy01]

wow, thats a hard one.

[paulzane]

am i just being a young naive sucker?

Only if you stay with her!

[DSM4Life]

Look at the positives, you dont have to wear a condom

[Kratos]

I'd be out like the trash on a thursday. He took advantage of her while she was drunk?!? She isn't even a good liar. I've heard that one before btw. You're 18, all the chicks are hot, most have a shelf life at that age. That's why I'm dating an 18 year old...duh. I was looking at some high school band geeks the other day, even they looked hot. You'll gonna wanna be couped up in the house for your 20's with baby? WTF. I didn't even learn to have a good time yet until I was in my 20's.

[goodcents]

I'd be out like the trash on a thursday. He took advantage of her while she was drunk?!? She isn't even a good liar. I've heard that one before btw. You're 18, all the chicks are hot, most have a shelf life at that age. That's why I'm dating an 18 year old...duh. I was looking at some high school band geeks the other day, even they looked hot. You'll gonna wanna be couped up in the house for your 20's with baby? WTF. I didn't even learn to have a good time yet until I was in my 20's.

What he saidsaved me some typing

[powerliftmike]

She could be ok OR she could be thinking "no way im gonna raise this kid myself". split tails can put on quite a show man, they can be so loving and gentle to get what they want. THIS IS YOUR WARNING!!!! Keep eyes peeled!

good luck buddy!

[powerliftmike]

Look at the positives, you dont have to wear a condom

and then after the pregnancy that shit dries out and is permanently loose! hahahaha

[Amorphic]

I'd be out like the trash on a thursday. He took advantage of her while she was drunk?!? She isn't even a good liar. I've heard that one before btw. You're 18, all the chicks are hot, most have a shelf life at that age. That's why I'm dating an 18 year old...duh. I was looking at some high school band geeks the other day, even they looked hot. You'll gonna wanna be couped up in the house for your 20's with baby? WTF. I didn't even learn to have a good time yet until I was in my 20's.

Amen to that

[shifty_git]

She could be ok OR she could be thinking "no way im gonna raise this kid myself". split tails can put on quite a show man, they can be so loving and gentle to get what they want. THIS IS YOUR WARNING!!!! Keep eyes peeled!

good luck buddy!

i agree with mike!

n also, if you take on that kid your ganna be called daddy.... then what happens when u hit 22-23 and you want to move away for a job or something? its ganna limit ya options in life.

[LawMan018]

I'd say if she's as good as you say she is stay with her... But if she starts trying to ask you for money or support beyond what you feel you need to give then to hell with her.

[Amorphic]

at 18 years old you have no place being around kids. (it may make me sound like an asshole, but its true)

for a few reasons:

the burden of helping take care of a newborn.
the possible guilt trips by the mother
and everything else stated in this thread.

18 years old isnt even adulthood, you should be out having carefree fun with carefree girls, not taking care of a kid.

you're only young for so long, enjoy it while it lasts

[dupa95]

Yup for sure. Good call

[Lexed]

dude your fcking 18 you dont need that drama shit yet you cant even go to a club yet lol. Let this girl go youll have PLENTY of girls trust me. Your to young to worry about a child thats not even yours

[StoneGRMI]

How does your friend feel about you dating his ex? Also, you're 18...no need to even get involved in something like that.

[Panzerfaust]

All I can say is that if it feels right and you two have legit chemistry, by all means see what happens.

[dirtball_619]

wow thanks for all the replys guys. mad love haha.

ya i got my eyes peeled. she bought me 2 shirts and a hat today for no reason and has never asked me for cash so im a bit skeptical. maybe shes just trying to butter me up.

another thing is.... shes friggin emotional as all **** right now crying to me like every night when ive only been involved with her for a few weeks. trips me out cuz id feel bad just bailing on her. its almost like im commited... its some BU11$h!T. maybe i just have too much remorse for people and i just ditch the b!tch idk....i like her ALOT but hard call.

something tells me ill bail and feel guilty... for like a week maybe

[Amorphic]

wow thanks for all the replys guys. mad love haha.

ya i got my eyes peeled. she bought me 2 shirts and a hat today for no reason and has never asked me for cash so im a bit skeptical. maybe shes just trying to butter me up.

another thing is.... shes friggin emotional as all **** right now crying to me like every night when ive only been involved with her for a few weeks. trips me out cuz id feel bad just bailing on her. its almost like im commited... its some BU11$h!T. maybe i just have too much remorse for people and i just ditch the b!tch idk....i like her ALOT but hard call.

something tells me ill bail and feel guilty... for like a week maybe

just be careful, misplaced sympathy is a huge weakness and it is always exploited.

[Lexed]

wow thanks for all the replys guys. mad love haha.

ya i got my eyes peeled. she bought me 2 shirts and a hat today for no reason and has never asked me for cash so im a bit skeptical. maybe shes just trying to butter me up.

another thing is.... shes friggin emotional as all **** right now crying to me like every night when ive only been involved with her for a few weeks. trips me out cuz id feel bad just bailing on her. its almost like im commited... its some BU11$h!T. maybe i just have too much remorse for people and i just ditch the b!tch idk....i like her ALOT but hard call.

something tells me ill bail and feel guilty... for like a week maybe

exactly what u dont need at age 18. You got you whole life ahead of you man there will be so much pu$$y its not worth it with this one girl.

[dirtball_619]

ok you guys are right, how can i get all my meals in, hit the gym hard and heavy and get enouph sleep at 18 whilst having a kid to take care of.

let alone pay for my first cycle a year from now when ive hit 180lbs .

currently 5,8" 160lbs around 12-14% bf.

[dirtball_619]

eh, might take 2 years but i got time

[Amorphic]

ok you guys are right, how can i get all my meals in, hit the gym hard and heavy and get enouph sleep at 18 whilst having a kid to take care of.

let alone pay for my first cycle a year from now when ive hit 180lbs .

currently 5,8" 160lbs around 12-14% bf.

we're always right

[qualityclrk1]

I'VE BEEN IN YOUR EXACT POSITION......i had this "crush" type deal with this girl all through grade school and never thought i had a real chance. I have confidence in getting girls, but this one was just so bangin and so much older, i just figured she'd not sink down to date someone so much younger....i was only a freshman when she was a senior and i never said but maybe 3 words to her the entire time i was in high school....a year goes by after she graduates and i find out shes pregnant- totally shocked me and kinda broke my heart at the same time lol....i still haven't talked to her in years, but like a fairy tale the week i'm going to be playing in the state semifinals for football and i get a thing over myspace from her tellin me good luck and asking how i'd been and shit....well long story short, i played my hand right and i managed to get her to come hang out a couple nights...we had sex and she was the best f*ck i'd ever had...having the baby didn't effect that at all like some people may say... and as an 18 year old senior in high school i was alittle nervous on what to do about the whole kid thing...i decided the kid wasn't an issue, i liked this girl enough, and i thought i was mature enough to handle the situation....honestly it was the best move i've made...me and her were together for alittle over 2 years, but recently broke up and probably not going to get back together...but i don't regret a thing...i miss the kid as much as i miss his mom....seriously man, its perfect- u don't have to take care of the kid like his father, u can just be like a big brother/father figure....spoil the shit out of him when u get the chance, and u know he's gonna always gonna think you're the shit....the whole time me and that girl were together i always thought that i was teaching that kid something.....but i look back now, and that little guy helped me see what kind of person i am, and what was important in this life.......

[gixxerboy1]

Man no way. What till your a little older and you dont have to date the same girl that's been past around to all your friends.

The others will just be passed around among strangers that's better.

and at 18 you would be the dumbest man alive for trying to settle down with a family that isn't yours

[Dukkit]

ive dated a couple moms when i was your age. the girls ages ran from 17-35. and the kids ran from 15 months to 15 years. i think they were all good experiences. i dont regret them. we may have lost intrest in each other or what not. so i or they moved on. but the relationships were fun. i learned alot, about older women, about kids, about how i want to raise my child when i have one. so i say go for it. if it doesnt work out... oh well. your young. move on.

[goodcents]

Before you bust one w/o a rubber make sure she really is preganent Every chic I know at one time or another said she lied to a guy to get knocked upOh these chics will lie

[goodcents]

Maybe a baby will love me? Fuked up girls

[Johny-too-small]

Go look at some porn and get your head on straight. A relationship with this girl at your age has about a 5% chance of lasting past your mid 20s.

[Ajc330]

there is only one reason why i WOULDN'T do it, she just got out of a 3 yr old relationship, becareful you are not a rebound dude, her last relationship fell apart because the bf moved, so she is probably still very sad and emotional and just looking for some attention

[football2007]

takin care of someone elses kid at 18 y.o.? No thanks.

[dece870717]

Before you bust one w/o a rubber make sure she really is preganent Every chic I know at one time or another said she lied to a guy to get knocked upOh these chics will lie

Dude me and a co-worker of mine were talking about this and it freakin scares the crap out of me!

[Amorphic]

Before you bust one w/o a rubber make sure she really is preganent Every chic I know at one time or another said she lied to a guy to get knocked upOh these chics will lie

now thats a terrifying prospect

[pretty_tony]

you're in a tight spot.. i'm 26 now but when i was 18 i was very immature and made a lot of mistakes. it seems like a good idea to stay with her but i never really knew what i really wanted until i got older. i say pass her by and live your life a little.

[DSM4Life]

you're in a tight spot.. i'm 26 now but when i was 18 i was very immature and made a lot of mistakes. it seems like a good idea to stay with her but i never really knew what i really wanted until i got older. i say pass her by and live your life a little.

Naa he could have been in a tight spot BEFORE she got knocked up

[legobricks]

Remember what I told you at the gym bro, she is looking for a baby daddy most likely. DONT get yourself in that situation. Dating someone with a child is one thing, dating someone who is going to have a child, going thru childbirth, the late nights of crying, feeding, pictures in childbirth, dedication to be there for the kid due to the fact that once again she most likely needs some type of dad figure for the baby and your it. Ditch it bro. Possibly stay with her for a little while and when she is def. gettin bigger and bigger (obvioulsy pregnant) then you could most likely hit it without a rubber and quit it. But save yourself, dump her ass, then come party and find some one nighters or women who just like to f*ck. It would suck for you to go cus thatll really hurt her now but you have to do what you have to do, dont play off of emotions, play off of reality and what could be a bad desicion. I dated a girl for 4 months who had a little 4 year old girl. cutest little girl ever and it opened my eyes a bit on how to father. AFter she was "talking" to her friends about having another kid in 2 years i broke up with her the next day. yeah it was tuff but grab your nuts and do it. Im not ready for a kid and my roomates have a little daughter (14 months) and she is now the cutest kid i have ever seen. I can honestly say im good enough to be an uncle, but not a father.

[goodcents]

I'd still fuk her, but that's just me Take lots of pics too

[legobricks]

I'd still fuk her, but that's just me Take lots of pics too

No not just you. Id do it to, and make a video!

[DSM4Life]

What if the kid comes out looking like this ?

[goodcents]

No not just you. Id do it to, and make a video!

I don't have video yet I can take some video on the digital camera but I assume it would take up alot of disk space.