
Originally Posted by
VeraDeMilo
Um, I am not seeing where there is anything wrong with her. Nothing wrong with a girl liking you and wanting to spend time with you. Of course she is gonna get upset when you don't want to sleep there and stuff, because that is her only time to be with you cause you work so much.
Sounds like she wants to help out and cook for you too. Where is that a flaw of hers? Am I missing something?
Sounds like the issues lie with you and not her. I am in the same situation as you. I work two jobs, have a mortgage and bills, need time to work out, etc. My girl is in college and has all the time in the world. She knows how busy I am so she loves helping out. She cooks for me, cleans my house, does my laundry, the dishes, grocery shops....etc.
In no way does that make me feel dependant at all. Because I know I can do it all myself. I did for a long time. It makes me appreciate her more that she goes out of her way to do stuff for me, so that I have less stress and more time for myself and to be with her.
I don't know the rest of the situation, but based on the facts you have given, I say keep her around.