Me at 295 lbs. 1 year ago:
Me at 223.5 lbs. last week:
I'm 41 yrs old and 6 months before I started I was certain it was too late, that I was too fat to get in shape.
It was done with 75% diet, 15% drugs, 10% exercise.
One year and that's it. If I had even a 1/4 way decent exercise program running I"m sure that I would be in much better shape than I am. Still have a long way to go to reach my goals, but I'm not fat anymore and my cholesterol has went from 268 to 136 with no drugs for that at all.
So it's only too late, your only too far gone, until you MAKE THE DECISION that your NOT and then make a plan for change and put it into action.
And I totally agree with JinNTonic, make small, reasonable changes and set small reasonable goals. I was stuck because my thinking was "F*&^, there is no way I can loose 80lbs." But what I could do was to start packing lunches for work instead of eating at burger king every day, what I could do was drop soda for sugar free, calorie free lemonade, etc.... then to water later down the road.
Actually I was dropping 10lbs/month eating almost all protein shortly thereafter for 3 months, forcing myself to shovel 4 big table spoons of fat free cottage cheese (which I DO NOT LIKE) down my gullet every time a commercial came on the TV instead of a bowl of pasta or some pizza or whatever. And I drank tons of water. I didn't eat healthy fats though, that was a mistake.
And I started learning about nutrition and healthy eating on the interent, mostly at this site. Now I have almost total control over my diet and it is not hard for me. I have bad eating binges like 1x every 3 weeks where I will eat a slice of cheese cake or something. There is a drug sold over the counter called alli that you can take with meals that have fat in them and it will adsorb 1/3 the fat out of the meal so you eliminate it later rather than have it go onto your stomach. It is given in prescription at double the dosage of the alli over the counter version, think it's name is orlistat. I try to take a couple of those if I am mindful at the time I'm indulging in a craving for bad food to not do as much damage, but I wouldn't recommend it for you at this stage of the game.
And I'm not wearing my wedding ring in the after pics because it's way to big for me now and falls right off my finger. I have to get it re-sized.