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  1. 05-25-2009, 02:15 PM #1
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    gf and sex issues

    Ok I'm not really sure where to post this so I'll just post it here. But my gf started taking clen about a week and a half ago because she knows I cycle and wanted something to help her lose weight and I set her up with the proper dosages and all and make sure she's doing it right. But the problem now is she has NO SEX drive and it's really pissing me off. It's been over a week and it's just excuse after excuse with her and it's really causing problems with me being sexually frustrated. She started new birth control too at the beginning of the month and I'm not sure if it's that or the clen that's causing it. I checked around on here to see if it could be the clen but did not really find anything saying it reduces a womans sex drive but I know bc can have issues with it too. But she started that at the beginning of the month. I don't know everytime I say something it just gets brushed off and she's like "that's all you care about blah blah" and I really don't know what to say about it anymore. She left this morning and hasn't called and I haven't attempted to call her. So basically it's the whole she's mad at me now I guess because that's all I care about supposedly and I'm pissed of at her because the relationship is lacking. I've only been with her for 6 months too! You think we would be f*cking like rabbits...nope. ANy advice would be appreciated. Thanx bro's.
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    i'd peg it on the birth control..that sh1t effs up hormone levels badly....
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    well I thought about that, but she was fine before the clen on the new bc for a few weeks. Will bc take that long to start messing with the hormone levels?
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    Birth control. Iv had the same issue when gf changed bc. The clen may be adding to the hormonal effects but when they change bc it usually screws with the hormones for a while.
    Its happened to me with 2 diff women.
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    for awhile...how long are we talking? This is already killing me and it's been a week.
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    Quote Originally Posted by IXISiDiuSIXI View Post
    for awhile...how long are we talking? This is already killing me and it's been a week.

    Well it all depends, My ex wife went about 3 weeks of absolutely no sex drive. Then she wanted sex everyday for 2 weeks straight. Each woman is different, her body has to adjust.
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    why is she trying to loose weight? is there some dude she is trying to impress.

    girl with lack of sex drive is maybe getting it from some where else..???? just checking -
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    because like every girl she thinks she is getting fat. It's a good thing though, it's got her in the gym and working on her diet and she wasn't doing that before. I couldn't stress enough to her it's not the clen that's going to do it but how she eats and trains. I know there is no other guy...she sleeps at my house almost every night and has school and work between that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by vpchill View Post
    Well it all depends, My ex wife went about 3 weeks of absolutely no sex drive. Then she wanted sex everyday for 2 weeks straight. Each woman is different, her body has to adjust.
    so you just dealt? If she stays on then it gets better or should I recommend another bc to her?
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    Give her body time to adjust before having her switch. Just look at the next few weeks as a time to really focus on forearms!
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    Quote Originally Posted by IXISiDiuSIXI View Post
    so you just dealt? If she stays on then it gets better or should I recommend another bc to her?

    I mean I always have a backup plan, Hence thats why she is my ex-wife lol.
    You gotta deal with it. I mean if she changes bc again thats more time for her body to adjust.
    be patient it could be days. Every persons body is different. Now I duno if the clen will affect her. I just know my experience with women changing bc.

    Grab some baby lotion (soothing and warming) and take care of bizness, she will come around.
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    I like all those ideas. Or you could just wait till she is sleep and squirt your man love all over her. Im sure she will be upset to be covered with man goo and not get any action!
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    You sound like a man that's about to get some strange. In 6 months time you know whether or not you really like this woman. I say you do. Give her some time and in the meantime, take care of yourself. I love women, but damn they're weird sometimes.
    As far as the bc goes, i've never been with a woman (3) that was on bc and didn't want to hump. But idk. Good luck man.
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    Abstain from sex and masturbation for as long as it takes for her to come around.
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    Quote Originally Posted by IXISiDiuSIXI View Post
    Ok I'm not really sure where to post this so I'll just post it here. But my gf started taking clen about a week and a half ago because she knows I cycle and wanted something to help her lose weight and I set her up with the proper dosages and all and make sure she's doing it right. But the problem now is she has NO SEX drive and it's really pissing me off. It's been over a week and it's just excuse after excuse with her and it's really causing problems with me being sexually frustrated. She started new birth control too at the beginning of the month and I'm not sure if it's that or the clen that's causing it. I checked around on here to see if it could be the clen but did not really find anything saying it reduces a womans sex drive but I know bc can have issues with it too. But she started that at the beginning of the month. I don't know everytime I say something it just gets brushed off and she's like "that's all you care about blah blah" and I really don't know what to say about it anymore. She left this morning and hasn't called and I haven't attempted to call her. So basically it's the whole she's mad at me now I guess because that's all I care about supposedly and I'm pissed of at her because the relationship is lacking. I've only been with her for 6 months too! You think we would be f*cking like rabbits...nope. ANy advice would be appreciated. Thanx bro's.
    So lets get this straight, you give her a drug to take that takes away her sex drive and now your mad at her ? Wow, thats funny.

    Only way your going to be able to tell which if the two is causing the problem is to take her off one of them and wait.
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