i think gf may be cheating on me (this isnt that joke lol)

**ray0414** · 09-10-2009, 11:03 AM

ok well ive been dating this girl for a few months and gotten pretty serious. yesterday i got her a phone and put it on my plan, so i have all control over it from verizon.com well i seen some texts and asked her about them and she said it was her girly friend. it was weird cuase i could tell other texts had been deleted and the texts on there sounded like from a guy. so anyways, i looked up hte number online and payed 5bux, and hte name on the phone is a woman, but she has the same last name as her ex bf,and is from the same city her exbf lives in and i told her no talking to ex bfs and she promised not to.on the website i can check text messages sent and recieved but u cant read them, it only shows the times, but since i just activated it yesterday they havent quite showed up yet on the website so i cant see how many times shes texted this number. so my question is, cuase i think ive heard before of someone using this way to catch a cheating spouse, but is there a way to have all her texts forwarded to my phone? or even get to read them? i dont know if its verizon that does the text forwarding or not but any info is appreciated.

**jamyjamjr** · 09-10-2009, 11:08 AM

well that sucks.. the only way i know to get texts on another phone is to clone the phone

**Nooomoto** · 09-10-2009, 11:24 AM

Sit that bitch down and make her explain herself.

**KAEW44** · 09-10-2009, 12:54 PM

Originally Posted by Nooomoto

Sit that bitch down and make her explain herself.

Winner LOL

**james21** · 09-10-2009, 05:26 PM

Originally Posted by Nooomoto

Sit that bitch down and make her explain herself.

agreed.

Leave that girl

**xnotoriousx** · 09-10-2009, 10:55 PM

Originally Posted by Nooomoto

Sit that bitch down and make her explain herself.

AHAHA I hear ya bro EXPLAIN IT TO ME BEYTCH

**skinnykenney** · 09-16-2009, 08:36 PM

Originally Posted by Nooomoto

Sit that bitch down and make her explain herself.

definately do this! Don't be a puss or beat around the bush either.and don't let her use that why would I get on your phone plan and do that when you can see all my activity excuse!!!!!!!!

**stack_it** · 09-10-2009, 11:25 AM

U could always wait til she's asleep and look through her phone.

You could also just go sleep with some random girl that way you know if she is cheating on u atleast you'll be even lol

***Admin*** · 09-10-2009, 11:33 AM

Could it be that the ex has a sister that she had become close with that she has stayed in touch with...

Might be a very simple explaination... just ask...

.

**elpropiotorvic** · 09-10-2009, 11:35 AM

I dont think so... My advise just ask yourself wether Ud. Be willing to go onif she was cheating on u( given the case that she wouldn't want u guys to break up) ...if the answer is yes , then u gotta tell her that u feel somethings happening and she will either reassure u or just be a bitch and fight u and try to make u feel bad and say sorry forthinking that ... Which I think a man should never do( or a woman)... If u are man enough to show ur weakness and say baby Im not feeling very sure about this because of this and that , then ur letting her see u weak, if u appreciate the girl enoughfor to show her dat then do it ... If not man I am pretty sure there is going to be girls ten times prettier 20 times smarter and down to earth... and hey who knows if ur lucky u find one with money too

Good luck

**Mooseman33** · 09-10-2009, 11:36 AM

kick her ass to the curb.

game over.

**CBGB** · 09-10-2009, 11:52 AM

If you don't trust her, get out. Trust is the foundation for any relationship.

BG · 09-10-2009, 05:30 PM

Originally Posted by CBGB

If you don't trust her, get out. Trust is the foundation for any relationship.

I agree!!

**CHAP** · 09-10-2009, 12:07 PM

You can read those texts if your the primary on those accounts. Just call and talk to verison.

Every repuable phone company has this. My wife is the primary and can read the texts online so I know its possible.

It comes down to if you done trrust her,leave and find someone you can. Its not fair to you. And if she id not doing anything wronge its not fair to her.

Good luck. Its a tough situation.

CHAP

**ninesecz** · 09-10-2009, 12:57 PM

I do not thi nk you can get the actual text printouts without a court order... MY friend just went through this with Verizon and they told him all you can get is the time stamp for each text.. not the atual text messages

**calgarian** · 09-10-2009, 03:19 PM

my question would be why the number she is receiving the text from says this phone belong to a woman?????? I think u r looking too much into it.....how can u tell that they are from male if you cant read them?

**Western Man** · 09-10-2009, 04:05 PM

I've dealt with this shyte plenty. Does she hide her phone when you're around? If you ask to borrow her phone to make a call does she let you or not? If she's texting/talking to another guy then she'll receive a text when you're there at some point. Just watch her to see if she's being coy.

**TJ09** · 09-10-2009, 04:10 PM

This shit is going to drive you crazy bro, for you too think that you must not trust her, if you dont trust her get rid of her while you still can and your not too actached, you'll drive your self nuts wondering what shes doing , not worth it.

**fig** · 09-10-2009, 04:17 PM

Originally Posted by TJ09

This shit is going to drive you crazy bro, for you too think that you must not trust her, if you dont trust her get rid of her while you still can and your not too actached, you'll drive your self nuts wondering what shes doing , not worth it.

^^x2

**J-Dogg** · 09-10-2009, 04:51 PM

Originally Posted by TJ09

This shit is going to drive you crazy bro, for you too think that you must not trust her, if you dont trust her get rid of her while you still can and your not too actached, you'll drive your self nuts wondering what shes doing , not worth it.

Honestly, we don't know enough to give advice on this cause we dno't personally know either party.

Maybe she is insecure, or maybe the TS is insecure cause of cheating in the past? We don't know.

I say, until you know for sure....it's not an issue. But if you are looking at what numbers are texting her already, there are issues.

I think you have to trust her FIRST if she is going to trust you.

You can't tell a girl "no talking to your ex's sweetie!", let her talk to who ever she wants because eventually, she will be attracted to another guy or think about another guy. A woman is a human too, and no guys, we are not all that stunning that she will never look at another attractive guy.

If she wants to talk to her ex, big deal. If you trust her, let her. If you don't trust her getting a text from her ex....I'd second guess your own security (no offense intended here) that may stem from the past.

If you think a girl is being unfaithful, you'll find a reason to think it more.

**fig** · 09-10-2009, 04:17 PM

Hey man, sorry to hear. I had the same issue a few months ago. All texts from one number were always deleted. I did catch her, but not through the texts...I don't think there is any way to do what you want.

2 things you can do:

1. Kick her to the curb and move on (I suggest)
2. PM me and I'll tell you what I did. Unfortunately, we had been together for some time and it wasn't that simple. I had to have concrete evidence and I got it.

**DOM6** · 09-11-2009, 12:12 AM

Originally Posted by calgarian

my question would be why the number she is receiving the text from says this phone belong to a woman?????? I think u r looking too much into it.....how can u tell that they are from male if you cant read them?

I think your girlfriends X is using his sisters phone or has it under her name thats why it shows the same last name as your girlfriends X, look bro, get out now bro, it can get worse, MAN UP

film you and her and send it to him, LMAO

**Mooseman33** · 09-10-2009, 04:03 PM

go with ur gut man...

**higherdesire** · 09-10-2009, 05:19 PM

my g/f says she has something like this and it extracts the deleted text messages. But I would text the number tha she is texting to from my phone and say I am her, and using my friends phone "whatcha duin?"

**ray0414** · 09-10-2009, 11:05 PM

Originally Posted by higherdesire

my g/f says she has something like this and it extracts the deleted text messages. But I would text the number tha she is texting to from my phone and say I am her, and using my friends phone "whatcha duin?"

definitely an interesting tool however the phone must have a sim card and verizon phones dont have sim cards. btw the reason i put her on my plan was cause she doesnt have enough credit to get a phone and they wanted a huge deposit.

**Panzerfaust** · 09-10-2009, 05:38 PM

You need to do one of two things

1. Grow up

2. Leave her

Either you are immature to be so paranoid or you need to leave the situation. Why be with someone you cannot trust? Going through someones phone records is pretty pathetic, especially considering its only been "a couple of months".

My 2cents

**domeyeahaigh** · 09-10-2009, 05:55 PM

Originally Posted by ray0414

ok well ive been dating this girl for a few months and gotten pretty serious. yesterday i got her a phone and put it on my plan, so i have all control over it from verizon.com well i seen some texts and asked her about them and she said it was her girly friend. it was weird cuase i could tell other texts had been deleted and the texts on there sounded like from a guy. so anyways, i looked up hte number online and payed 5bux, and hte name on the phone is a woman, but she has the same last name as her ex bf,and is from the same city her exbf lives in and i told her no talking to ex bfs and she promised not to.on the website i can check text messages sent and recieved but u cant read them, it only shows the times, but since i just activated it yesterday they havent quite showed up yet on the website so i cant see how many times shes texted this number. so my question is, cuase i think ive heard before of someone using this way to catch a cheating spouse, but is there a way to have all her texts forwarded to my phone? or even get to read them? i dont know if its verizon that does the text forwarding or not but any info is appreciated.

um dude your a douche...you wanna be a in a relationship with a girl you cant trust? i rarely ever stumble into these " i gotta girl problem" ?'s in the lounge but i just happened to come in this one today

and why the fck do you have her on the same phone plan as you? are you going to marry her? you been with her for a few months and shes still fckin her ex boyfriend and you are ACTUALLY thinking that if you tell her she cant talk to him thats going to work?

yeah right.. that makes the temptation that much more fun..

and for him its all fun and games too he just has to text or call and it COMPLETELY fcks YOU UP

hes got the power..your sour...dump your girl go to the gym n do some curls cause senor this girls a whore..

peace love and respect brother

raise your standards in yourself

**Bojangles69** · 09-10-2009, 07:07 PM

>>>>>>>>>

**Dancer** · 09-10-2009, 08:20 PM

Dont trust no HO check that shit late night.

BTW if she is deleting then she is hiding...

Sorry but she is F'ing around...

**RIPSpawn** · 09-10-2009, 10:51 PM

Originally Posted by ray0414

ok well ive been dating this girl for a few months and gotten pretty serious. yesterday i got her a phone and put it on my plan, so i have all control over it from verizon.com well i seen some texts and asked her about them and she said it was her girly friend. it was weird cuase i could tell other texts had been deleted and the texts on there sounded like from a guy. so anyways, i looked up hte number online and payed 5bux, and hte name on the phone is a woman, but she has the same last name as her ex bf,and is from the same city her exbf lives in and i told her no talking to ex bfs and she promised not to.on the website i can check text messages sent and recieved but u cant read them, it only shows the times, but since i just activated it yesterday they havent quite showed up yet on the website so i cant see how many times shes texted this number. so my question is, cuase i think ive heard before of someone using this way to catch a cheating spouse, but is there a way to have all her texts forwarded to my phone? or even get to read them? i dont know if its verizon that does the text forwarding or not but any info is appreciated.

WARNING: I posted a "I think my girl is cheating on me" post at an AAS forum years back, and everyone had me convinced she was. Well, when I called her on it she was shocked. Her friends had date stamped pictures on their cameras showing where she was, and tons of people confirmed it. I confronted her way too fast for her to try to get a story together. Over, it was obvious she wasn't cheating on me the time I thought she did (or ever for that fact, was with her another 7 years and no hint of cheating every).

Take what people say with a grain of salt.

**ray0414** · 09-10-2009, 10:56 PM

well i wrote this this morning and now its about 1am so ill give an update. turns out my suspicions were correct, the phone was registered in his moms name thats why i figured it woulda been him. i picked her up today and was checkin out her phone, i just got it for her yesterday so i was playin with it,and noticed again text messages were deleted where there should have been texts from that number and again she said it was her friend crystal, i knew she was lyin threw her teeth. well on the drive home she kinda changes her story about who the person is shes texting, says her name is crystal, i ask her last name and she says she doesnt know cause she just met her *YEA FU*KIN RIGHT!!* im not stupid so i dont buy that crap at all. so were about to pull into my driveway and she gets another text from the person so i grab the phone and i send a reply saying "OK alex" ( the name of the doosher i suspected it to be). we pull in the driveway and she bitches a lil bit and i tell her i know its him blah blah and that she should just come clean. and finally she does come clean and immediately she started crying. she claims she didnt want to tell me cause she didnt want me to freak, and that she was only texting him to try to be nice cause hes been super depressed lately and had been cutting himself (something she did in the past also so she claims she can reach out to him) and she claims his dad tried to kill himself or something the night before. but all i know is the day before which was yesterday which was the first day she had the phone, she sent out quit a bit of texts to him all night long. i finally got the log tonight and she was sending them to him pretty just about right after she'd send them to me. i do however recall her saying a few weeks ago taht the kid hadnt been doing well and was really depressed. she told me how he was hittin on her last week so i definitely dont trust the little puke. I suppose i gave her the benifit of the doubt of the story but told her that its never okay to lie and she should have explained the situation right from the get-go instead of lying and covering shit up.i just seen the text log just now when i got home and i am back to being a not-so happy camper. but basically if your gut tells you something is wrong u should listen and at least explore the posibilities. not sure what i am going to do just yet. things between us have been pretty amazing up until this point. maybe just throw the chips in the air and see where they fall.

**TJ09** · 09-11-2009, 02:47 PM

Originally Posted by ray0414

well i wrote this this morning and now its about 1am so ill give an update. turns out my suspicions were correct, the phone was registered in his moms name thats why i figured it woulda been him. i picked her up today and was checkin out her phone, i just got it for her yesterday so i was playin with it,and noticed again text messages were deleted where there should have been texts from that number and again she said it was her friend crystal, i knew she was lyin threw her teeth. well on the drive home she kinda changes her story about who the person is shes texting, says her name is crystal, i ask her last name and she says she doesnt know cause she just met her *YEA FU*KIN RIGHT!!* im not stupid so i dont buy that crap at all. so were about to pull into my driveway and she gets another text from the person so i grab the phone and i send a reply saying "OK alex" ( the name of the doosher i suspected it to be). we pull in the driveway and she bitches a lil bit and i tell her i know its him blah blah and that she should just come clean. and finally she does come clean and immediately she started crying. she claims she didnt want to tell me cause she didnt want me to freak, and that she was only texting him to try to be nice cause hes been super depressed lately and had been cutting himself (something she did in the past also so she claims she can reach out to him) and she claims his dad tried to kill himself or something the night before. but all i know is the day before which was yesterday which was the first day she had the phone, she sent out quit a bit of texts to him all night long. i finally got the log tonight and she was sending them to him pretty just about right after she'd send them to me. i do however recall her saying a few weeks ago taht the kid hadnt been doing well and was really depressed. she told me how he was hittin on her last week so i definitely dont trust the little puke. I suppose i gave her the benifit of the doubt of the story but told her that its never okay to lie and she should have explained the situation right from the get-go instead of lying and covering shit up.i just seen the text log just now when i got home and i am back to being a not-so happy camper. but basically if your gut tells you something is wrong u should listen and at least explore the posibilities. not sure what i am going to do just yet. things between us have been pretty amazing up until this point. maybe just throw the chips in the air and see where they fall.

You honestly arent believing a word she told you are you? I hope not! Smartin up and get rid of her know, you said you've only been together a couple months well it will hurt alot more after you've been with her for a couple years and you find out shes been banging her ex the hole time. Im not trying to be mean but ive kinda been there, i wish i woulda took the advice im giving you. Theres to many nice girls out there who wont be texting there ex behind your back all the time, never let a girl have a negative impact on you!

***D7M*** · 09-10-2009, 10:59 PM

^kick her to the curb, my man!

**xnotoriousx** · 09-10-2009, 11:03 PM

sucks, i'd have to get a REALLY good bj to stay around after that one, deep throat

**xnotoriousx** · 09-10-2009, 11:09 PM

i'd call her right now and say bitch bring me my phone!!!

**amcon** · 09-10-2009, 11:17 PM

um call the phone number as for the dude and see if he answers... if yes she is cheating or is going to cheat

other wise if you gf hott? if so send me here number i will ask her for you.... if she is i will send you some pic of me and her and you will be able to confront her

i will say you intimidated me in to telling you and admit ever thing, every position, every stroke, every nipple pinch, how she let me shave her, how she let me probe her but(does she have a nice butt?)... bro i will help you out any way i can because i love you some much... lol

**ray0414** · 09-10-2009, 11:27 PM

Originally Posted by amcon

um call the phone number as for the dude and see if he answers... if yes she is cheating or is going to cheat

other wise if you gf hott? if so send me here number i will ask her for you.... if she is i will send you some pic of me and her and you will be able to confront her

i will say you intimidated me in to telling you and admit ever thing, every position, every stroke, every nipple pinch, how she let me shave her, how she let me probe her but(does she have a nice butt?)... bro i will help you out any way i can because i love you some much... lol

yes she is pretty decent looking lol. thanks for the offer of help but i think im going to go in another direction lol

**MMArmour** · 09-10-2009, 11:30 PM

hahaha nice team work there!

**amcon** · 09-10-2009, 11:50 PM

well bro just know im here for both you and her

**MMArmour** · 09-11-2009, 12:15 AM

ya dude. uve lost your trust for her already. dont lose your pride too when you find out shes been making you look like an asshole on the phone YOU BOUGHT HER

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