Help me score the girl!

**feeldapump89** · 10-06-2009, 08:11 PM

Well I dont know how to approach this girl at the gym without creeping her out hah. I havent seen a girl ive been interested in at the gym until recently. Shes been there on the treadmill and other cardio machines for various days and just recently has ventured over to the weights. She is very pretty, fit, and appears to be close to my age. I need your guys help with what I should say. Ill look over at her and shes looking at me vice versa so there must be some sort of attraction between us. I was thinking of waiting till she did something improper and correct her, introduce my self etc... What do you guys think? I know there are some players out there so guide me to success!! All input is greatly appreciated and welcome.

**higherdesire** · 10-06-2009, 08:29 PM

approach her off the treadmill and just say hey slow down you're making me look bad! and laugh. Give her a chance to react. Say well I just wanted to introduce myself, I am ----What is your name? And stick your hand out. Nothing goofy just straight hand shake and real conversation. Dont try to eat the apple all in one bite on the first meeting. Dont ask for number or coffee or date or anything. Keep it easy and light. You be the one to say hate to run but I need to get back on it. Next time you see her more of the same, hey whats going on? What are you working today? Yeah I am ready to rip it up too!

Baste it over a few times then let it develop form there. You will get the number or a date within a few days or weeks. I am assuming your interest is not just superficial? Good luck bro

**gixxerboy1** · 10-06-2009, 09:16 PM

i would not correct her. Especially is fit and thinks she knows what she is doing. Not a good way to make an introduction.

**feeldapump89** · 10-06-2009, 09:19 PM

Originally Posted by gixxerboy1

i would not correct her. Especially is fit and thinks she knows what she is doing. Not a good way to make an introduction.

Yea I was thinking she may take it the wrong way thanks for the advice i definitively wont go that route.

**feeldapump89** · 10-06-2009, 09:21 PM

Originally Posted by higherdesire

approach her off the treadmill and just say hey slow down you're making me look bad! and laugh. Give her a chance to react. Say well I just wanted to introduce myself, I am ----What is your name? And stick your hand out. Nothing goofy just straight hand shake and real conversation. Dont try to eat the apple all in one bite on the first meeting. Dont ask for number or coffee or date or anything. Keep it easy and light. You be the one to say hate to run but I need to get back on it. Next time you see her more of the same, hey whats going on? What are you working today? Yeah I am ready to rip it up too!

Baste it over a few times then let it develop form there. You will get the number or a date within a few days or weeks. I am assuming your interest is not just superficial? Good luck bro

Solid advice thanks alot. That is a awesome line "Slow down your making me look bad". Well if shes there tomorrow ill give it a shot and let you guys no how it goes.

**higherdesire** · 10-06-2009, 09:25 PM

I have always had good luck complimenting them because I KNOW they have seen me in there busting my ass, not talking to anyone, and so it means something to them. They ALWAYS ask me a question or make convo about my work outs or shape

**feeldapump89** · 10-06-2009, 09:33 PM

Originally Posted by higherdesire

I have always had good luck complimenting them because I KNOW they have seen me in there busting my ass, not talking to anyone, and so it means something to them. They ALWAYS ask me a question or make convo about my work outs or shape

Well I do bust my ass In there and I hope I have made it apparent enough. Wish me luck bro and thanks again.

**CBGB** · 10-06-2009, 09:46 PM

hmmmm. Swipe her Ipod and then find it for her the next day. At least you'll know what kind of music she's into.

lmao

**higherdesire** · 10-06-2009, 09:49 PM

no luck needed youre a killer son.

**stack_it** · 10-06-2009, 11:09 PM

If that doesn't work pm abominator. He has some pretty slick ways of pickin up chics

**Immortal Soldier** · 10-06-2009, 11:31 PM

LOL I thought you were gay...

**jbm** · 10-07-2009, 12:38 AM

Abominator is the man here!

**jbm** · 10-07-2009, 01:50 AM

**Friend** · 10-07-2009, 02:31 AM

**diamond** · 10-07-2009, 05:39 AM

guys usually say hi for a good month to me b4 they actually say anything lol. one guy's like hey i dnt think i kno ur name..
another guy said ' i c u here all the time, ur doin really well, u look good'

as long as ur polite ur in the clear

just b polite and charmin!

**ranging1** · 10-07-2009, 05:47 AM

i agree with jbm

ask the abdominator, he will find a solution

no matter how disturbing, he will find a way

**lovbyts** · 10-07-2009, 07:22 AM

get her drunk or slip her a Rufe (spelling) Ambien works good also

**elpropiotorvic** · 10-07-2009, 07:34 AM

If none of the above works ask ruhlfreak I take my hat before him... But yeh highers approach is good to go IMO

**zimmy** · 10-07-2009, 08:01 AM

Just do like me...look at em and hit on them in your mind and then chicken out ...wait...that never does anything for me :P

**diamond** · 10-07-2009, 08:27 AM

juist be really nice.. check her out but not in the i wanna fuk u kinda way..lol thats jus creepy if shes not feeling it... just big nice smile when shes around. then lil convos.. pop in hey lets grab a coffee sumtime this week. casual, not over obsessing and its sweet. girls love guys that are sweet

... and whitty

**redz** · 10-07-2009, 08:34 AM

Ask her if she wants to go on a carribean vacation with you. I tried this once and it didnt work suprisingly. Instead I just bought her dinner then banged her and was done with it.

**Dancer** · 10-07-2009, 08:43 AM

ONLY THING THATS EVER WORKED:

Just take a water bottle and leave it in her cardio water holder.

All the other shit like walk up when she is doing something wrong will make you look arrrrrroooogant...

Saying Hi just makes you look like another fag thats been there and done that.

**Dancer** · 10-07-2009, 08:44 AM

Originally Posted by diamond

juist be really nice.. check her out but not in the i wanna fuk u kinda way..lol thats jus creepy if shes not feeling it... just big nice smile when shes around. then lil convos.. pop in hey lets grab a coffee sumtime this week. casual, not over obsessing and its sweet. girls love guys that are sweet

... and whitty

After she starts talking to you cause she wants to thank you for the water...

**feeldapump89** · 10-07-2009, 08:49 PM

Well she wasnt there today... All great feedback and thanks Diamond for the girl perspective. Lets just hope she doesnt have a boyfriend.

**higherdesire** · 10-07-2009, 09:11 PM

boyfriend? As long as she isnt engaged or married you need to test the waters. You thought enough about it to start this thread, dont get side tracked by a boyfriend. Shit for all you know she does and he isnt good to her. Im just saying bro, press on. Dont go in there ready to run if she says that.

**feeldapump89** · 10-07-2009, 09:36 PM

Oh i wouldnt back out im just saying its will just make things a little harder thats all.

**DSM4Life** · 10-07-2009, 09:38 PM

You :" i see you like to do cardio ?"
Her: Yeah
You: wanna so some cardio on my lap naked ?
Her: Marry me

**feeldapump89** · 10-07-2009, 09:49 PM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

You :" i see you like to do cardio ?"
Her: Yeah
You: wanna so some cardio on my lap naked ?
Her: Marry me

Ill give it a shot! Now ideas like these have got you to where you are at today

lol

**stack_it** · 10-07-2009, 10:38 PM

Originally Posted by diamond

juist be really nice.. check her out but not in the i wanna fuk u kinda way..lol thats jus creepy if shes not feeling it... just big nice smile when shes around. then lil convos.. pop in hey lets grab a coffee sumtime this week. casual, not over obsessing and its sweet. girls love guys that are sweet

... and whitty

I agree except for the nice part. Most girls like assholes and only talk about being with a nice guy.

**lovbyts** · 10-07-2009, 11:26 PM

Ahh come on, everyone skipped my reply and how I do it....

Rufes, ambien, some form of date rape drug or you can just do it cave man style and hit her over the head and drag her home.....

**stack_it** · 10-07-2009, 11:38 PM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

Ahh come on, everyone skipped my reply and how I do it....

Rufes, ambien, some form of date rape drug or you can just do it cave man style and hit her over the head and drag her home.....

now that you've mentioned a club to the head you have my attention

**thai-lan** · 10-08-2009, 12:23 AM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

Ahh come on, everyone skipped my reply and how I do it....

Rufes, ambien, some form of date rape drug or you can just do it cave man style and hit her over the head and drag her home.....

hahah exactly right !!! one way or another she is going to put out !!!

**Immortal Soldier** · 10-08-2009, 12:30 AM

Originally Posted by diamond

juist be really nice.. check her out but not in the i wanna fuk u kinda way..lol thats jus creepy if shes not feeling it... just big nice smile when shes around. then lil convos.. pop in hey lets grab a coffee sumtime this week. casual, not over obsessing and its sweet. girls love guys that are sweet

... and whitty

Ahh I remember the first time I hit on diamond, I took a cupcake and tied a string on it and put it in front of her cardio machine, little did I know she was going to eat the cupcake and follow the string and bite off my hand as well.

**diamond** · 10-08-2009, 06:07 AM

Originally Posted by Immortal Soldier

Ahh I remember the first time I hit on diamond, I took a cupcake and tied a string on it and put it in front of her cardio machine, little did I know she was going to eat the cupcake and follow the string and bite off my hand as well.

lmao.. omg

**diamond** · 10-08-2009, 06:20 AM

like i said, u gotta be nice, but not too nice. girls dont like asses.. they just choose assholes over the overly nice guys. but girls really want that balance.. and im being really honest and straight forward right now. girls actually dnt like jerks, but we settle bcoz being with sum1 thats too nice is worse. but we like the balance. u gotta know how to be nice, but still act like a man. u have to seem nice and interested but not in a pathetic kinda way. i've dated LOTS of guys and i tried both ends.. and its really hard to find a guy that can be nice, independent and seem 'macho' i guess...

like 1 thing i love about my bf... ok most of the time he listens to me, but he makes it clear that everything is his decision in the end. but he can be the nicest guy in the world and sumtimes he jokes around and he's such an ass, but its in a funny charming kinda way...
he's the part i like most. sumtimes yes he has his jokes.. and when he goes too far and actually hurts my feelings, he apologizes. that right there.. i think about all the time, a real man can admitt that maybe he made a mistake and 'im sry that was stupid' and see thats the balance... u can be an ass, but if u go too far you should at least try to be nice.

i've dated guys that were too nice and they apologize for every lil thing and that gets annoying and shows that ur desperate.

balance is wat women really want...

**Bojangles69** · 10-08-2009, 06:32 AM

I gotta stop posting when I'm in a rush, I'll type this crap out later so people understand the proper way to do it..

**diamond** · 10-08-2009, 06:40 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

If she has a bf run the "bf destroyer".

I goes something like this:

U "Hey baby"
H "ohh sorry loser I have a bf"

U "oh thats cool, he must be a real 'nice guy'" (girls have this thing that makes them squirm inside when they hear 'nice guy')
H "uh, yeh hes great does everything in the world for me"
U "awesome, he must buy you flowers all the time, jewelry, pocketbooks.. w/e you want"

H "uh, yeh.. hes great"
U "yeh.. I could imagine"
U "I don't buy things for girls.. I'd always be afraid I was paying for their time or something.. but you're bf must be really confident in himself to do that".

H "ok end the shit, hes a fvckn tool I get it, heres my number.."

lol Im in a rush right now but the idea is
You must talk the bf up, and KEEP talking him up. Theres always a point where the girls rationale starts to move in the opposite direction. Like if you bash on him she winds up realizing all the good things about him.
If you talk him up she realizes what a pos he is.

You do this just long enough to fly under the radar and get the digits. And if you come off needy at all you will scare her way fast. Women in relationships NEED discretion. They'll almost fvck anything if they know discretion is there.

Then the second time you meet, everytime the bf comes up you ignore that thread and change the subject. Ideally after you get the number the bf no longer exists. And if she mentions him always just change the subject.
She'll do it out of guilt,(mention him) then blame YOU for manipulating her (if you MENTION IT). If you do not acknowledge her predicament then she can't blame you for maniplating her, and then she'll most likely keep going on with all the "harmless, innocent" stuff still your cocks in her ass.

At which point is usually the only time they should realize they're cheating, not before.

Just remember for girls in relationships the sex should always look liked it happened by "accident".
Like "omg she just went into my room to get my backpack and I don't know what happened.. her mouth was around my dick"

lol that doesnt wrk.. when ppl talk to me about my bf and say how nice he is.. i just wanna c him even more at the end of the day...

**Bojangles69** · 10-08-2009, 06:44 AM

Originally Posted by diamond

lol that doesnt wrk.. when ppl talk to me about my bf and say how nice he is.. i just wanna c him even more at the end of the day...

I edited it 2 secs after I wrote it cause I knew youd say that.

Theres more to it then the dialouge that I don't have time to explain. When I get home from classes I'll actually take the time to write it out properly. But it works great when done the right way, thats just not the right way lol

**diamond** · 10-08-2009, 06:46 AM

lmao.. ok i wanna hear the rest of this story

it does seem funny..

***El Diablo*** · 10-08-2009, 06:51 AM

Originally Posted by diamond

like i said, u gotta be nice, but not too nice. girls dont like asses.. they just choose assholes over the overly nice guys. but girls really want that balance.. and im being really honest and straight forward right now. girls actually dnt like jerks, but we settle bcoz being with sum1 thats too nice is worse. but we like the balance. u gotta know how to be nice, but still act like a man. u have to seem nice and interested but not in a pathetic kinda way. i've dated LOTS of guys and i tried both ends.. and its really hard to find a guy that can be nice, independent and seem 'macho' i guess...

like 1 thing i love about my bf... ok most of the time he listens to me, but he makes it clear that everything is his decision in the end. but he can be the nicest guy in the world and sumtimes he jokes around and he's such an ass, but its in a funny charming kinda way...
he's the part i like most. sumtimes yes he has his jokes.. and when he goes too far and actually hurts my feelings, he apologizes. that right there.. i think about all the time, a real man can admitt that maybe he made a mistake and 'im sry that was stupid' and see thats the balance... u can be an ass, but if u go too far you should at least try to be nice.

i've dated guys that were too nice and they apologize for every lil thing and that gets annoying and shows that ur desperate.

balance is wat women really want...

Helloo.... lmfao!..

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