ok im going to try to make this as simple and short as possible.
Me: Brought up in a good family that works hard and has money, brought up in a "wealthier" area than where most average people grow up. Use to be fat up until i was 18 so my confidence at times will be like a roller coaster but i know im a good looking guy (so iv been told many times), obviously workout (lol), basically i have everything going for me when i get out of school.
Friend: Short, very very skinny (125 pounds), very self conscious and always cares what people think about him so always puts on an act..even in front of friends. He is a hard worker at school. Very good at talking and manipulating as iv seen him do it to people. He hates that im so dedicated to working out and tries to convince me to stop..Last but not least he gets more girls than i do (quality is always low, just talking quantity).
anyways thought you guys needed to know the background info, anyways forward with the story.
There was this girl i still bang, shes not good looking by any means and doesnt have a good body ( i know, i know lol) but she would always be my backup whenever i needed some and had no one else. my friend would always make fun of me and always bring her up and just have a field day over me getting with her....I then find out that the whole time he was trying to hook up with her, and hanging out with her. She has always gave me hints and stuff that i should know something about my friend but would never tell me, i could never put a finger on it though. anyways awhile back i kept hearing this sound buzz at like 5am when i was going to the bathroom and it ended up being my friends phone, i looked at it and what do you know it was that girl texting him. obviously i looked at the text and it was basically him talking dirty to her. You would think i would be mad right? i thought it was the funniest thing in the world cause this guy would always non stop be making fun of me about her all the time, that with other things like how he gets more girls and how everything he has is so much better than mine..ect
anyways i wanted to see if he would come clean so i made up some story like her drunk friend told me something about them, and then saw he was speechless at first, then 5 min. later he comes back with all of these excuses. then comes at me with the, "man thats messed up you don't believe your friend over some hoe"
anyways couple weeks later like always he was trying to chip away at my self esteem and i snapped and punched a huge hole in the wall (wasent on a cycle i swear lol! ). since then we haven't talked even though the day after i was a man and said it was wrong of me to punch a hole in the wall and thought everything would go back to normal. He then would ignore me so i said to myself F*** it and just stopped caring.
anyways after all this i dont want to be his friend but i want to confront him about this girl situation and how pathetic it was on his part, because the girl told me everything very recently, and apparently he would even talk shit about me to this girl to make me look bad, i know this girl is bad news..i kind of knew it from the get go but shes just a hook up. she showed me some texts he sent about him talking shit, and the there was a recent text he sent her about how he wanted to be friends with me again and how she should talk to me about him.
What should i do? As i stated i dont want to be friends with him anymore and he is one of my roommates so im living with the guy so beating his ass isnt really an option, but i mean its one of my only pet peeves when a man cant be a man and come forward