Relationship prefernce: Single or In a Relationship?

[J-Dogg]

I feel like most of us here on these boards maybe strive for a little more than your ordinary guys.

Was wondering how relationships work into your goals.

I would not pass up a "keeper" but am finding being single, i tend to be a lot more ambitious, and strive for a lot more.

Being in a relationship, I get semi-comfortable and just relax. I'm not the type that really likes that, or the idea of it....almost giving up.

I'm going to assume most of you guys are similar in a way to me, that you push yourself pretty hard on everything, competitive and expect a lot of yourselves.

For now, being single is certainly helping me accomplish more.

[vanduhl]

I feel like most of us here on these boards maybe strive for a little more than your ordinary guys.

Was wondering how relationships work into your goals.

I would not pass up a "keeper" but am finding being single, i tend to be a lot more ambitious, and strive for a lot more.

Being in a relationship, I get semi-comfortable and just relax. I'm not the type that really likes that, or the idea of it....almost giving up.

I'm going to assume most of you guys are similar in a way to me, that you push yourself pretty hard on everything, competitive and expect a lot of yourselves.

For now, being single is certainly helping me accomplish more.

I just recently got into a relationship (2 weeks) and i told my brother about it.
His reply was "youve got enough to worry about within yourself, now you gotta worry about two people."

That really made me second guess. Also i planned on staying single but this girl is a 'keeper'

She comes from a wealthy family and she is very 'high class' for lack of a better term.

My friends keep askin me how the fukk i landed that, and i just smile and reply with "i dont know"
I love being single, there is honestly nothing like it. But i find that i have crazier sex, higher highs and more happiness when i am with someone that i feel is worth it.

[J-Dogg]

I just recently got into a relationship (2 weeks) and i told my brother about it.
His reply was "youve got enough to worry about within yourself, now you gotta worry about two people."

That really made me second guess. Also i planned on staying single but this girl is a 'keeper'

She comes from a wealthy family and she is very 'high class' for lack of a better term.

My friends keep askin me how the fukk i landed that, and i just smile and reply with "i dont know"
I love being single, there is honestly nothing like it. But i find that i have crazier sex, higher highs and more happiness when i am with someone that i feel is worth it.

Glad to hear bro, don't pass up a keeper for the sake of living the single life.

I just find the chase and the striving for more is the most exciting part of this.

I might be too hard on myself, but I always want more/better. I like that i'm that way though, while everyone else falls apart.

I think it just comes down to a preference, but I feel a lot of people get into relationships, married with kids because their friends do, and they feel it's the right thing to do.

[vanduhl]

Glad to hear bro, don't pass up a keeper for the sake of living the single life.

I just find the chase and the striving for more is the most exciting part of this.

I might be too hard on myself, but I always want more/better. I like that i'm that way though, while everyone else falls apart.

I think it just comes down to a preference, but I feel a lot of people get into relationships, married with kids because their friends do, and they feel it's the right thing to do.

I hear you. Honestly, getting strange ass has its perks and theres nothin like walkin into a bar/club knowin its a candy store. But sometimes its human to want that closeness. Thats just the way im feelin right now i guess.

As an aside, my dad recently got sick and it was weird to me that this girl happened to come into my life on the same week that my dad got his diagnosis. I am a "everything happnens for a reason" type of guy, and that just floored me. I think there is a reason as to why she came into my life then. I need someone to help me through this cause my dad is my best friend ever, hands down.

[boxa06]

I like being in a relationship because it keeps me on track with training, job, finance and alot more. When I was single I'd go out and party which would impact training and my cash flow. It's so much fun but there is alot of fun to have in a good relationship. It's also important to find someone that suits you and your lifestyle. My girl trains with me, eats healthy, works hard and we have the same ambitions in life.
So to answer the question single or in a relationship I prefer relationship as long as it's with 'keeper'.

[NVR2BIG1]

I like being married. Sure, there are times it gets old but for me it took having someone I loved to want to better my own situation. And now I have a son, so there is no more try I just do because I want to give the people I love the best that I can. I have been married for 4 yrs now, together for 7. My son just turned 1 yr old and it feels like he was born yesterday. The difference to me between being single and married is 1 thing, average everyday moments vs. rich moments and the moments I had with random bitches just never compared to the ones with my wife and kid

[gym_junki]

I'm single now was in a relationship but broke it off simply because I just wanted to be single and free but I was good having a gf she usd to train wif me eat healthy she used to even give me my shots. Now that I'm single iv slacked off a little.

[Older lifter]

Well at 45 and still single i guess you know my way of thinking, no regrets at all......

[goodlifting]

I feel like most of us here on these boards maybe strive for a little more than your ordinary guys.

Was wondering how relationships work into your goals.

I would not pass up a "keeper" but am finding being single, i tend to be a lot more ambitious, and strive for a lot more.

Being in a relationship, I get semi-comfortable and just relax. I'm not the type that really likes that, or the idea of it....almost giving up.

I'm going to assume most of you guys are similar in a way to me, that you push yourself pretty hard on everything, competitive and expect a lot of yourselves.

For now, being single is certainly helping me accomplish more.

there definitely needs to be a balance. in the world of weightlifting and dieting while trying to punch in at work and finish school, it takes alot out of a dude. i sure do accomplish alot when im single but when i meet a nice chick that i can relax with, it really recharges my batteries. but it still is most important to keep your goals in mind.

[DSM4Life]

Relationship. I need someone to laugh with, cry with and grow old with.

[terraj]

My marriage gives me drive and focus in all aspects of my life.

[Hoggage_54]

25 and single

[DSM4Life]

25 and single

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[bjpennnn]

in a way having a girl is nice because it lets you focus on other aspects of your life instead of chasing ass.

both have there ups and downs.

[C-MaN]

Both at the same time...... I'm a whore

[lovbyts]

Both at the same time...... I'm a whore

Same same, why settle of only one scenario when you can have both

[NotSmall]

Whichever I'm not at the time.

[Friend]

Relationship. I need someone to laugh with, cry with and grow old with.

So gay

[dangerous dan]

the only thing relo's do 4 me is save me money, bar that its pointless

[adzy]

I like being in a relationship because it keeps me on track with training, job, finance and alot more.

Bro the only girls I get rape my wallet

[Matt]

Another relationship thread.......

Fvck me arnt we supposed to be grown men who share an interest in bbing or are we just a bunch of little girls...

[Bossman]

married 27 years, preference....single

[dangerous dan]

Another relationship thread.......

Fvck me arnt we supposed to be grown men who share an interest in bbing or are we just a bunch of little girls...

Agreed, as stated erlia in the whore house

[boxa06]

Bro the only girls I get rape my wallet

they're the wrong girls bro!

[DSM4Life]

married 27 years, preference....single

So your saying that your wife of 27 yrs in someway or another disappoints you?

[FranciscoG]

Single,

Divorced and been basically single for the last year. I have had many hit and runs. I have also (in the last year) been with many great looking intelligent women.

Last night I went out with this great looking, fantastic toned runner, 37 year-old. She is from a great family and so on. Although we talked for hours and it seamed very interesting I would keep her at ¨arm´s lenght¨ and not get to close.

Pros of relationships:

1) Have a girl consistantly
2) Stability
3) feeling of family
4) start a family
there are many more

Pros of being single:

1) You are accountantable only to yourself
2) You can explore more (Although my ex did support me what I did, I still felt like I had to answer to someone)
3) There is no feeling of confirtable, Stay in better physical shape
4) No kids in the plan. Personally I do not like children

I feel like I just get to do more single.

Everyone add to the lists.

[calgarian]

Another relationship thread.......

Fvck me arnt we supposed to be grown men who share an interest in bbing or are we just a bunch of little girls...

side effects of test...if they aint milking doesn't necessary means that they arent high

[Bossman]

So your saying that your wife of 27 yrs in someway or another disappoints you?

LOL, you picked up on that....

[calgarian]

Bro the only girls I get rape my wallet

dont go after whores.....go after sluts......

[Stigmata101]

Single is defineately the answer here...I make this clear to all the women I'm with.



Married 5 years.

[DSM4Life]

LOL, you picked up on that....

[LatissimusaurousRex]

I'm single so I get to what I want all day and then I cry myself to sleep at night

[calgarian]

I'm single so I get to what I want all day and then I cry myself to sleep at night

let me guess test P

[DSM4Life]

I'm single so I get to what I want all day and then I cry myself to sleep at night

You can sleep over here and "eat da poo poo."

[LatissimusaurousRex]

let me guess test P

lol no, just naturally act like a woman

You can sleep over here and "eat da poo poo."

sure ill bring the drugs we have to take to withstand our extreme fisting sessions

[vanduhl]

lol no, just naturally act like a woman



sure ill bring the drugs we have to take to withstand our extreme fisting sessions

as long as i get to say when to open your hand while inside.....then ill eat it like ice cream

[Hazard]

Single for sure......

Married 3 years almost.....

~Haz~

[calgarian]

Single for sure......

Married 3 years almost.....

~Haz~

talk to me when its 12

[ghettoboyd]

I like being married. Sure, there are times it gets old but for me it took having someone I loved to want to better my own situation. And now I have a son, so there is no more try I just do because I want to give the people I love the best that I can. I have been married for 4 yrs now, together for 7. My son just turned 1 yr old and it feels like he was born yesterday. The difference to me between being single and married is 1 thing, average everyday moments vs. rich moments and the moments I had with random bitches just never compared to the ones with my wife and kid

im with you bro i love being married and knowing i have someone i can trust that has my back right or wrong....i have a 9 yr old thats the love of my life and the good times we have as a family never gets old...not to mention i feel the sex is so much better than any one night stand that ive ever had.....plus being able to always **** without a condome and nut off inside my wife without worry is fricking amazing to say the least....been with her for the best 17yrs of my life.....

[vanduhl]

im with you bro i love being married and knowing i have someone i can trust that has my back right or wrong....i have a 9 yr old thats the love of my life and the good times we have as a family never gets old...not to mention i feel the sex is so much better than any one night stand that ive ever had.....plus being able to always **** without a condome and nut off inside my wife without worry is fricking amazing to say the least....been with her for the best 17yrs of my life.....

im a younger dude, but damn that life sounds good haha!