Anabolic Member
When it comes to dating, how much % do you give to looks and how much % do you give to his or her character or personality?
I have to say....
60% Personality
40% Looks
...She has to be some what attractive or cute for me to date. At the same time, I could never date a royal fvcking bitch with a terrible attitude.
I am curious to see others thoughts.
Knowledgeable Member
This is a bad time to ask me this question because the girl im trying to get on is a 100% in both categories.
I would say a 5 is the lowest that I would go in thinking I could wifey it, so thats probably like 50% it converts over to.. i dunno. Looks aren't everything, but its like my friend says, if you aren't ****in then you're just friends, and if you aren't attracted then you probably aren't gonna bone. Birds of a feather tend to flock together; beautiful people with each other, People who are not particularly attractive need to find someone who is similar to themselves or do something about their appearance.
Supplement Guru
depends on how shallow the people are that you question
obviously looks play a part and no one wants a 'beater' but as long as the person you are trying to get is average in looks but has an awesome personality the relationship is going to be a million times better
versus a crazy attractive person that brings as much to the table as a ****in bag of rocks
Snook~ AR Lounge Monitor
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depends if its just a 1 off i would go 100% looks and 0% brains lolOriginally Posted by ******
Junior Member
Hold out for both! They are out there and if I found one with both, anybody can!
BTW my wife was 22 when I met her, I was 29. She is now 29 with three kids and looks like she has never had one. 5'10" very lean with a killer body and wonderful personality (most of the time).
Senior Member
Id say 50% 50%. Both are very important. If ones lacking then id rather be alone.
Knowledgeable Member
i like fat ugly girls with horrible attitudes...
AR's Italian Tonic
Personality can add to ones attractiveness over time, IMO...
ANALbolically inclined "Protein user"
X2...and u dont fall in love with the looks you fall in love with personality.....u fvck looks...IMO
"Even sexier than Siggy"
tough call... you dont notice a personality from across the room. But if you are sitting with a group of people, your first instant is to check out the assets of the people around you and you make your first impressions that way. After the conversation starts, you can unintentionally be drawn towards a person who at first didnt have the visual features but has a great attitude/personality... and the real kicker is when you finally see them smile or laugh, this can seal the deal right there.
Snook~ AR Lounge Monitor
Its all the same.
Looks bring you in , personality seals the deal.
Female Member
very true.
it all depends with me.. sum guys are very attractive and get my attention just coz of that.. but dont last long. sum guys are ok.. and their personality makes me think they are hot...i kno sum guys i date are not good looking .. but i still think they are sexy as hell bcoz i love their personality.
Member
agreed
ANALbolically inclined "Protein user"
I sent u this picture in confidence.......
Member
i guess my natural preference to be about 80% looks.
I'm the most down to earth guy with everything except choice in women. I look for the one who turns me on and then "try" to make her fit into other areas.
It's always different in the beginning, though. But that's an entirely different story.
Member
Care to show a pic or two.
Junior Member
Not sure about forum rules on that, if it's cool I will...
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post em!
(just no nudes)
Junior Member
I will have to move a couple off my phone, will do when I get back from the gym.....
Anabolic Member
at first, looks are important....it's the initial animal attraction.
but if you start to talk to them and get to know them, and they are a total asshole.....no matter how good they look, it ruins it completely.
at first:
looks: 60-70%
personality - 30-40%
then that changes after...if they are a great person, even if they gain some weight - then it doesnt matter, etc.
Associate Member
hmmm... as long as they have pretty blue eyes and arent fugly then if they have an awesome personality I like them the most. Super hot girls are a pain in the ass most of the time lol
Junior Member
Please remember this is after three kids and it's my wife, so be nice please!
Senior Member
.....dude.........i wana fukk your wife....................no offense
Junior Member
none taken, she's hot, that's why I married her...............oh yeah, she has a great personality as well
"Even sexier than Siggy"
she's had 3 kids and still has abs!?!?!.. bro, good catch. Congrats.
Is that Your GN?
Junior Member
The crazy part about her is she has done nothing since the last pregnancy (1 yr next month). I mean nothing, no gym, no treadmaster, no lifting. She eats good and runs after the kids. Also, she really took care of herself during the pregnancies, lotions and such. She recently said she couldn't keep coasting on genetics so she wants me to add her to my gym membership. oh yeah, that pic was taken a few weeks ago.
Yeah, that's my GN. Just got it up and running again. Haven't played much with it this season, but plan to make a few races in nov and feb. It's just a little six cylinder
"Even sexier than Siggy"
yes, those who know what the T-types are, do not mess with them often.The crazy part about her is she has done nothing since the last pregnancy (1 yr next month). I mean nothing, no gym, no treadmaster, no lifting. She eats good and runs after the kids. Also, she really took care of herself during the pregnancies, lotions and such. She recently said she couldn't keep coasting on genetics so she wants me to add her to my gym membership. oh yeah, that pic was taken a few weeks ago.
Yeah, that's my GN. Just got it up and running again. Haven't played much with it this season, but plan to make a few races in nov and feb. It's just a little six cylinder
Knowledgeable Member
How many guys are initially attracted to a girl for their personality? Yeah I didnt think so. Maybe if you went to school, worked with or grew up with her but not on meeting her somewhere.
I say looks first 60%+ but the personality can defiantly enhance her looks.
Senior Member
Honestly....you can have both. Bits rare...but you really can. Aside from those rare situations id guess its a 50/50 split for me. She can be only a 7 and if her personality is incredible then it makes her a 10.
Senior Member
Looks will always diminish over time a bit but the personality will always be there which is important. A good personality can add points into the looks department and remember you are possibly going to be together for the rest of your life. Do you want someone who is super hot 9 on the scale of 10 but a complete mess of a personality or someone who is a 6.5-7 on the scale of 10 but with a killer personality. I take personality!
Junior Member
Again, both! If you settle for less that's your choice, but not one I was willing to make. Why compromise what YOU want out of life, remember you only get one chance at this thing...
Dulce bellum inexpertis
60/40
Knowledgeable Member
100% agree. A ruby red apple might look nice but you're gonna be spitting it out in a hurry if it has a rotten core.
"Even sexier than Siggy"
Well, Cal's really ugly, but he's cool to hang around with so we can be friends.
AR's Whore D'Oeuvre
I married for what I thought was killer looks and personality.
What I got in the end was a hot psycho nutjob, whose best asset is store bought, and she was just as fake as they were.
Knowledgeable Member
This is the perfect answer x2
ANALbolically inclined "Protein user"
wonder why the fvck my ears were burning....
"Even sexier than Siggy"
your ears have the clap
Junior Member
Well, she decided to start back at the gym today. If you want your lady to take care of herself, it pays to lead by example!!!
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