Marriage question

[cherrydrpepper]

I'm just curious for the people who have been married how you knew she would be the one. I'm not trying to open any wounds I mean half of all marriages end in divorce. I'm asking because even though its too early to tell I could see this girl and I getting married eventually so I just want as much information as possible.

[cherrydrpepper]

PS can we keep the face palms to a minimum.. you a holes lol

[Ernst]

[big_ron]

I'm guessing when they bug you enough or it and u give in and 'settle'

[Atomini]

You will not be saying this several months from now.

[Hoggage_54]

[Hoggage_54]

For the record had my second date with her and I really like her..

Are you talking about this girl???? Because that would call for more facepalms

[V8Assassin]

I knew on the first date with my wife. There was no mystery to it at all. I told her that night that if we dated for any length of time we would get married. I know it sounds cliche, but when it's right it's right. It was the total package...body, personality, face, attitude, sense of humor, and an inate ability to put up with me. The only thing I would change about my wife would be finding the long lost rich uncle who recently passed away!


btw: I had been divorced once already and knew what I did not want....

[DSM4Life]

You said her pu$$y stinks and yet you still have marriage on the brain

[ReX357]

Buddy, you're f*cked.

[D7M]

You said her pu$$y stinks and yet you still have marriage on the brain

[Atomini]

How old are you anyways? This sounds like your typical inexperienced naiive 19 year old infatuated dreamy-eyed person.

[stack_it]

Never go to Vegas cdp. You'll come back married to a tranny or a hooker



I thought I was with the girl I was gonna marry for years and it didn't happen. The reason a lot of marriages fail is because people are getting married six months after meeting eachother.

[cherrydrpepper]

Are you talking about this girl???? Because that would call for more facepalms

same girl but read reply to dsm

You said her pu$$y stinks and yet you still have marriage on the brain

I haven't even gotten my hand close to her snatch.. she's a good girl

Buddy, you're f*cked.

Thanks for the vote of confidence

How old are you anyways? This sounds like your typical inexperienced naiive 19 year old infatuated dreamy-eyed person.

I'm 29.. ive had sex with 7 people.. uh.. I dunno I was never good with women until recently. Recently im really good with women in my opinion even better than some of my rediculously good looking friends. I'm just worried I'll fk this thing up with this girl and end up with some girl whos good looking but a fkn bitch.. waste the next 15 years of my life with her.. etc etc. I'm really attracted to this girl cause she's good looking but shes a dork which is how I see myself. Like I asked her what she did yesterday she was like "I played guitar hero with my friends" lol

Never go to Vegas cdp. You'll come back married to a tranny or a hooker



I thought I was with the girl I was gonna marry for years and it didn't happen. The reason a lot of marriages fail is because people are getting married six months after meeting eachother.

lol stack it

Thanks man you are right its only the 2nd date.. We're both 29 so its the right age in some ways. Regardless i personally would want to be with someone a couple of years before marriage thats just me. I dated someone for 6 years and towards the end it was just horrid... not much sex not much conversation just there together ..

[zimmy]

I had a crush on my wife for YEARS before we went out (my sister's best friend)

But I knew she was the one the first time I talked to her and didn't feel the need to act cool.

[stack_it]

Also remember not to try too hard or act like you're worried you're going to fvck things up or worried she'll leave you. That changes the person you are around her and it's a turn off to women. It comes across as clingy and over protective.

[stack_it]

Me and calgarian need our own radio show. We could have special guest speakers like haz and dsm. Cdp you could be our number one caller.

[Stigmata101]

so cdp was your thread about water just in case this chick has a smelly pu$$y.....I'm confused. who has the smelly vagine?


your threads are the best

[zimmy]

I so would listen to that show!

[cherrydrpepper]

I had a crush on my wife for YEARS before we went out (my sister's best friend)

But I knew she was the one the first time I talked to her and didn't feel the need to act cool.

Thats great.. kind of gives me perspective

Me and calgarian need our own radio show. We could have special guest speakers like haz and dsm. Cdp you could be our number one caller.

heck yeah

Also remember not to try too hard or act like you're worried you're going to fvck things up or worried she'll leave you. That changes the person you are around her and it's a turn off to women. It comes across as clingy and over protective.

Yeah I told her yesterday after she said she hung out with a guy friend "I'm not the jealous type" and she goes "oh no no he is my friends boyfriend" lol

so cdp was your thread about water just in case this chick has a smelly pu$$y.....I'm confused. who has the smelly vagine?

I've never even put my hand on her vagina I just want to know the solution in case theres a problem. Two girls back the girl really smelled bad.. it was.. not like water. I like this girl enough to def give oral

your threads are the best

About time somebody said it

BOOMSHAKALAKAAAAAAAA IN YOUR FACE AR LOUNGE

[Dont wanna be old]

[cherrydrpepper]

lol Dont wanna be old i guess thats one solution

[Stigmata101]

[HitIt]

try to live with said person at least a few months before you think of marriage because in that time you can learn some sh!t (maybe some ****ed up or annoying, childish behavior) about a person that may make you want to kill them....

[ReX357]

Kills HIV in 30 seconds.

[numbat]

try to live with said person at least three years before you think of marriage because in that time you can learn some sh!t (maybe some ****ed up or annoying, childish behavior) about a person that may make you want to kill them....

fyp.

[HitIt]

fyp.

i won't argue that either

[Atomini]

Cherrydrpepper, don't get married. Ever.

Get married, and your life is over.

[cherrydrpepper]

Cherrydrpepper, don't get married. Ever.

Get married, and your life is over.

I don't understand how you can believe in a God and not get married at some point. Those two concepts aren't in harmony; either you believe and eventually it feels right, or you don't believe.

But I know where you are coming from. You're trying to save me some pain and I respect you for it.

[ReX357]

I'm sure she's gonna think of god when she takes half of your belongings with her.

[Flagg]

CherryDrPepper, don't take this the wrong way, but do you really know what you want out of your life? Like, what are your goals, short and long term?

I only say this because about 3 weeks ago you posted a thread about leaving your best friend to stay with some juicehead you barely knew because "lifting and chasing tail" were the two most rewarding things a man can do.

And now, after a second date with this girl, you are thinking of getting married?

Honestly, don't take this the wrong way but you sound a little confused about what you want out of life. Prehaps you're thinking of marriage because what you are craving is some stability in your life? A constant?

EDIT: What the fvck has believing in God got to do with marriage? Do athiests not get married? Are people incapable of falling in love without the good Lord involved??

[stack_it]

I don't understand how you can believe in a God and not get married at some point. Those two concepts aren't in harmony; either you believe and eventually it feels right, or you don't believe.

But I know where you are coming from. You're trying to save me some pain and I respect you for it.

If god and marriage were still connected then the divorce rate would not be as high as it is. Not getting divorced just because of your religion is a thing of the past and so is getting married just because of it.


Religion has become a crutch not a lifestyle.

[DSM4Life]

[stack_it]

^^^^

[Hazard]

Fvck getting married..... NEVER AGAIN! I've said this a million times.....

If you get married for the first time and it doesn't work..... I'll feel bad for you and understand your pain..... BUT..... if you get married a 2nd time - don't even complain to me - ur a fvckin idiot.....

~Haz~

[Atomini]

I don't understand how you can believe in a God and not get married at some point. Those two concepts aren't in harmony; either you believe and eventually it feels right, or you don't believe.

But I know where you are coming from. You're trying to save me some pain and I respect you for it.

I don't believe in God.

At least not a 'God' in the way that the majority of people on this planet would think of 'him' existing. But that's a discussion for another time.

And this is coming from someone who is a former born again Jewish (yes, I said JEWISH) believer in Jesus. I dropped that crap a year and a half ago after holding on to it for nearly 15 years.

But my opinions on marriage really have nothing to do with my religious/deistic beliefs. Marriage is an outdated obsolete concept in this day and age.

[Hazard]

All these stories and all these men claiming how marriage sucks big balls at low tide and you still think about getting married? IDC if theres one or two guys who say it's great..... they're the exception not the rule.

Let me ask you this..... If you were standing on a cliff with 19 other guys and all of them jumped off the cliff and hit rocks at the bottom except for 2 guys whom landed in water...... would you jump too?

Furthermore..... I find it funny how women change once those vows are said. It's the like the "ring" is a padlock on your life..... she thinks she's got you trapped and her true colors come out.

~Haz~

[ghettoboyd]

wow man there are some really fuked up opinions on marrige in here...marrige can be a great partnership between 2 people whom really love each other and want it to work...if both partys have the same lifes goals in mind and really want it to work it will...if you can find someone that you can truely love and trust and the sex is great i cant think of how life could be any better...i realize i got lucky to find my solemate but we dated and ****ed everyday for 5 years before we got married so we both knew what we where getting fom the start....its not like we rushed into anything...

[ghettoboyd]

All these stories and all these men claiming how marriage sucks big balls at low tide and you still think about getting married? IDC if theres one or two guys who say it's great..... they're the exception not the rule.

Let me ask you this..... If you were standing on a cliff with 19 other guys and all of them jumped off the cliff and hit rocks at the bottom except for 2 guys whom landed in water...... would you jump too?

Furthermore..... I find it funny how women change once those vows are said. It's the like the "ring" is a padlock on your life..... she thinks she's got you trapped and her true colors come out.

~Haz~

i do understand what your saying as most of my friends have had the same experiance, but somewhere the comunication broke down thats when peeps drift apart....to many peeps keeping score and holding grudges insted of comunicating and trying to resolve the underlying issues that cause disscontent...

[Hazard]

wow man there are some really fuked up opinions on marrige in here...marrige can be a great partnership between 2 people whom really love each other and want it to work...if both partys have the same lifes goals in mind and really want it to work it will...if you can find someone that you can truely love and trust and the sex is great i cant think of how life could be any better...i realize i got lucky to find my solemate but we dated and ****ed everyday for 5 years before we got married so we both knew what we where getting fom the start....its not like we rushed into anything...

i do understand what your saying as most of my friends have had the same experiance, but somewhere the comunication broke down thats when peeps drift apart....to many peeps keeping score and holding grudges insted of comunicating and trying to resolve the underlying issues that cause disscontent...

I knew you were going to ruin this thread with your rubbish

haha j/k - i'm glad it's workin for you

My position still stands.....



~Haz~