Anyways my ex and I are still separated. I have filed the papers, waiting on her etc..She came by and we talked the other night, about a lot. She still insists on this is right, which for me logically it absolutely is. But, with love speaking, and our child together and other 2 kids as well involved, I chose to give her the option of trying to work it out. She didn't seem too interested.
I noticed while she was going through her phone, her ex was towards the top of the missed call list, and i lost my cool. This kid looked up to me, probably because I married his ex gf who knows. But we started working together, and though I never lost site of the fact he was the ex, we did become cool enough that he came to our wedding, stayed at our house a night or two etc. If I had a penny for all the ridicule about this guy I have heard, I would be rich. Now, it seems like they are more than likely talking/sexing each other?!? Wow. That was the #1 place she ragged him most was sex. I heard 3 f'n yrs how bad he sucked in bed. Hell I could TELL when I slept with her the first time that dude won't on my level. I have never seen a girl react like that. But, hey he is in that crowd of her friends, she is close to his sister again, and she always called him mother 'mama' and that always bothered me, i even mentioned it to her and she told me everyone did, which is actually true.
But I mean the girl is stupid, when you are intimate 3 months out of 8, something is wrong there, she had a restraining order on him when they split up. She left him because of drinking, which he is now worse even if he tries to hide it right now in front of her. He almost killed a family in November hitting them head on, and I hear he drinks worse now than before then. He was good with my stepson at the end she said, but he wasn't ready to live the life she NEEDS having a child, now she has 2 children. I even told her before we split, I could never see them two together now that I know him, he acts like a kid. He just turned 23. He lives at home with his mother, works where I used to (I got him the job) - and there is no money or stability there.
She came to me because I already had a child, I had my stuff together, I have a good job, have my college degree, he can barely spell college. Her track record shows, even with me she does ping pong between ex's, even me - but I have to say wtf is she thinking with him? Just because he is part of her crowd? Insane. I have learned that whoever she talks the most shit about, is who you have to watch out for obviously.
She says they are friends, she isn't involved with anyone, he did help her move into her new place. But, she kept justifying talking shit about him saying her and I did it too and we got back together, I did it with my ex etc..but damn we did it for a month, she has been doing it to him for 3 yrs, even when we all hung out and shit. There is a difference. She would say things like she wasn't going to say what she wouldn't do in the future, getting back with him was doubtful, then she said she wasn't getting back with him, then she said i didn't have to worry about that right now, then she said i didn't have to worry about it at all, not to take the 'right now' literally.
If you guys want to know what my deal is here. It's because when we split, they hung out then too, as far as I know always just in a crowd. I never felt threatened by him, I even told him then that she was doing it to piss me off, which she admitted. But they both told me he asked her about getting back together, and she said she was worrying about school and not a relationship. So it would be a few years from now. Then we end up back together, and I be damn if after I sacrificed everything I had for her and her son, to put her through school she is going to run back to this clown. We got married, we have a child and thats bullshit all around.
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Originally Posted by Vitruvian-Man
You sound like KP. I should fvcking post one.
